2. The moment a child is Born, the mother is also
Born. She never existed before. The woman
existed, but the mother, never. A mother is
something absolutely NEW.
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4. After my daughter popped out at 8 pounds, 2 ounces, I stared at my
still-protruding belly in shock, and cried when someone man asked me
when I was due — two weeks after I had delivered.
I cried pretty often back then: news stories, Kleenex commercials, at
one wrong word said by my husband. I spent my days at home, wishing I
could get some sleep and kept lying to my friends who called to ask if
everything was okay.
I was exhausted, hormonal and grumpy, and I felt trapped in my house,
wondering if I’d ever feel normal again.
I knew those first weeks with baby would be hard, but I didn’t know how
hard. And I just didn’t know what to do …….
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5. Beware
More than 60% of maternal
deaths take
place during postpartum
period
First 48 hours are most crucial;
hence length of stay in health
facility is 48 hours , Most
maternal and neonatal
complications
occur during this period.
Excessive bleeding after
delivery
Perineal pain - Haemotama/
incisions/lacerations
Vaginal discharge
Breast problems, such as
swollen breasts, infection and
clogged ducts
Hemorrhoids and constipation
Urinary or fecal (stool)
incontinence
Thrombophlebitis
Hair loss
Stretch marks
Postpartum depression
Discomfort during sex
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8. PUEPERIAL INFECTION:
Warning signs
Fever
Abdominal pain
The woman feels ill
Swollen, red or tender breasts, or sore nipples
Dribbling of urine or painful micturition
Pain in the perineum, or pus draining from the
perineal area
Foul-smelling lochia.
INFECTION OF THE GENITAL TRACT, usually of
the endometrium, that may remain localized
or may extend to various parts of the body
Diagnosis is made by
sustained fever of 38°C
(100.4°F) or higher occurring
on any two of the first 10 days
postpartum, excluding the
first 24 hours
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9. Post Partum care & Hygiene
Not to be left unattended; any change in condition should be reported
Not to insert anything into the vagina.
To change the perineal pads every 4-6 hours, or more frequently, if there is
heavy lochia.
To wash the perineum daily and after passing stools. Wash in an
anteroposterior direction from the vulva to the anus.
To bathe daily, wash her hands before handling the baby..
To have enough rest and sleep.
To avoid sexual intercourse for the first six weeks or until the perineal wound
heals, whichever is later.
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10. Post partum depression/Psychosis
1. Exaggerated and prolonged
periods of irritability,
moodiness, hostility, fatigue
2. Ineffective coping
3. Withdrawal and
inappropriate response to
the infant or family
4. Loss of interest in activities
5. Insomnia
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11. Differentiate
BABY BLUES : developmental crisis – adjustments -new role of parent,
added responsibilities, fatigue after all the excitement that goes with
the birth. 70-80% of women will experience depressive symptoms that70-80% of women will experience depressive symptoms that
disappear within a few weeksdisappear within a few weeks
POSTPARTUM DEPRESSION: 10% experience some degree of postpartum10% experience some degree of postpartum
depression which can last a yeardepression which can last a year
POSTPARTUM PSYCHOSIS: Higher risk associated with bipolar disorder
and schizoaffective disorder
If left untreated, can lead to:
Child Abuse
Suicide
InfanticideZest Sexual Health Clinic, East street , Camp Pune
12. Postpartum care may be affected by
cultural beliefs, Gender bias
Signs and symptoms may be overlooked, making the
diagnosis of depression difficult
Management:
Counseling – psychologist/psychotherapist
Medications- SSRIs - fluoxetine (Prozac) 10-60 mg/d,
sertraline (Zoloft) 50-200 mg/d, paroxetine (Paxil) 20-60
mg/d, citalopram (Celexa) 20-60 mg/d, or escitalopram
(Lexapro) 10-20 mg/d
SNRIs such as venlafaxine (Effexor) 75-300 mg/d or
duloxetine (Cymbalta) 40-60 mg/d
Support from
family
and friends
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15. Accepting the new NORMAL
Take care of the
mother so that
she can take
care of the baby
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16. Family planning - Cafeteria Aproach
When not exclusively
breastfeeding can become
pregnant as soon as four weeks
after delivery if sexually active
Non-hormonal methods –
LAM-lactational amenorrhea method
Barrier methods
IUCD
Sterilization
Hormonal methods:
POP progersterone only pills- Milk
production unaffected.
Estrogen may reduce the amount of breast
milk.
Safer for women who are older than 35
and smoke, have high blood pressure, or
have a history of blood clots
Inform about all contraceptive choices in postpartum period
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17. What is the new acceptable “NORMAL”
Accumulating the
pregnancy flab-
has been
associated
with being
overweight or
obese 15 to 20
years later in
life"
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18. DIET AND SUPPLEMENTS
SHE CAN EAT NORMAL FOOD
NONE OF THESE will harm the breast fed baby
Diet to be rich in iron & fiber
Counseling family members like mother in law, husband
Counseling on diet especially for adolescent mother
IFA Supplementation
Women with normal Hb are advised to take 1 IFA tablet daily for 3 months
If Hb below 11 gm%, advise her to take 2 IFA tabs daily and repeat Hb after
1 month
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19. Keep going- One step at a time
If you started out at a normal weight and gained the 25-35
pounds your doctor probably recommended, it shouldn't
take you more than a couple of months to get back to your
pre-pregnancy weight if you watch what you eat
and exercise
If, on the other hand, you were overweight before your
pregnancy or you put on more weight than your doctor
advised
It could take much longer -- up to a year -- to get the
weight off. Any baby weight you don't take off could stick
with you for a long time.
