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PERSONAL CHARACTERISTICS OF
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TECHNIQUE AND DIFFERENT …
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TERMINOLOGY …
 CLINICAL PSYCHOLOGY: g‡bv-wPwKrmv weÁvb
CLINICIAN: Clinical psychologist (g‡bv wPwKrmK)
 client: counselee
 therapeutic or therapist: Relating
with healing…
 Clinical assessment: PSYCHOLOGICAL TEST
( DAP, HTP, IQ TEST…) intervention program…
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WHAT IS…
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The branch of psychology concerned with the
assessment and treatment of mental illness and
behavioral problems.
- wK¬wb‡Kj mvB‡KvjwR nj g‡bvweÁv‡bi †m kvLv †hLv‡b e¨vw³i gvbwmK
I AvPiYMZ mgm¨v mgvav‡b mv‡KvjwR‡Kj †U÷/G‡mm‡g›U e¨envi K‡i
wbivg‡qi Rb¨ KvR Kiv nq|
- wK¬wb‡Kj mvB‡KvjwR --- cªv‡qvwMK/e¨evnvwiK g‡bvweÁvb,,,
- wK¬wb‡Kj mvB‡KvjwR g~jZ: --- g‡bv-wPwKrmv weÁvb,,,
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Clinical psychologist: a member of a profession
devoted to understanding and treating individuals
affected by a variety of emotional, behavioral, and
cognitive difficulties.
- wK¬wb‡Kj mvB‡KvjwR÷ (g‡bvwPwKrmK), mgv‡R hviv wewfbœ
Av‡ewMK, AvPiYZM Ges eyw×MZ w`‡K mgm¨vMÖ¯’/ÿwZMÖ¯’,
Zv‡`i eyS‡Z Ges wbivgq Ki‡Z gnvb †ckvq AvZ¥ wb‡ew`ZGKRb e¨w³|
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11. The clinical Psychologist..
In terms of the problems : Hopeless… like
depression, anxiety, personality disorders, mental
retardation/disability মানসিক প্রসিবন্ধী, learning
disability, addicted, vocational problems…
Behavior
Involved…
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12.  Therapy/ Intervention:
 TEACHING…
 CLINICAL SUPPERVISION
 RESEARCH…
 ADMINISTRATION…
Activities of Clinical Psychologists…
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 Diagnosis/Assessment: ( Identification of the
illness or problem by examination of the symptom)

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Clinician’s Activities ( 2008)
SN. Activity Percentage
1. Psychotherapy 84
2. Diagnosis/
Assessment
74
3. Teaching 50
4. Clinical Supervision 62
5. Research/ writing 47
6. Consultation 54
7. Administration 75
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Sister M. Supriti,SMRA

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The 11 theories of counseling will help us to re-evaluate … our
development as a person.
( e¨w³ wn‡m‡e wb‡R‡`iKv‡RiweKv‡ki/ AMÖMwZiGes cybg©~j¨vq‡bi Rb¨KvDwÝwjs-GiGB
11wUZZ¡we‡klfv‡emvnvh¨Ki‡e )|
1. Psychoanalytic therapy- (Sigmund Freud) focus on unconscious
factors that motivate behavior (Ae‡PZb g‡bi welq hv AvPiY‡K cÖfvweZ K‡i) (first to 6
years) later develop our Personality. Child hood memory, dream analysis.
2. Adlerian therapy : (Alfred Adler) it’s growth model( e¨w³‡Z¡i weKv‡k..) and
stresses ( gvbwmK Pvc wbim‡b) assuming…Through early recollection, life-style,
Dream analysis.
3. Person-centered therapy: ( Carl Rogers) based on subjective view of
human experiencing…. To the client in dealing with problems and concerns.
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4. Behavior therapy : (B.F. Skinner, Albert Bandura) Focus on
learning to resolution of specific behavioral problems(we‡kl†Kvb
AvPiYMZmgm¨vimgvav‡bwkÿv‡K†K‡›`ªiv‡Lb)
5. Gestalt therapy: focus on awareness and integration.
6. Cognitive therapy: Focus on cognitive, action oriented …
to find-out and solution the root of personal problems ( e¨w³MZ
mgm¨vig~jLy‡uR†eiKi‡Z Imgvavbw`‡ZwPšÍv/eyw×MZ¯Íi †`Lv).
7. Reality therapy: Focuses on the client assuming responsibility
in the present.
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8. Feminist therapy : A central concept is the concern for
psychological oppression( unjust treatment or exercise of authority)
of women(gvbwmK wech©¯Í/ AZ¨vPvwiZhviv ).
9. Solution – Focused therapy: These approaches
maintain that the client is an expert in his or her own life.
10. Existential therapy: it focuses on the quality of the
person-to-person therapeutic relationship.
11. Family therapy : The key to changing the individual is
understanding working with the family.
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IN PREPARING FOR COUNSELLING…
KvDwÝwjs Gi cÖ¯‘wZi Rb¨ wb‡R‡K AR©b Ki‡Zn‡e... wb¤œ wjwLZ wel‡qi Ávb...
You will acquire knowledge about …
 The theories of personality – e¨w³‡Z¡i ZZ¡MZe¨vL¨v
Psychotherapy – g‡bvMZwbivgq
 Psychological Assessment – Ex. DAP, HTP, I.Q, TAT, Word
association
Intervention techniques - Solution…diagnosis,
relaxation technique, Spiritual Well-being program, any
developmental program.

