Today's society is a society that advocates money and status. They often compare themselves with each other, comparing houses, cars, and status. The result is a series of complaints. And the more you complain, the more sorrow you feel in your heart. Even, a lot of psychology says that as long as you speak out, the complaints in your heart will be calmed down, but is this really the case? Now we are going to talk about the topic of complaining, how can we stop complaining, whether we can complain to people, and how to complain to God, because this world is actually in the hands of God, and only by pouring out our hearts to Him can we calm down our hearts 's complaint.

1. Disciple Building Sharing
A177 How to deal with complaints in your
heart
Is it okay to complain to someone? Can you
complain to God? , How to complain to God?

2. Preface
• Today's society is a society that advocates money and
status. They often compare themselves with each
other, comparing houses, cars, and status. The result is
a series of complaints. And the more you complain, the
more sorrow you feel in your heart. Even, a lot of
psychology says that as long as you speak out, the
complaints in your heart will be calmed down, but is
this really the case? Now we are going to talk about the
topic of complaining, how can we stop complaining,
whether we can complain to people, and how to
complain to God, because this world is actually in the
hands of God, and only by pouring out our hearts to
Him can we calm down our hearts 's complaint.

3. Outline
• complain
• Can you complain to someone?
• Can you complain to God?
• How to complain to God?

4. complain
• 1Cor. 10:10 “nor complain, as some of them also
complained, and were destroyed by the
destroyer.”
• Phil. 2:14 “Do all things without complaining and
disputing,”
• 1Pet. 4:9 “Be hospitable to one another without
grumbling.”
• James. 5:9 “Do not grumble against one another,
brethren, lest you be condemned. Behold, the
Judge is standing at the door!”

5. complain
• 8 complaining/Judge not/idle word Speaking
can defiles a man/ Keep your heart ppp
• https://discussion4disciple.blogspot.com/2020/
09/8-complainingjudge-notidle-word.html
• Exodus 16:8 8 Also Moses said, “This shall be
seen when the LORD gives you meat to eat in the
evening, and in the morning bread to the full; for
the LORD hears your complaints which you make
against Him. And what are we? Your complaints
are not against us but against the LORD.”

6. complain
• Numbers 11:1 Now when the people
complained, it displeased the LORD; for the
LORD heard it, and His anger was aroused. So
the fire of the LORD burned among them, and
consumed some in the outskirts of the camp.
• Psalm 106:25 They grumbled in their
tents and did not obey the LORD.

7. Can you complain to someone?
• Matt. 15:18 “But those things which proceed
out of the mouth come from the heart, and
they defile a man.”
• Matt. 15:19 “For out of the heart proceed evil
thoughts, murders, adulteries, fornications,
thefts, false witness, blasphemies.”

8. Can you complain to God?
• 1 Samuel 1:1 Now there was a certain man of Ramathaim
Zophim, of the mountains of Ephraim, and his name was
Elkanah the son of Jeroham, the son of Elihu,[a] the son of
Tohu,[b] the son of Zuph, an Ephraimite.
• 1 Samuel 1:2 2 And he had two wives: the name of one was
Hannah, and the name of the other Peninnah. Peninnah
had children, but Hannah had no children.
• 1 Samuel 1:4 4 And whenever the time came for Elkanah to
make an offering, he would give portions to Peninnah his
wife and to all her sons and daughters.
• 1 Samuel 1:5 5 But to Hannah he would give a double
portion, for he loved Hannah, although the LORD had
closed her womb.

9. Can you complain to God?
• 1 Samuel 1:6 6 And her rival also provoked her
severely, to make her miserable, because the
LORD had closed her womb.
• 1 Samuel 1:8 8 Then Elkanah her husband said to
her, “Hannah, why do you weep? Why do you not
eat? And why is your heart grieved? Am I not
better to you than ten sons?”
• 1 Samuel 1:10 10 And she was in bitterness of
soul, and prayed to the LORD and wept in
anguish.

10. How to complain to God?
• 1 Samuel 1:11 11 Then she made a vow and said, “O LORD
of hosts, if You will indeed look on the affliction of Your
maidservant and remember me, and not forget Your
maidservant, but will give Your maidservant a male child,
then I will give him to the LORD all the days of his life, and
no razor shall come upon his head.”
• 1 Samuel 1:13 13 Now Hannah spoke in her heart; only her
lips moved, but her voice was not heard. Therefore Eli
thought she was drunk.
• 1 Samuel 1:15 15 But Hannah answered and said, “No, my
lord, I am a woman of sorrowful spirit. I have drunk neither
wine nor intoxicating drink, but have poured out my soul
before the LORD.

11. How to complain to God?
• 1 Samuel 1:16 16 “Do not consider your
maidservant a wicked woman,[d] for out of the
abundance of my complaint and grief I have
spoken until now.”
• 1 Samuel 1:17 17 Then Eli answered and said, “Go
in peace, and the God of Israel grant your petition
which you have asked of Him.”
• 1 Samuel 1:18 18 And she said, “Let your
maidservant find favor in your sight.” So the
woman went her way and ate, and her face was
no longer sad.

12. How to complain to God?
• Isaiah 26:16 LORD, they came to you in their
distress; when you disciplined them, they could
barely whisper a prayer.
• A90 The begin steps that prayers are heard, John
9:31, God-is your God, God-is your God/check,
Jesus lives with me/check, sinner, only way,
worships God, does his will ppp
• https://discussion4disciple.blogspot.com/2021/
08/a90-begin-steps-that-prayers-are-heard.html

13. How to complain to God?
• A123 Request God/prayer, The purpose of
prayer/world vision, The object of prayer, the
authority of prayer, Basic requirements of
prayer ppp
• https://discussion4disciple.blogspot.com/20
21/11/a123-request-godprayer-purpose-
of.html

14. No reason to complain
• Lamentations 3:39 39 Why should a living man
complain, A man for the punishment of his
sins?

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