1. Real Sportsmanship in a
Reality Show World
Karen L. Waite, Ph. D.
Michigan State University
2.
3. So who am I?
• Grew up in Michigan 4-H Horse Program
• Multi-carded judge
• Past-President of the American Youth Horse
Council
• Past-President of the Michigan Quarter Horse
Association
• Who cares?
5. Reality Show Obsession?
• Very popular with
those in the 18-34
age range
• Fans of reality TV
tend to be attention-
seekers,
• The "more reality
shows a person likes,
the more concerned
he or she is with their
6. Reality Show Obsession?
• both attention seeking and social status can be
motivating factors in any competitive environment
• "...too much reality TV may lead viewers to idealize
real world situations...”
• We know that there are positive outcomes from
showing horses, but the potential for negative
behaviors is also present.
7. Reality Show Obsession?
• Recent call for 15-19
year old girls to
participate in a reality
show based on
showing horses
• What do you think of
this idea?
8. Why might it be negative?
• Horse showing IS a sport
• Someone wins and others don’t
• Sometimes sport is portrayed as a form of “war”
• Reality shows tend to focus on extremes in
behavior
9. What would a positive reality show
look like?
• Intentional
• Good (and bad)
character is both
taught and caught
• A definition of good
horse show
sportsmanship
required
10. Most important point...
• Reality shows aren’t actually 100% REAL
• Scripted for entertainment purposes
• Should we be basing our behavior on this?
11. Good Horse Show Sportsmanship
• Respect for horses
• Respect for opponents
• Respect for the “game”
• Respect for others
• Coaching for Character: Reclaiming the Principles of
Sportsmanship. Clifford & Feezel
• Michigan 4-H Horse and Pony Project Show Rules and
Regulations
12. Good Horse Show Sportsmanship
• To whom do these principles apply?
• Everyone involved!
• 4-H Leaders
• family
• spectators
13. Respect for Horses
• Good animal
management
– Healthcare
– Nutrition
– Fair training practices
• Horses deserve
humane treatment in
exchange for what
they provide
14. Respect for Opponents
• True Competition-David Light Shields and
Brenda Light Bredemeier
• Latin: -petere (to strive or seek), -com (together)
• Seeking excellence with one’s opponent
• Sportsmanlike competitors recognize and
appreciate
• a well prepared, challenging opponent who can
• bring out the best in them, and
• share that appreciation with their opponents.
15. Respect for the “Game”
• Respecting & following
the rules
• Always trying one’s
best
• Skill and training
progression
• Appreciation for the
process
16. Respect for the “Game”
• Understand what
“brand” you’re riding
for, and the
philosophy of that
program
• In 4-H, we’re about
positively developing
young people.
Period.
17. Respect for Others
• Judges, show
managers, parents,
trainers, coaches,
leaders
• May boost ratings on
television but not in real
life
• Developing emotional
control, and venting at
appropriate times and
locations
18. Easy to say…
• But how do we develop real sportsmanship?
19. Real Sportsmanship
• Be a good role model
• Youth or adult
• Go somewhere private to vent
• Congratulate others
• Accept congratulations graciously
• Don’t ignore others (generally)
• Once awards are given to kids who have won them
fairly, they are not taken away.
20. Real Sportsmanship
• Emphasize good sportsmanship at all times, and in
all situations
• Practice and shows
• Regularly use words like respect and sportsmanship
• Being competitive is “serious fun”
• Bad sportsmanship can include being
• Too serious
• Not serious enough
21. Real Sportsmanship
• Emphasize the relationship between good
sportsmanship and success
• A victory without respect, dignity and honor,
AND good animal treatment, doesn’t mean much
• “I've learned that people will forget what you said, people
will forget what you did, but people will never forget how
you made them feel.” Maya Angelou
22. Real Sportsmanship
• Establish customs
and traditions that
emphasize good
sportsmanship
– Barn signs
– Sportsmanship awards
• Praise hard work as
opposed to just
ribbons
23. Real Sportsmanship
• Be specific about how you expect exhibitors to
relate to
• One another
• Opponents
• Officials
• Horses
• Develop clear guidelines for handling
unsportsmanlike behavior and share them
• Don’t be afraid to pack up and leave…you’ll only
have to do it once. (probably)
24. Real Sportsmanship
• Talk about specific incidents of sportsmanship
• Ask questions to promote reflection
• Emphasize fun!
25. Conclusion
• Great character can develop from showing
horses
• Keys are:
• To be intentional
• To reward the behaviors you want
• Recognizing that showing can be a stressful and
emotional time
• But not accepting that as an excuse for poor behavior
26. Conclusion
• Great character can also develop in adults
• Keys are:
• To be intentional
• To reward the behaviors you want
• To honor all kids, under the rules that you have at the
time
• Recognizing that showing can be a stressful and
emotional time for all
• But not accepting that as an excuse for poor behavior
Today's world seems obsessed with "reality" shows. From Jersey Shore to the Kardashians, or reality contests like Survivor or the Amazing Race, people tune in by the millions each week to see what happens next in a (supposedly) unscripted environment. A research based article on Greatist.com (http://greatist.com/happiness/why-were-obsessed-reality-tv) reports
which may be either a help or a hindrance in the competitive arena.
In order to be intentional, we all need to be singing from the same “hymnal”, so to speak
By keeping the values described in this article in mind, modeling, teaching, and expecting others to practice them, we can highlight the fact that under the right conditions, horse shows actually are a place to practice “real sportsmanship in a reality show world.”
By keeping the values described in this article in mind, modeling, teaching, and expecting others to practice them, we can highlight the fact that under the right conditions, horse shows actually are a place to practice “real sportsmanship in a reality show world.”
By keeping the values described in this article in mind, modeling, teaching, and expecting others to practice them, we can highlight the fact that under the right conditions, horse shows actually are a place to practice “real sportsmanship in a reality show world.”