Understanding and Growing Your Emotional Intelligence with Darby Fetzer
Overcome Life's Challenges with the ACE Virtual Coach
1. Welcome to our free online resource that aims
to help you move forward in your life
2. What is the ACE Virtual Coach?
The AVC is an online free resource that helps an individual make
significant progress with an emotionally upsetting situation, be that
frustration in achieving a goal or a situation of other stress.
Using the latest in human behaviour science,
it is a series of techniques and approaches
to resolve an unwanted situation.
Learning about the Virtual Coach and using
it can help you through life’s challenges.
3. Why use this?
Life brings us all sorts of issues. Currently there is
no standard resource that is free, widely available
and easy to use to help us understand and
overcome these issues.
The ACE Virtual Coach is that resource. Designed
to be simple to use and highly beneficial, it
enables you to find the solution and get about
loving life not coping with it.
4. How does it work?
By following the chart and doing the exercises, you will be receiving
coaching practices that can help you eradicate your problem.
Remember - If you want to know more detail, click on the star in the
box for more information.
Values & Beliefs
5. What if?
What if you had the ability to nip every issue in the bud?
What if you could have almost zero stress no matter what
happened?!
What if you found a way to have total control over your
emotions, your life and what you achieved in it?
What if that resource was in your hands now?
Would you pay attention and be open to it?
Would you use it until it was second nature and even to help
others? :) We hope so!
6. How to use the AVC
Follow this presentation and make notes and do the exercises
separately on a piece of paper, a voice note or video and date it – it’s
great for looking back when the problem has gone and show you how
far you have come!
Great – Let’s start!
7. The ACE Virtual Coaching
Resource aims to make life
easy by giving you these
tools so you can create a
life you love!
8. Answer these questions on a piece of paper or tape it on a voice memo or
video.
What is the problem?
What is the problem not?
What happens when its not a problem?
What doesn’t happen when its not a problem?
The questions might be odd! But they are the start of the resolution ;)
9. Evidence Procedure
What will happen when the problem is resolved?
How will you feel/ think / act differently?
What will you see / hear / say / do differently?
Stating these answers will be the start to creating your
desired outcome!
10. The information that follows is the place where science and
spirituality meet seamlessly and become the same.
It is written without relation to any religious view, it is about the
Human Being which we all are. It is simplified to the extreme but so
the point is still easily understood.
12. What are Human Beings?
We are part of an intelligence system that makes up every single thing in the
universe. This intelligence exists in the dimension of the absolute – there is
nothing but the whole.
However this whole intelligence has the need to know itself - through
experience. To do that it must know the parts that it is made from. The parts
individually can only exist in the realm of the relative (our Earth).
To know hot you must know what cold is, the same with
near and far, high and low, love and fear etc, etc, etc.
13. Cont...
Human Beings are a part of that larger intelligent energy source. Also
called our spirit or soul. It enters us through birth and leaves at death,
our body being it's home in this physical relative dimension. This is
true no matter what religion or culture you were born into. Its just the
variety that is the spice of life!
And as we know, energy only changes form,
it can never cease to exist.
14. Why are we here?
We are here to experience life and all that our larger intelligence
knows. Our soul's desire is to grow and be happy. Simples! We
grow through doing this process called life and all it brings to us.
The tools we all have on entry are the ability to create our desire
using thought, word and deed, and we have free will.
You are in charge of your life and its your RESPONSE -ABILITY
(power) to be happy.
Be aware of this power for it can never be taken from you, you can
only forget you have it.
