If you really want to get your ex boyfriend back then you've got to make him miss you. Regardless of what happened, the present state of your relationship is not going to change until you have made your ex boyfriend miss you.|If you're serious about getting your ex boyfriend back the first thing you need to do is to get him to miss you and start thinking about you again.

1. Using The No Contact Rule To Get Your Ex Boyfriend Back
Dear Kurt:
My boyfriend and I broke up a while back and I
realize now that I really want him back but I
don’t know how to get his attention without
looking desperate. Can you please help me?
-Sincerely Missing Him
Dear Missing Him:
I’m sorry that you’ve found yourself in this position but let me be the first to tell you that there is
definitely hope for you.
If you really want to get your ex boyfriend back then you’ve got to make him miss you.
Regardless of what happened, the present state of your relationship is not going to change until
you have made your ex boyfriend miss you.
By the time he starts reflecting on your relationship, thinking about the good times you had
together, and recalling how it feels to hold you in his arms again – that is when he will be ready
to reverse the break up. Your aim now is to get him to that point by your actions and words.
It’s Not Over Yet
When it comes time to get your ex boyfriend back there’s something that you need to keep in
mind. The most common mistake we as humans make when we’re trying to get someone back
after a breakup it to contact them incessantly because we think that they will move on without us
overnight. However, the reality of the situation is much different than what we think and I’ll
show you.
Imagine that you were the one who broke it off with your ex boyfriend? Do you think you would
move on right away? Of course not! You need to factor in the point that you two had a history
together and that the pain of the breakup is going to last for a while before either of you does
anything else with anyone.
Using The No Contact Rule With Your Ex Boyfriend
Now that you know why your ex boyfriend isn’t going to run off with someone else right after
the breakup, the next thing you need to do is to get him to think about you by not contacting him.
The theory behind this is simple: We want what we can’t have or don’t currently have and so if
your ex boyfriend doesn’t have any contact with you it stands to reason that at some point he will
want to.
However you have to be strong and commit to not contacting him under any circumstances. This
means:

2. Using The No Contact Rule To Get Your Ex Boyfriend Back
 No Text Messaging
 No Facebook
 No Twitter
 No Phone Calls
 No Messaging Through Friends
I think you get the picture. You need to cut all communication with him or else he’ll never start
to miss you.
Does It Work?
Hell yeah this works! But it only works if you follow through on the no contact part. If you slip
and drop him a tiny ‘how are you doing?’ text, then you’ve given the power during the breakup
back to him. As your ex boyfriend looks around to find out how you are dealing with the break
up, he should see nothing and I guarantee that after a few weeks of this your ex boyfriend is
definitely going to come searching for you.
He will do it under the guise of “calling to see how you’re doing”, or probably he will make up
some lame excuse to stop by your house and pick up something that belongs to him. He is going
to be curious, and when he calls you will need to know what to say. Dealing with your ex
boyfriend’s phone call correctly is an important part to winning him back.
Read more on how to deal with your ex boyfriend’s phone call
The End Result
Your ex boyfriend is going to be blown away! He’s going to worry that you are totally over him
and the relationship. He has absolutely no idea what is going on because it’s the exact opposite
of what he expected. He expected that you’d come running after him and that you’d beg him to
leave the door to the relationship open a crack in case he wanted to reconcile?
Well guess what. You just slammed it shut in his face. You have put him out of his comfort zone,
and made your ex boyfriend face the fact that he can’t play games with you at this moment. It is
either he chooses to take you back (and hopes you will accept) or he risks losing you forever.
If you want to get your ex boyfriend back, the first thing you need to do is to get his attention
again. Cutting off all contact will not only get his attention, but it gets him thinking about you
again as well and that’s exactly what you want.
Now before you go I want to introduce you to someone who has helped thousands of people who
have been in your exact situation. His methods are slightly unorthodox but they really work and
he’s really keen on helping folks just like you.
Meet T. Dub Jackson