Men are simple and easy to understand. They are eager to fall in love and want nothing more than for the woman of their dreams to accept them and appreciate them for who they are. However, the problem many women face today when it comes to attracting men, or keeping their current boyfriends, is that they don’t understand what men want from them or how to make men happy in relationships with them. Men want strong and confident women who know what they want out of life and relationships, women who will stand up for themselves and can be independent if need be.

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3. WELCOME
Men are simple and easy to understand. They are
eager to fall in love and want nothing more than
for the woman of their dreams to accept them and
appreciate them for who they are. However, the
problem many women face today when it comes
to attracting men, or keeping their current
boyfriends, is that they don’t understand what
men want from them or how to make men happy
in relationships with them. Men want strong and
confident women who know what they want out
of life and relationships, women who will stand up
for themselves and can be independent if need be.

4. It may seem like an easy task, but to have someone
hopelessly in love with you, there is some work
involved. This means that the woman must get to
know the man she desires. At first sight, he may
seem like just another boring person, but over time
and after talking about what interests them both, a
future partner could be revealed.
STEP 1: GET
TO KNOW HIM
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5. Set up an actual date. You don't have to spend an
arm and a leg on dinner. If the guy is busy, maybe
he can do something during the day when it's
convenient for him and you (like, if your work shifts
are overlapping) or if he's not busy, see if he wants
to go out and explore his town/city together.
It's also cool to just hang out at each other's places
for an evening.
STEP 2: GO ON
DATES
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6. STEP 3:
HAVE FUN
TOGETHER
Tell him what the last movie you watched was and then
he will tell you about the last movie he watched, and
how it was different from yours. Watch the same show
on Netflix. Have dinner together every night this week.
Ask each other questions about one's day. Surprise
each other with something small and thoughtful - like
flowers or wine or chocolates.
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7. Compliment him often, but don't tell him he
looks good every time he leaves the house.
Mix up your compliments so that they're not
just about his physical appearance.
Compliment his intelligence and personality,
as well. By using these types of compliments,
he'll feel better about himself and be more
likely to do things for you in return. He may
even want to try harder to get your attention
because he knows you're interested in what
he has to say and do when it's not physical
activity related.
STEP 4:
COMPLIMENT
HIM OFTEN
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8. STEP 5: DON’T TALK
ABOUT OTHER MEN
AROUND HIM
The next time you’re on the phone with your
girlfriend or texting your friends about how
handsome he is, don’t tell him about it. Sure, it
might seem like harmless flirting, but deep
down he knows that if he’s good enough for
her to talk about, he must be good enough for
her to sleep with. That's not fair and don't kid
yourself into thinking otherwise. He will grow
resentful and the relationship will become
more strained over time.
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9. STEP 6: KEEP AN
EVEN KEEL
Keep an even keel. No matter
how hot and heavy things get,
don't let yourself be sucked into
being on call all the time. This is
not only exhausting, but it
makes you seem desperate and
not in control of your life. It's
okay if he doesn't see you every
day- he should have other
interests too and it's important
for him to maintain his own
space where he can just be
himself. After all, who wants to
come second best?
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10. STEP 7: LISTEN
MORE THAN
TALK
Listening is an art and can be one of the hardest skills to
master. Learning how to do it well will take time, but
following these tips should get you started on the right track:
Listen deeply and mindfully: Lean in toward the speaker and
focus on what they're saying. Resist the urge to fidget or fix
your hair while they're talking.
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11. STEP 8:
UNDERSTAND HIS
SITUATION
The best way to understand your man is by listening.
Tune in and listen as he talks about his work, friends,
family, and anything else that may be occupying his
mind. This will help you get an idea of how much he
values relationships and being faithful in a
relationship.
Do you have any suggestions on things people can
do if they're single? I'm still trying to find myself after
my break up so I don't think it's the right time for
me.
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12. STEP 9: TOUCH
HIM OFTEN, BUT
DON’T CROSS
LINES
Learn how to touch him when you’re around him.
Touching his arm, his shoulder, running your fingers
through his hair, or even standing close to him and
moving closer can let him know that he’s on your
mind. Keep your body language open and inviting
when he enters the room. If you act like you love
having him around, other people will pick up on it
too!
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13. STEP 10: AND
LASTLY, BE
YOURSELF!
If we've learned anything, it's that
the surest way to win someone over
is by being authentic. Have
confidence in yourself and in what
you have to offer. If he is looking for
something superficial, he will find
someone else - because there are
plenty of people who can pretend
like they are everything that he
wants. Focus on developing your
own life and relationships, not
changing yourself into something
that doesn't even resemble the
natural person inside.
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14. HIS SECRET
OBSESSION
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15. THANK YOU