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20. PATIENCE
GOING ON AN OFFICIAL "DIET" could derail your post-
pregnancy weight loss goals.
Feeling deprived of your favourite foods while you're already
stressed out by your new role as mom could actually cause
you to gain weight
"It took nine months to get there.
It should take at least that long to get back
to the fighting weight”
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21. Go NATURAL
"If you go back to eating healthy and eating for your
hunger, most women find that the weight comes off
pretty naturally
Instead of dieting, it is recommended eating a well-
balanced variety of foods. Keep different snacks in the
house to keep you from feeling hungry and give you
energy throughout the day. Apple slices, carrot sticks, dry
fruits almonds, raisins, walnuts, figs, are all good for
noshing
No matter how much you want to lose weight, try not to
dip below 1800 calories a day, particularly if you
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22. Drink up
Prevents you from getting dehydrated.
It also fills you up so that you don't eat as much
Research has found that it may speed up
your metabolism
How much is enough ?? - your urine should be
relatively clear, and you should be going to the
bathroom about every three to four hours.
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23. Get some sleep.
Being sleep deprived could make it harder for you to shed the baby weight.
When you're tired, your body releases cortisol and other stress hormones that
can promote weight gain. "Also when you're exhausted, you don't feel like
taking good care of yourself,“
"You are less likely to choose healthy foods. You are more likely to grab
something like fast foods or sweets.
You're also less likely to get physical activity.
RECOMMENDED- SEVEN HOURS
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25. When to resume sex life ??
Men crave sex more even when
they are tired
to feel emotionally close to their
partners and also to relax
Four to six weeks, i.e. after stopping the
vaginal discharge (lochia- Predisposes to
infections)
Vaginal delivery/C-section
Stitches on the perineum – wait longer
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26. Challenges
Lack of sleep- smothers the sex
drive
Hormonal changes after birth-
lack of lubrication
Lubrication issues go away after
stopping breast feeding or
resuming your period
Constant breast feeding duties get
in the way
Constant nursing or pumping milk
makes the breasts tender
And they look different –
frightening for males
Body changes – how woman feels
about her post baby body- Is she
feeling sexy
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27. There are not just TWO people in the bed
But THREE !
Explore the alternatives
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28. Be honest- what is holding you back
A common feeling is
resentment about being stuck at home,
feeding and changing diapers
While the male partners get to go out,
work, socialise and spend time with friends
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29. Intimacy
Sex is not about just sexual intercourse, it is about “pleasuring each other
and there are many ways to do that”
Consider other modalities even erotic massage or manual stimulation
Even if you are not feeling sexual try and connect with your partner, kissing,
holding hands, hugging or cuddling
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30. Importance of Post-Natal Exercises
Improve circulation
Strengthen pelvic floor muscle
Prevent backache
Strengthen the tummy muscles
Low impact exercise is preferable
during postnatal period
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31. Principles
Frequency
Intensity-mild to moderate exercise are recommended
Duration-30 minutes of exercise per day
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32. Begin as early as you can
Deep breathing exercise
Lie on bed with knees bent, with a pillow behind
Breathe in deeply through nose. Sigh out. Repeat 5 times.
Breathing exercises help to improve your circulation
Foot And Ankle Exercise
Keep Knees Relaxed For Both Exercises.
Bend and stretch ankles vigorouslyup and down for 30 seconds.
Circle both feet 10 times in each direction.
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33. Concentrate on your below navel area
Pelvic floor muscles are stretched
during pregnancy and childbirth.
Strong pelvic floor muscles are
essential to prevent leakage of
urine when sneeze or cough, for
enjoyable sexual intercourse and
to give complete control of
bowels.
Strong muscles will also help
prevent developing uterine
prolapse
KEGELS:
can do this exercise standing,
sitting or lying.
Pull the area around vagina up and
down
The contraction should be held for
10 seconds (to a count of 6) and
repeated upto 10 times
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34. Create a Routine
WALKING
Low Ab Leg Raises
Pelvic tilt
Cat arch pose
AB Crunches
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35. PELVIC TILT
Lie on a firm surface with knees bent and a
comfortable pillow beneath the head
Abs CRUNCHES
On the 2nd
post partum day-Lie flat and raise head until the
chin is touching the chest.
On the 3 rd post partum day-raise both head and shoulder
off the bed and lower them slowly , increase gradually.
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37. LEG RAISES- can begin
from the 7 th post
partum day
KNEE ROLLING- to strengthen the
oblique abdominal muscles
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39. Move it !
Incorporate aerobic exercises: taking a brisk
walk with your baby in the stroller is enough to
get your heart pumping and muscles working.
Strength training exercises : Use light weights
-- couple of soup cans, frozen milk bags for
resistance, or even pick up your Little one
Many health clubs and community centers offer
"Mommy And Me" classes that will let you
incorporate your baby into your workout
routine.
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An age old slogan...mother should eat not for one but for two..A mother should look like a mother and not a young teenager...
We in fact tend to malnourish the mother
Some women are extremely possessive of their prized possession !
Mommy and baby bonding ----remember in the end –your child will follow your example and not your advice
Parents have to become role models