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Resilience is the ability to positively adapt, grow,
and increase no matter what rides into your life.
Javed Iqbal
Roll# 02
ADCP UOS
Resilience A Lifelong skill
 ““Resiliency is the ability to overcome a
crisis quickly and move past it”
1. speedy recovery from problems: the
ability to recover quickly from setbacks
2. elasticity: the ability of matter to
spring back quickly into shape after
being bent, stretched, or deformed
Resilience A Lifelong skill
 Because it is rare  for individuals never
to be confronted with adversity or
challenging circumstances during the
course of their lifetime.
 People who are resilient tend to be able
to harness their inner strengths and
resources to rebound quickly and more
fully from setbacks
Resilience A Lifelong skill
 “The story that has since emerged from the
trapped miners is one of some despair, but
also of enormous resilience and solidarity
 .. it seems most of the trapped men halted
their slide into despondency and found
strength in each other. “They realized they
had no other choice but to work together as
a team”
Resilience A Lifelong skill
Four uses of resilience
 Overcome obstacles
 guide through daily
adversity
 Recover from crisis
 Open up to new
experiences
Resilience helps us
 Connect
 Persist
 Succeed
 Expand horizons
Ĵ
Resilience A Lifelong skill
 Refocus on the human strengths
 Individuals are capable of life change
 “Explanatory style” or thinking is the key to
resilience
 Accurate thinking however is critical
Ĵ
Resilience A Lifelong skill
Video
Resilience A Lifelong skill
• Positive Self-Regard
• Internal Locus of Evaluation
• Stress Management Strategies.
• Existential Concepts of Freedom and
Responsibility (Victor Frankl)
Resilience A Lifelong skill
 Emotion Regulation
 Controlling Impulses
 Empathy
 Optimism
 Analysis of Cause
 Self-Efficacy
Ĵ
Resilience A Lifelong skill
1. Understanding our ABCDE’s
1. Adversity, Belief, Consequences Disputation, Energization
2. Avoiding Traps in Thinking
3. Detecting Icebergs
4. Dissecting and Challenging Thinking
5. Taking Perspective
6. Calming & focusing
7. Getting Real
Resilience A Lifelong skill
Adversity: (record objective facts-who, what, when, and where)
Chef Kate came back from time off after her sister died and found that her
boss had hired a Sous Chef from an Italian restaurant named Nick.
Consequences
(record the emotions felt and the consequences as a
result of the emotion):
• Disbelief- denial: ignore
Nick’s presence
• Rude
perception that she can’t
handle people
• Anger- silent treatment and
yelling
• Fear- incapable of seeing
the opportunity
•
•
•
•
•
•
Beliefs-Ticker Tape
(record any beliefs without censor
that come from the adverse
situation):
•They found a
replacement
•My boss hired him
•My boss thinks he is
good
•My boss wants to
replace me
•I am not good enough
•I will not have a job
•I will lose who I am
Ĵ
Resilience A Lifelong skill
Adversity: Let’s use our own example:
Consequences:
•
•
•
•
•
•
•
Beliefs:
•
•
•
•
•
•
•
Resilience A Lifelong skill
 Jumping to conclusions
 Tunnel vision
 Magnifying & minimizing
 Personalizing
 Overgeneralizing
Resilience A Lifelong skill
 Different than surface beliefs
 Fundamental
 Deep-rooted
 Define “who you are”
 Define “your place in the world”
Resilience A Lifelong skill
 Achievement
 Acceptance
 Control
Resilience A Lifelong skill
 Map The A-B-C
 Check the B-C Connection
 Are the “C’s” out of proportion?
 Do the “C’s” match the “B’s?”
 If yes, :
 What does that mean to me?
 What is the most upsetting part of that for me?
Resilience A Lifelong skill
 Identify worst case
 Determine possibility
 Identify best case
 Determine most likely outcomes
 Identify Solutions
Resilience A Lifelong skill
Worst Case
Beliefs
Determined to
not be a
good enough
chef
Fired from job
How Likely?
Not at all likely
Not likely
Best Case
Beliefs
Receive world
wide
recognition
Instantly able
to relate to
people
Likely
Outcomes
Learn to work
with Sous
Chef
Encounter
some
conflict on
the way
Solutions
Spend time getting to know Sous Chef
Ask what Sous Chef is interested in learning/gaining
Work on listening skill set Ĵ
Resilience A Lifelong skill
Worst Case
Beliefs
How Likely? Best Case
Beliefs
Likely
Outcomes
Solutions
Resilience A Lifelong skill
 Calming Techniques Educators already use!
 Positive Refocusing
 Mentoring Techniques
 Video
Resilience A Lifelong skill
 Build Positive Beliefs in Your Abilities
o self-esteem
o Becoming more confident about your own
ability to respond and deal with crisis is a
great way to build resilience for the future.
Resilience A Lifelong skill
Do the best of your ability and never
doubt what you can do. Push beyond
ability if you must and you will have
a good experience, maybe even
a breakthrough.
Resilience A Lifelong skill
Resilience A Lifelong skill
 Having caring, supportive people around you
acts as a protective factor during times of
crisis.
 share your feelings, gain support, receive
positive feedback, and come up with possible
solutions to your problems.
Resilience A Lifelong skill
 Flexibility
 Adaptable
Resilience A Lifelong skill
 Positive thinking
Resilience A Lifelong skill
 Don't neglect yours basic Needs in crisis
situation.
 boost your overall health and resilience and
be fully ready to face life's challenges.
Resilience A Lifelong skill
 Whenever you encounter a new challenge,
make a quick list of some of the potential
ways you could solve the problem.
 develop a logical way to work through
common problems.
Resilience A Lifelong skill
 Resilient people are able to view these
situations in a realistic way, and then set
reasonable goals to deal with the problem.
