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Affective Sexuality
1.
2. Sexuality
The energy for life and communication
Ronald Rolheiser
Beautiful Gift,
Sacred Energy
Powerful Gift by God
Not a mere genital pleasure
Freud
Most powerful energy
Creative power / energy
Misunderstanding= Psychological disorders
5. Primary
Sexuality
Primarily one is male / female
Sexual Existence
Gender Identity & Acceptance
Genital
Sexuality
Sexual expressions,
sexual fantasy,
attractions, desires
7. Affective Sexuality
…..some forms of intimate relationship
(Primarily I am a Human person….Then Priest)
- Motivated to relate with everyone
- Closeness in personal and social
relationship
- For the service of others
- Creative persons ( Music, songs, books…)
8. Affective Sexuality
Mature expressions of one’s
feelings and emotions
Healthy integration of
sexual energy
Acceptance of one’s
own Sexuality – others
Relationship / Friendship is important
Person is important
9. Robert Stoller
There is an unconscious link
between sex and aggressiveness
This can Block the development of
Personality
Hostility, Revenge,
Arrogance, Violence
12. Emotions = Shorter Time
Sentiments & Moods
= Hours, days, Weeks, Months
Properties are Pain and Pleasures
Affective Traits = Life Time
Felt Tendency towards anything
Intuitively Evaluated as Good / Bad
Tendency / Strong subjective response
13. Management of Emotions - 4 levels
Passive Dependent ….( I Loose….u win)
Aggressive: ( I Win….u Loose)
Passive Aggressive : ( I Loose…..u also Loose)
Assertive: ( I win….U win)
Heal the Emotions
- Become Aware
- Acceptance
- Regulating
- Expressing
14. Expressing the Emotions
Unhealthy ways
Push it to the unconscious,
Suppress it,
Repression…( keep quiet,
no reaction)
Acting out
Healthy ways
- Dialogue,
- Share with
your friend,
- Self-dialogue
15. Affectivity
A feeling or emotion as distinguished
from cognition, thought, or action
Affect is a felt tendency towards
anything which is intuitively
appraised as good / bad or
(beneficial /harmful)
16. Ability to feel one’s emotions and to
deal with it in a mature and prudent
way
Ability to deal with the negative
emotions of anxiety, anger, sadness
and fear without being overwhelmed
by them.
Affectivity
17. It is to know that I am a relational
being to relate to oneself, others and
with God
Three requirements for affectivity
a) self-awareness
b) The ability to canalize
c) self-esteem
18. Self acceptance and
Responsible for
Genuine Human Relationships. The
more friends we have, the happier we
are.
LKM
= LOVING KINDNESS MEDITATION
27. Needs
- Human persons born with
needs
-They are innate / inherent
potentials
- if they are met then one will
be happy / sad
- 21 basic Needs by Murray
32. Expecting the other person for one’s
own security and gratification.
Love others for what they are, and
not for what they offer;
not with the anxiety of getting, but
with the creative love of giving.
36. - Cheerful disposition
- Positive self – image
- Control over impulses
- Ability to cope with
stress and anxiety
- Sensitivity to others’
needs & feelings
37. - Capacity to tolerate
frustration
- Openness to corrections
- Sense of humour
- Spirit of endurance
- Ability to delay
gratification