This document discusses the Islamic concept of ta'aruf, which is the process of getting to know a potential partner with the intention of marriage. It defines ta'aruf, outlines some conditions and etiquette to follow, and discusses potential carelessness to avoid in the process. The main purposes of ta'aruf are to have a clear direction for the relationship focused on marriage, and avoid issues that can arise from unclear intentions as seen in casual dating. Some benefits of following the ta'aruf process include directly assessing a potential partner, obtaining useful information through questions, minimizing future incompatibility that could lead to divorce, and avoiding temptations by not meeting alone.

1. Islamic Education
Ta'aruf
Asysyura 202023013
TBI Unit 1
Speaking for Academic Context

2. Table of Contents
Presentation
DISCUSSION TOPIC
The Meaning of Ta'aruf
Ta'aruf Conditions
Ta'aruf Etiquette
Ta'aruf Carelessness
The Purpose of Ta'aruf
The Benefits of Ta'aruf

3. The Meaning of
Ta'aruf
Taaruf is introduction or getting to know each
other which is recommended in Islam. Taaruf
comes from the word ta'arafa - yata'arafu which
means getting to know each other before going
to marriage.

4. Ta'aruf Conditions
• Already an adult
• There must be an intention
• Don't do things that are forbidden by Islam
• Can't force

5. Taaruf Etiquette
• visit both parents.
• Maintain good communication.
• not alone.
• Watch your eyes and cover your nakedness.
• Istikarah Prayer.
• Determine the time of the sermon (application).

6. Ta'aruf Carelessness
No Preparation in advance
Excessive nerves
Consider this an ordinary introduction moment
Choose a less conducive place
Too many accompany
Do not see the slightest opponent of ta'aruf
Ta'aruf answers are too long
There are no intermediaries

7. The Purpose of Ta'aruf
Taaruf is done with the aim of
getting married, either sooner or
later. Thus, the direction of your
relationship is clearer and more
focused. Meanwhile, when dating,
often the purpose of the relationship
itself is not clear and only as a
moment of giving and receiving
affection.

8. The Benefits of
Ta'aruf
Can see the physical state
of the prospective partner
directly.
Can get to know the
potential partner from the
data obtained during the
question and answer
process during ta'aruf.
Minimizing the
occurrence of
incompatibility with
potential partners in the
future which ultimately
has an impact on divorce.
You can avoid Satan's
temptations because the
ta'aruf process is not
carried out with only two
people.