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Envy
Intense negative feelings over the
success, achievement, and/or
prosperity of others.
Envy asks, “Why them?”

Gratitude asks, “Why me?”
Whenever you’re trying to look
better than others or get the better
of others, things fall apart and
everyone ends up at the others’
throats. (James 3:16 Message Bible)
Diagnostic Check:
 1. Do you secretly get upset when others
            succeed around you?
 2. Do you belittle the accomplishment of
                   others?
3. Are you tempted to bad mouth a person to
           whom you feel inferior?
   4. Are you secretly pleased when a friend,
        family member suffer a setback?
Bitterness, Resentment, and
Emptiness are best friends with
           ENVY!
Biblical Illustrations of Bitterness, Resentment,
               Emptiness, and ENVY.
            1. Cain and Abel (Gen 4:3-8)
       2. Jacob vs. Brothers (Gen 37:11,28)
       3. Rachel envied Leah (Gen 30:1)
      4. Saul envied David (1 Sam 19:9-10)
   5. High Priest vs. Apostles (Acts 5:17-18)
  6. Jews vs. Paul & Barnabas (Acts 13:45-50)
Aeschylus
“Few men have the
strength to honor
a friend’s success
without envy.”
Envy’s Strategy
1. Ostracism
2. Gossip & Slander
3. Litigation
4. The “Evil Eye”
5. Violence
Remedy for Envy
1. Admit it!
2. Apologize
3. Cleanse and Maintain
(prayer fasting)
Ignore this slide and the next slide
Other Agape features as seen in Jesus
1. Is not afraid to make itself vulnerable
2. Helps others and seeks their highest good.
3. Values others as worthy ends in themselves,
and does not merely use them as a means to an end.
4. Not merely emotional, but devotional
3 Vision Points
 1. Maturing
2. Soulwinning
3 . Expanding
Vision Point 1
                       Maturing
 Christian maturity means to grow in Christ-likness
a. Attendance-general services & ancillary classes/programs
b. Timeliness
c. Commit to daily prayer & bible reading
d. Be a Covenant Keeper
Vision Point 2 Soulwinning
     Luke 19:10; Matt 28:19-20
Statistics in church growth tendencies
             3 out of 10 stick
Vision Point 3 Expanding
New Journey Expansion Project
LOVE

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Envy loves enemy

  • 1.
  • 2. Envy Intense negative feelings over the success, achievement, and/or prosperity of others.
  • 3. Envy asks, “Why them?” Gratitude asks, “Why me?”
  • 4. Whenever you’re trying to look better than others or get the better of others, things fall apart and everyone ends up at the others’ throats. (James 3:16 Message Bible)
  • 5. Diagnostic Check: 1. Do you secretly get upset when others succeed around you? 2. Do you belittle the accomplishment of others? 3. Are you tempted to bad mouth a person to whom you feel inferior? 4. Are you secretly pleased when a friend, family member suffer a setback?
  • 6. Bitterness, Resentment, and Emptiness are best friends with ENVY!
  • 7. Biblical Illustrations of Bitterness, Resentment, Emptiness, and ENVY. 1. Cain and Abel (Gen 4:3-8) 2. Jacob vs. Brothers (Gen 37:11,28) 3. Rachel envied Leah (Gen 30:1) 4. Saul envied David (1 Sam 19:9-10) 5. High Priest vs. Apostles (Acts 5:17-18) 6. Jews vs. Paul & Barnabas (Acts 13:45-50)
  • 8. Aeschylus “Few men have the strength to honor a friend’s success without envy.”
  • 9. Envy’s Strategy 1. Ostracism 2. Gossip & Slander 3. Litigation 4. The “Evil Eye” 5. Violence
  • 10. Remedy for Envy 1. Admit it! 2. Apologize 3. Cleanse and Maintain (prayer fasting)
  • 11. Ignore this slide and the next slide
  • 12. Other Agape features as seen in Jesus 1. Is not afraid to make itself vulnerable 2. Helps others and seeks their highest good. 3. Values others as worthy ends in themselves, and does not merely use them as a means to an end. 4. Not merely emotional, but devotional
  • 13. 3 Vision Points 1. Maturing 2. Soulwinning 3 . Expanding
  • 14. Vision Point 1 Maturing Christian maturity means to grow in Christ-likness a. Attendance-general services & ancillary classes/programs b. Timeliness c. Commit to daily prayer & bible reading d. Be a Covenant Keeper
  • 15. Vision Point 2 Soulwinning Luke 19:10; Matt 28:19-20 Statistics in church growth tendencies 3 out of 10 stick
  • 16. Vision Point 3 Expanding New Journey Expansion Project
  • 17.
  • 18. LOVE