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This letter contains 24 tips for parents on how to raise children without causing undue stress or tension. The tips advise parents to be consistent, avoid harsh punishment, address misbehavior privately, not embarrass children, and provide understanding and encouragement. Following these tips helps children feel secure while also teaching them right from wrong.
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Name-calling “You are the sloppiest person, just look at your room!”
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Martyrdom “Why are you doing this to me, hard as I work?”
Comparisons “Why can’t you try as hard in school as your sister does?”
Sarcasm “You knew you had to get up early, but you were so smart and stayed up
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Prophecy “If you continue in the same manner, you’ll never amount to anything.”
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This article provides 10 tips for changes one can make to attract girls and have an edge in finding love. The tips include smiling confidently, dressing stylishly, making eye contact and approaching girls, listening well in conversations, having good hygiene like smelling good, teasing girls in a fun and lighthearted way, not buying girls things or trying too hard when first meeting them, taking care of one's body by working out, and having a good personality by being confident but not cocky and projecting strength and independence.
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- 1. Dear Mum & Dad Source: From Bringing Up Kids Without Tearing Them Down by Dr Kevin Leman (Pictures from the web)
- 2. 1. Don’t spoil me. I know quite well that I ought not to have all I ask for. I’m only testing you.
- 3. 2. Don’t be afraid to be firm with me. I prefer it. It lets me know where I stand.
- 4. 3. Don’t use force with me. It teaches me that power is all that counts. I will respond more readily to being led.
- 5. 4. Don’t be inconsistent. That confuses me and makes me try harder to get away with everything I can.
- 6. 5. Don’t make promises you may not be able to keep them. That will discourage my trust in you.
- 7. 6. Don’t fall for my provocations when I say and do things just to upset you. Then I’ll try for more such “victories.”
- 8. 7. Don’t make me feel smaller than I am. I will make up for it by behaving like a “big shot”.
- 9. 8. Don’t do things for me that I can do for myself. It makes me feel like a baby, and I may continue to put you in my service.
- 10. 9. Don’t let my “bad habits” get me a lot of your attention. It only encourages me to continue them.
- 11. 10. Don’t correct me in front of people. I’ll take much more notice if you talk quietly with me in private.
- 12. 11. Don’t try to discuss my behaviour in the heat of a conflict. For some reason my hearing is not very good at this time and my cooperation is even worse. It is all right to take the action required, but let’s not talk about it until later.
- 13. 12. Don’t preach to me. You’d be surprised how well I know what’s right and wrong..
- 14. 13. Don’t make me feel that my mistakes are sins. I have to learn to make mistakes without feeling that I am no good.
- 15. 14. Don’t nag. If you do, I shall have to protect myself by appearing deaf.
- 16. 15. Don’t demand explanations for my wrong behaviour. I really don’t know why I did it.
- 17. 16. Don’t tax my honesty too much. I am easily frightened into telling lies.
- 18. 17. Don’t forget that I love to experiment. I learn from it, so please put up with it.
- 19. 18. Don’t take too much notice of my small ailments. I may learn to enjoy poor health if it gets me much attention.
- 20. 19. Don’t put me off when I ask honest questions. If you do, you will find that I stop asking and seek my information elsewhere.
- 21. 20. Don’t answer “silly” or meaningless questions. I just want you to keep busy with me.
- 22. 21. Don’t ever think that it is beneath your dignity to apologise to me. An honest apology makes me feel surprisingly warm towards you.
- 23. 22. Don’t ever suggest that you are perfect or infallible. It gives me too much to live up to.
- 24. 23. Don’t let my fears arouse your anxiety. Then I will become more afraid. Show me courage.
- 25. 24. Don’t forget that I can’t thrive without lots of understanding and encouragement, but I don’t need to tell you that, do I?
- 26. The End