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- Therapeutic counseling demands a
practitioner who is to be an authentic person in
the therapeutic relationship.
(Therapeutic counseling - practitioner ‡`i KvQ †_‡K
cÖZ¨vkvev `vex K‡i... K¬v‡q›U‡`i mv‡_ wbivg‡qii m¤úK©
¯’vc‡b GKRb Zviv GKRb cÖK…Z/LvuwU gvbexq e¨vw³
n‡eb...)
- Through our own genuineness and aliveness
that we can significantly touch our client.
-(mZZv Ges mRxeZv/cÖvYešÍZvigva¨‡g Avgiv Avgv‡`i
K¬v‡q›U‡`i ü`q¯úk© Ki‡Z cvi‡ev )
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There are personal qualities and characteristics
that deem significant… ( wKQz e¨w³MZ ¸Yvejx/`ÿZvGes ˆewkó¨ hv
LyeB ¸iæZ¡c~Y©...)
1. Effective therapists have an identity: ( mdj KvDbwÝji Gi _vK‡e
GKUv wbR¯^ cwiwPwZ)they know who they are… and what is essential.
2. Effective therapists respects and appreciate themselves:
( mdj KvDbwÝji wb‡R‡K m¤§vb K‡i Ges cÖksmv/mg_©b †`q ) Zviv wb‡R‡`i
†hvM¨ZvI kw³i evB‡i- Ab¨‡`i KvQ †_‡K mvnvh¨I fvjevmv w`‡Z - wb‡Z Rvv‡b)
- they can give and receive help and love out of their own sense of
self-worth and strength .
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PERSONAL CHARACTERISTIS OF…
3. Effective therapists are open to change: When client are not
satisfied with the way they are…counselor make decisions about how
they would like to change., ,
-(K¬v‡q›U‡`i mv‡_ c_Pjvq... wKfv‡e cwieZ©Y Avb‡Zn‡e, †m m¤^‡Ü Zviv m‡PZbI
D`vi, GgbwK we‡klfv‡e hLb Zviv wbR Ae¯’v‡b AmyLx...|
4. Effective therapists make choices that are life oriented:
- mdj/djcÖ` KvDwÝji K¬v‡q›U‡`ihvRxeb-Dc‡hvMx evRxeb †Kw›`ªK Zv†e‡Q ‡bq|
5. Effective therapists are authentic, sincere an honest:
- ZvivcÖK…Z/LvuwU, mnR-mij Ges mr/mZ¨ev`x; †Kvbwelq jyKv‡Z ev
cÖwZ‡iva/evuavi m„wó Ki‡Z †PóvK‡i bv|

24. 6. Effective therapists have a sense of humor:
- mdj KvDbwÝji‡`i Av‡QiwmKZv Kivi g‡Zv Ávb| ZvivRxe‡bi NUbvmg~nbZzb
`„wófw½‡Z †`L‡Z cv‡i| Zviv †h †Kvb KwVb welq Ges we‡klfv‡e wb‡Ri Ag‡Zi/B”Qvi
weiæ× welqI mnRfv‡e wb‡Z ‡PóK‡i|
7. Effective therapists make mistakes and are willing to
admit them: Zviv fzj Ki‡Zcv‡ib Z‡eZv‡¯^”Qvq ¯^xKvi K‡i |
8. Effective therapists generally live in the present: Zviv
AZxZ evievi ¯§iY K‡i †`q bv, Avevi fwel¨r wel‡qI AwZwbf©ikxj bq; Zviv AwfÁZv
Ki‡Z Ges Ab¨‡`imv‡_ eZ©gvb wb‡q _vK‡Z †PóvK‡i|
PERSONAL CHARACTERISTIS OF…
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9. Effective therapists appreciate the influence of culture:
- Zviv e¨w³ mZš¿Zv,†RÛvi, †kÖYxm¤^‡Ü LyeB m‡PZbGes ms‡e`bkxj|
10. Effective therapists have a sincere interest in the
welfare of others: A‡b¨i k„f-Kvgbv Kivi ‡ÿ‡Î Zv‡`i _vK‡e AKcUAvMÖn|
-this concern is based on respect, care, trust and real
valuing of others. GB `i`‡eva M‡oD‡V cvi¯úwiK m¤§vvb, hZœ,wek¦vm Ge©
Ab¨‡K g~j¨/ghv©`v †`qvi gva¨‡g|
11. Effective therapists possess effective
interpersonal skills: ZvivAb¨‡`i mv‡_ cvi¯úwiK m¤úK© ¯’vc‡b `ÿ, A‡b¨i
Rxeb-Mfx‡i XzKvi g‡Zv `ÿZvIAR©b K‡i †bq|
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COUNSEELING PROCESS…
REASURENCE
INTEARPRETATION:
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Acceptance is non-judgmental openness to
whatever is said by the counselee.
( ‡Kvb wePvi bvK‡i D`vi ev†Lvjv g‡bvfv‡e KvDwÝjx hv-Be‡j ZvMÖnY)
KvDwÝj‡ii Dl I Avš‘wiK MÖnY,Zvi mge¨_x nIqv , Lye kxNªBZv‡K
Abyfe Ki‡Zmvnvh¨Ki‡e †h †m ZviKv‡Q MªnYxq GKRb,,,
 A smile or nod means the statement is accepted
and need to give encouragement continuously…
Use this…
-“ I am with you”
I accept that, … nothing u say here is irrelevant.
I regard your thoughts with respects….

