1. self-fulfilling messaging
The words we say to our children can become “self-
fulfillingprophecies”. Our children can carry these
words in their hearts, throughout their lives. Indeed, just
as childhoodwoundscan have consequences beyond
childhood,positivewords can have a positive impact
long after our children enter adulthood.
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100 phrases that are good for our children
1. I love you
2. I love you the way you are
3. I'm here for you
4. I will always be there
5. I'm so proud of you
6. I was so proud of you when you (...)
7. You make me laugh
8. It's OK
9. It's okay
10. Whatever!
2. 11. What do you need?
12. I'm listening
13. Let's talk about it
14. I'll think about it
15. I'm sorry
16. I was wrong
17. It happens
18. I know you didn't do it on purpose
19. I forgive you
20. I beg your pardon
21. I believe in you
22. I need your help
23. I need a hug
24. I love your hugs
25. Do you want a hug?
26. Don't let go
27. I know you're gonna get there
28. You are such a nice sister (or brother)
29. You are so awesome how you (…)
30. You will be nice as (…)
3. 31. You are going to do good things
32. I know you will be great
33. You have everything you need
34. It will be easy for you
35. I will help you
36. Tell me how can I help you get better?
37. You can try tomorrow
38. What can I do?
39. Do it together
40. I won't let go
41. I understand
42. I will support you whatever you decide
43. Help me understand
44. You can be anythingyou want
45. Are we hanging out?
46. What are you cool!
47. I'm glad you're here
48. I like spending time with you
49. Show me what to do
50. You are interesting
4. 51. There is no one like you in the whole world
52. I adore you
53. Yes!
54. I know you are going to make the right decision
55. It's your decision
56. We will find the solution
57. What do you want to do?
58. What do you think?
59. We will try your proposal
60. You always have such great ideas
61. What a memory!
62. I know you did your best
63. You are my ray of sunshine!
64. You are good enough
65. You don't have to be perfect
66. You don't have to be like your friends / sisters
67. Thanks for trying
68. Thank you for being a son (daughter) ...
69. You can stop whenever you want
70. You can tell me anything
5. 71. I will do my best
72. I like to see you happy
73. You are my top priority (you and your sisters /
brothers…)
74. You are right
75. That's a great question
76. I don't know
77. I love it when you come with me
78. You have such an interesting way of (…)
79. Wow! How did you think about that?
80. Come with me
81. I enjoy your company.
82. You make me smile
83. What a beautifulsmile!
84. You are beautiful
85. Yes, you can!
86. You'll have it next time
87. Thingswill get better
88. I miss you / I will miss you / I missed you
89. It's going to be fine
6. 90. You are in your place
91. You are hot!
92. It's great how you alwaysdefend your ideas
93. I respect you
94. You have the right to respect
95. You always finish first!
96. I know you are going to achieve good things!
97. We are very lucky to have you with us
98. We wouldn't be the same without you
99. I was thinkingof the moment when you have (…)
100. I was telling (…) how funny / interesting / nice you
are……
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