This document provides guidance on effective openings for difficult conversations. It discusses that openings are important for laying the foundation and setting the right tone. An effective opening has four key elements - being appropriately sociable, stating the purpose of the meeting, stating a benefit for the other person, and checking their willingness to proceed. It then discusses each element in more detail and provides examples. The document emphasizes using first person statements to avoid accusations, crafting a good benefit statement, and ways to assess and increase receptivity if needed.