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1. How To Turn Everybody On

2. I just read this interesting piece of
"news" about some famous
psychologist.

3. I put "news" in quotes because it's one
of those self-evident things we all
know anyway, but because it's in some
new book by a famous person the
news goofs act like its a new discovery.

4. Anyhow, the shocking news is that
when people meet us, there are two
things they sort for within the first
couple seconds.

5. One is whether or not they can trust
us, and another is whether or not they
can respect us.

6. Meaning we can't be shifty, and we
can't walk around drooling on
ourselves.

7. I know, shocking insight, right?

8. But here's the thing. Just knowing
what to do isn't enough. It's not even
"half the battle" as G.I. Joe famously
said.

9. For example if you were struggling
with your weight, and some goof told
you to, "eat less," that really wouldn't
help.

10. Since every person that struggles with
their weight REALLY struggles with
how to manage hunger.

11. If all we had to do was to just "eat
less" as if were as easy as wearing
purple, we'd all be skinny.

12. The problem comes in HOW to do
those "simple" things.

13. Like just HOW do you project the
INSTANT idea that people can trust
you?

14. Wear a T-Shirt that says, "Don't worry,
I won't kill you!"

15. That probably wouldn't help.

16. One way would be to be emotionally
open. People who are SCARED often
put up a protective vibe. This
unfortunately comes across as you not
trusting others.

17. And if YOU don't trust OTHERS, how
the heck are they supposed to trust
you?

18. This is one of those catch-22's. You
don't to become vulnerable unless
THEY prove to YOU that you can trust
them.

19. But THEY won't trust YOU unless you
are vulnerable. Since they don't know
you.

20. It's like we've all got the same plan.
Which is to wait for the OTHER
PERSON to let their guard down FIRST.

21. How can you avoid this never ending
trap?

22. Go to the source.

23. That time, way back in your history,
when you trusted EVERYBODY.

24. Only after a while did you LEARN that
sometimes it was difficult and even
SCARY to openly express yourself.

25. Parents, school, other adults that don't
want to be bothered with a little kid.

26. They didn't mean it, but they sure did
a number on you!

27. It happened to ALL OF US.

28. You were once a super out-spoken,
emotionally open, pure expression
MACHINE.

29. Until somebody turned you off.

30. Sure it was an accident. But it still
happened.

31. Luckily, YOU have access to the switch.

32. And when you turn yourself back ON,
you'll also be turning everybody else
ON.

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