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1. The couple live togetherashusbandandwife withoutmarriage.Afteraperiod,if theyfeel suitable
completely,theywill getmarriage official and registerthe marriage underthe law.Andif itdoesnotfit,
theywill splitup,noneedto legislation.Theycall it"cohabitation". Accordingtothe surveyof HCM city,
in2013, about one thirdof youngpeople live togetherbefore marriage.
Cohabitationisnota newphenomenonbutitisneveroldandhas become increasinglypopularin
presentday.Besidesthe objections, there are still manyopinionsagree thatitisessential in presentlife.
In myopinion,Idon’tobjecttotallycohabitationbutalsoIdon’tencourage cohabitationinVietnam.
Because withVietnamesepeople,thisisadifferentdimensionabouttraditionandconception.
There are manyreasonsto lead to“cohabitation”,there couldbe a life sofarfromhome,no parents
around,due to emotional deprivation.Itcan be the familyisnothappy, parentalwaysfightorparents
do notcare about the children.Itmaybe due to the penetrationof Westernculture inVietnam.
Cohabitationisalsopossible due tomovementof youngpeopletoday,oritmay be due to try to save
lives,tohave more time together.There are manyyoungpeople feelreallynormal aboutcohabitation
and have easyconceptionaboutcohabitation.
We can say that aftercohabiting,couples cancome togetherand endwitha happylife,itwasa most
happyendingandmake sure there will notbe toomany people oppose cohabitation.Simplybecause
there isthe endthat all cohabitingcouplesare desired.There are alsocouple suppose thatcohabitation
isa necessitybefore marriage,isa premise tohave ahappymarriage,if theyfeel invalid,thenbreakup,
it doesnotmatterbecause cohabitationisbybothvoluntary. Andthe questionisthathow many
percentof people live togetherbefore marriage thatendswithahappylife?
Cohabitation ismostlydabbleinfadandnot a future orientationismarriedornot.There are 1001
reasonsyougive to justifycohabitation,butthe resultisnobodyconcerneduntil itappears.
One of the mostimportantreasonthat nocohabitantwantsis that have unwantedpregnancies.
Responsible forit?Howmanypeople have the abilitytotake responsibilityfortheiractionwhile they
evenbe fedandclothedbytheirparents.Thatwouldbe no surprise whenthe national average each
yearabout 300,000 cases of abortionat the age of 15-19, including60-70%.
Cohabitation bringmore difficultiesthanwhatpeople imagineaboutit,andindeed,incohabitational
life,people are lessresponsibilitytoeachother.Cohabitationisnotasustainable lifebecause mostly
aftera temporaryperiod, the impactof everydaylife easilymake people tiredof each other,especially
the pair of students"cohabitation",whostill bringfearof learning,fearof moneyare the more
frustrating.
Cohabitation makestwopeople knoweachothersowell,boringandmonotonous.The contradictionsof
everydaylife isinevitable.Whenyouare notreally belongtogether,thenthe splitisentirelyprobable.
Once cohabitationisbroken,the one sufferalossisgirl.Many girlsreachan impasse aftercohabitation
thensuicide. The rate of abortioninVietnam isincreasingrapidly andVietnamisone of the country
have the highestabortionrate inthe world. Theyare not sufficienteconomicresources,awarenessof
responsibilityandconsequences isstill shallow.
Once "cohabitation"butyoucan be a husbandor wife, there alsoleftmanyscarsand psychological
probleminthe future.

2. Cohabitation ornot?Thisis a verydifficultquestiontoanswerandit dependsonthe wayof thinkingof
each person.Itisno absolute answer because cohabitationisasensitive issue.Itmayworkif bothof
cohabitantare absolutelymature inbothphysical andspirit,theycan really take aresponsibilityof each
otherand protectthe partner life evenafterbreakup. Soyoungpeople,beforedecidingcohabitation,
youmust thinkcarefully,whydowe have tobringour life totry?Or draft? Letmake a verywise decision
so that youdon’tregretafteryou getmarriedreally.