Mel Feller provides over 50 personal development tips to help readers continuously improve themselves. Some key tips include taking responsibility for your own growth, learning from others' experiences rather than having to try everything yourself, developing a support group to discuss ideas with, and putting pictures of your goals in places where you will see them daily for motivation and focus. Feller emphasizes that personal development is an ongoing process and there is always room for growth, no matter one's age or experience level.
Mel feller discloses his personal self development tips
1. Mel FellerDiscloseshisPersonal SelfDevelopmentTips
Mel Fellerknowswithoutadoubtthatas longas you are still alive,youare capable of changingand
growing.Youcan do anythingyouwantto do, be anythingyouwantto be.Listento some positive
thoughtsonhow to continue yourself-developmentandthenapplytheminyourownlife.
Mel Fellerhastaughtthousandsthatthingshappenandwe change accordingly. Sometimeswe make
mistakesandthenwe have to getback inthe saddle andstart to adjustourcourse. However,we are
nevertoooldto do so!
Acceptpersonal responsibilityforyourowngrowth;no one can do itfor you.What youdo today will
determine yourreadinessfortomorrow.
Take time everydayto do somethingforyourself.
Take classesto stay currentinyour fieldof expertise.The worldischangingrapidlyandyoumustlearn
to manage change to avoidobsolescence.The wayWill Rogersputthiswasthat "Evenif youare on the
righttrack, if you justsitthere youwill getrun over."
Listentocassette tapeson personal andprofessional growthtopics.
Neverlookbackto the past-youonlycancontrol youractionsinthis instant,sowhatshouldyoube
doingrightnow?
Learn from"otherpeople'sexperience"rather thanhavingtotry everythingforyourself.Itshortensthe
time neededtolearn.
Dealingwithaproblemhelpsyoulearnpatienceandstrengthensyourmanagementskills;itisgood
mental exercise.
Analyze,inanon-judgmental way,mistakesinwhichyouwere involved.Itwill helpyoutopreventthese
inthe future.
Rewardyourself whenyoucatchyourself workingonthe mostimportantpriorities.
Neversaysomething cannotorwill notbe done.Keeplookingforwaystodo it.
Afterattendingaseminar,reporttoyour bossor otherpeople inyourorganization,whatthe most
importantthingsare that youlearnedfromthe program.
For all learningexperiences,whetheritisreading,seeing,thinkingorattending,applythe Rsquared,A
squaredformula:Recognize,Relate,Assimilate, andApply.Theseactionswillhelpyougrow inthe
directionof yourgoals.
Eliminate one time wasteraweekfromyourlife.
Reada minimumof one chapterof a booka day.
2. Reada minimumof one bookamonth.
Be hungryforwhat life hastoofferand go for it.
Decide whatyoureallydesire todo-thendoit.
Whenyouhave the optionof readinga bookor listeningtothe cassette tape versionof the program,
listentothe tape.It will be more tothe pointand can be done while youare driving,jogging/walking,or
gettingotherroutine thingsdone.
Developa"mastermind"groupof four or five people withwhomyoucanopenlydiscussideasina
nonjudgmentalway.
Developyourself asaresource forothersby networking.Findoutwhodoeswhat,when,andforwhom.
You may findexcellentcontactsforyourfuture needsandforthe needsof others, youmeet.
Work for balance inyourlife goals:family,financial,professional,social,spiritual, andrecreational.
Alwayskeepyourgoalsinmindasyou start a new activity.
If you do a lotof workwiththe calculator,run the machine withthe handyou do not use forwriting.
Do not be afraidof failingatsomething.Youcanlearnandchange because of it.
The most difficultprojectsare opportunitiesforyourbiggest successesjustasthe mostdifficultpeople
couldbecome yourstrongestallies.
Put uppicturesof your dreamsandgoalswhere youwill see themfrequently.Theywill remindyouand
aidyou infocusingandvisualizingyourgoal.
We all have the same 24 hours ina day. Learnfrom those people who are more done thanyoudo.
Perhapsyoucan finda way to improve whatyouare doing.
Finda nonjudgmental mentorwhowill helpyoubyprovidingfeedback,suggestions,challengesand
support.
Identifysome "models"andobserve theirstyleandactions.Donotcopy thembut learnfromtheir
experiences.
Learn fromthe errors yousee othersmake as well asfromtheirsuccesses.
Fill yourmindwithpositiveideas,thoughtsandinspirationsandyouwill have noroomleftforthe
negative.
Trade jobswithsomeone soyougainadditional experience.
Askfor and acceptlateral movesinthe organizationsoyoulearnmore aboutthe entire operation.
Do more than your"self-doubts"sayyou can?
Have confidence thatyoucan getthrough andlearnfrom anythingandeverythingyouexperience.
Rewardyourself withatreatwhenyouhave completedalearningobjective.
3. Keepa dailyjournal,recordingyourthoughts,ideas,feelingsandpersonal growthprogress.
Askquestions,listen, andthenaskmore questions.Youwill learnaswell ashelpotherslearn.
Askyourself,"HowcanI manipulate myfate?"
Do thingswithsomeone yourespect.Theywill be supportiveof youandyou will learnfrominteracting
withthem.
Seeknewinformationonprojectsforwhichyouhave responsibility.Lookfornew "ahha" ideasall the
time.
Challenge yourself tolearnsomethingnew everyday.
Remainflexible andconstantlyadaptable.
Be opentoothersand sincerelyinterestedinthem.Youcanlearnfromeveryone youmeet.
Mentallyrehearse anewskill.Yoursubconsciousdoesnotknow the differencebetweenactual practice
and mental rehearsal.
Keepa recordof whatyou accomplishedthe previousday(s)/week.If youdidnotaccomplishasmuch as
youwanted,itgivesyouextraincentive todobetterinthe next time.
Make notesof the questionsyouwantanswered.Thenasthe answerscome toyou,jot themdownnext
to the question.
Work on overcomingpersonal,nonproductive habits;forexample:overeating,smoking,gossip.
Keepan"IdeaFile"ringbinderornotebookinwhichyourecordall new ideas.Atleastonce a weekina
standingappointmentwithyourself,review yourideas.
Mel Feller– Personal Development,Business,Executive,InternetandReal Estate Investments
Coach/Mentor and BusinessOwner
Mel Fellerwasaseniorstafferforover5 yearswithbothUnitedStatesSenatorJake Garn and The
Senate BankingandFinance Committee.
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