29. This consists of verbatim repetition ( exactly the same
word) of what counselee has said. (KvDwÝwj hve‡j wVK Zv-B/
GKB kã cbivq ejv )|
 This gives him accurate feedback of the materials,,,
what he just put in the interview,,, cybiæw³ Zv‡K... †m †h wel‡q
K_v e‡j‡Q, †m m¤^‡Ü mwVK aviYv w`‡e )|
 He hears his own statement and has an opportunity
to clarify… Restatement can be an effective leading.
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30. The counsellor clarifies for the counselee what the
later has just he/she said. KvDwÝwjGBgvÎ hve‡j‡Q ‡m m¤^‡Ü
cwi®‹vi aviYv †`qv...
 ZLb KvDwÝwj eyS‡Z cvi‡e †h , Zvig‡b hvwQj.... †m †Kej ZvBcÖKvk
K‡i‡Q| ( Av‡eM,Abyf‚wZ, ivM, †ÿvf, fq, `ywðšÍv..)
 Used as REFLECTION- (cÖwZdjb) this response can
serve as a mirror... KvDwÝwji Dw³ cybivq ejv, Zvi gZK‡i AbyfeKiv,,,,
Ex. “ you feel that your teacher, in recording failing grade, has
discriminate against U...”
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31. A summary is a review, a recapitulation of the main
ideas and feelings expressed by the counselee. (
KvDwÝwj ‡hwel‡q mnfvwMZvK‡i‡Q Zvi mviK_v cybivq ejv, cÖavb evg~j welq
Ges Zvi Abyf‚wZi Awfe¨vw³ AvZ¯’Kiv|
It allows the counselee to select his way of telling the
counsellor any aspect of any topic. (KvDwÝwj‡K Zvi welq
wKfv‡e ej‡e evDc¯’vcb Ki‡e ‡m c_/Dcvq †e‡Q wb‡Z mvnvh¨K‡ib, AbygwZ †`b|
But … the counsellor who is taking the responsibility
for the progress (AMÖMwZ) of the interview.
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32. REASSURANCE: ( wbðqZv, Avkv, mvnm Ges AvZœ- wek¦vm‡eva
†`qv
... meant to give hope, courage, self-confidence.
When we give verbal or non verbal ( silence)
reassurance we are REINFORCING the idea or feeling
expressed by the counselee. ( hLb Avgiv gy‡L e‡j evbv e‡j
Avgv‡`i †gŠb m¤§wZ‡Z wbðqZv ‡`B;ZLb Avgiv Zv‡`i wPšÍv-aviYvAv_ev Zv‡`i
Abyf‚wZ‡K kw³kvjx / eje„w× Kwi|
INTERPRETATION:
KvDwÝwj hve‡j †m Dw³i cieZx© djvdj/ cwiw¯’wZ †Kgb n‡Zcv‡i †m m¤^‡Ü
fvj-g›` w`K Av‡jvKcvZ Kiv...
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 How do we assess (evaluate or estimate the nature,
ability or quality)
 clinical interview
 Behavioral observation
 Through the battery of tests
 Varieties of Interview :
 - Intake – Admission interview, Case History Interview,
Mental Status Examination Interview (MES), Crisis
Interview, Diagnostic Interview.
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A.Physical Arrangements :
 The setting- a good setting is needed for
privacy and protection from interruptions
(evav/cÖwZeÜKZv).
 Note-taking and recording.
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positive, comfortable relationship between the
clinician and clients.
 involves comfortable atmosphere and natural
understanding to the purpose of the interview.
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 it is very important to use language that the patient can
understand, avoid psychological jargon(meaningless
word)…
 it is also importance to clarify the meaning of a word or
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 Open-ended – gives patient responsibility …E.g.
…would you tell me about your experiences in …accident?
 Facilitative – encourages the patient’s flow of
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clarifying – encourages clarification. E.g. I guess this
means…am I right ?
 Confronting- remove conflicting statements. E.g. you
said a while ago…this means you are saying..
 Direct- questions asked requires specific answers;
questions are more threatening. E.g. what did you say to
your father when the criticized your choice ?

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42. Try to
LEARN
Something
NEW
every day,
and you'll
GROW.

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It is only when you take …first step
and continue the journey
You can reach your destination

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Learn
To
S.M.I.L.E.

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