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“Hey, give me
your business
card!”
People buy from people, they don’t buy from
companies.
So it makes sense to get to know more
people!
It can be hard starting a
conversation with
someone you don’t
know …..
So start by using
OAR-ation
Occupation
Ask: What do you do?
• “How long have you been doing
that?”
• “That sounds interesting, tell me
more”
• “What does that entail?”
Association
Ask: How are you associated
with this event?
• “Are you a member here too?”
• “Are you a regular attendee of
these events?”
• “Do you know the organizer?”
Recreation
Ask: What do you do in
your down time?
• “What do you have planned for the
weekend?”
• “Do you follow any particular sport?”
• “Tell me about your hobbies”
Follow up
Don’t forget to follow up
• No point in going if you end it there
• Agree to follow up if they are
receptive
• Telephone to reconnect, don’t
email
Then say Hello to someone else …
• Get out to more places!
• Mix the locations up a little
• Find some commonality
• Use OAR-ation
• And start with Hello 

www.bluebanana.co.nz

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A Simple Formula To Start A Conversation With Someone You Don't Know

  • 1. “Hey, give me your business card!”
  • 2. People buy from people, they don’t buy from companies.
  • 3. So it makes sense to get to know more people!
  • 4. It can be hard starting a conversation with someone you don’t know …..
  • 5. So start by using OAR-ation
  • 7. Ask: What do you do? • “How long have you been doing that?” • “That sounds interesting, tell me more” • “What does that entail?”
  • 9. Ask: How are you associated with this event? • “Are you a member here too?” • “Are you a regular attendee of these events?” • “Do you know the organizer?”
  • 11. Ask: What do you do in your down time? • “What do you have planned for the weekend?” • “Do you follow any particular sport?” • “Tell me about your hobbies”
  • 13. Don’t forget to follow up • No point in going if you end it there • Agree to follow up if they are receptive • Telephone to reconnect, don’t email
  • 14. Then say Hello to someone else …
  • 15. • Get out to more places! • Mix the locations up a little • Find some commonality • Use OAR-ation • And start with Hello  www.bluebanana.co.nz