Resilience A Lifelong skill
 Don’t focus on problem just focused on the
solution of the problem.
Resilience A Lifelong skill
Resilience A Lifelong skill
 Video
Resilience A Lifelong skill
Resilience A Lifelong skill

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Building Resilience Through Adversity

  • 1. 1
  • 2. Resilience is the ability to positively adapt, grow, and increase no matter what rides into your life. Javed Iqbal Roll# 02 ADCP UOS Resilience A Lifelong skill
  • 3.  ““Resiliency is the ability to overcome a crisis quickly and move past it” 1. speedy recovery from problems: the ability to recover quickly from setbacks 2. elasticity: the ability of matter to spring back quickly into shape after being bent, stretched, or deformed Resilience A Lifelong skill
  • 4.  Because it is rare  for individuals never to be confronted with adversity or challenging circumstances during the course of their lifetime.  People who are resilient tend to be able to harness their inner strengths and resources to rebound quickly and more fully from setbacks Resilience A Lifelong skill
  • 5.  “The story that has since emerged from the trapped miners is one of some despair, but also of enormous resilience and solidarity  .. it seems most of the trapped men halted their slide into despondency and found strength in each other. “They realized they had no other choice but to work together as a team” Resilience A Lifelong skill
  • 6. Four uses of resilience  Overcome obstacles  guide through daily adversity  Recover from crisis  Open up to new experiences Resilience helps us  Connect  Persist  Succeed  Expand horizons Ĵ Resilience A Lifelong skill
  • 7.  Refocus on the human strengths  Individuals are capable of life change  “Explanatory style” or thinking is the key to resilience  Accurate thinking however is critical Ĵ Resilience A Lifelong skill
  • 9. • Positive Self-Regard • Internal Locus of Evaluation • Stress Management Strategies. • Existential Concepts of Freedom and Responsibility (Victor Frankl) Resilience A Lifelong skill
  • 10.  Emotion Regulation  Controlling Impulses  Empathy  Optimism  Analysis of Cause  Self-Efficacy Ĵ Resilience A Lifelong skill
  • 11. 1. Understanding our ABCDE’s 1. Adversity, Belief, Consequences Disputation, Energization 2. Avoiding Traps in Thinking 3. Detecting Icebergs 4. Dissecting and Challenging Thinking 5. Taking Perspective 6. Calming & focusing 7. Getting Real Resilience A Lifelong skill
  • 12. Adversity: (record objective facts-who, what, when, and where) Chef Kate came back from time off after her sister died and found that her boss had hired a Sous Chef from an Italian restaurant named Nick. Consequences (record the emotions felt and the consequences as a result of the emotion): • Disbelief- denial: ignore Nick’s presence • Rude perception that she can’t handle people • Anger- silent treatment and yelling • Fear- incapable of seeing the opportunity • • • • • • Beliefs-Ticker Tape (record any beliefs without censor that come from the adverse situation): •They found a replacement •My boss hired him •My boss thinks he is good •My boss wants to replace me •I am not good enough •I will not have a job •I will lose who I am Ĵ Resilience A Lifelong skill
  • 13. Adversity: Let’s use our own example: Consequences: • • • • • • • Beliefs: • • • • • • • Resilience A Lifelong skill
  • 14.  Jumping to conclusions  Tunnel vision  Magnifying & minimizing  Personalizing  Overgeneralizing Resilience A Lifelong skill
  • 15.  Different than surface beliefs  Fundamental  Deep-rooted  Define “who you are”  Define “your place in the world” Resilience A Lifelong skill
  • 16.  Achievement  Acceptance  Control Resilience A Lifelong skill
  • 17.  Map The A-B-C  Check the B-C Connection  Are the “C’s” out of proportion?  Do the “C’s” match the “B’s?”  If yes, :  What does that mean to me?  What is the most upsetting part of that for me? Resilience A Lifelong skill
  • 18.  Identify worst case  Determine possibility  Identify best case  Determine most likely outcomes  Identify Solutions Resilience A Lifelong skill
  • 19. Worst Case Beliefs Determined to not be a good enough chef Fired from job How Likely? Not at all likely Not likely Best Case Beliefs Receive world wide recognition Instantly able to relate to people Likely Outcomes Learn to work with Sous Chef Encounter some conflict on the way Solutions Spend time getting to know Sous Chef Ask what Sous Chef is interested in learning/gaining Work on listening skill set Ĵ Resilience A Lifelong skill
  • 20. Worst Case Beliefs How Likely? Best Case Beliefs Likely Outcomes Solutions Resilience A Lifelong skill
  • 21.  Calming Techniques Educators already use!  Positive Refocusing  Mentoring Techniques  Video Resilience A Lifelong skill
  • 22.  Build Positive Beliefs in Your Abilities o self-esteem o Becoming more confident about your own ability to respond and deal with crisis is a great way to build resilience for the future. Resilience A Lifelong skill
  • 23. Do the best of your ability and never doubt what you can do. Push beyond ability if you must and you will have a good experience, maybe even a breakthrough. Resilience A Lifelong skill
  • 25.  Having caring, supportive people around you acts as a protective factor during times of crisis.  share your feelings, gain support, receive positive feedback, and come up with possible solutions to your problems. Resilience A Lifelong skill
  • 28.  Don't neglect yours basic Needs in crisis situation.  boost your overall health and resilience and be fully ready to face life's challenges. Resilience A Lifelong skill
  • 29.  Whenever you encounter a new challenge, make a quick list of some of the potential ways you could solve the problem.  develop a logical way to work through common problems. Resilience A Lifelong skill
  • 30.  Resilient people are able to view these situations in a realistic way, and then set reasonable goals to deal with the problem. Resilience A Lifelong skill
  • 31.  Don’t focus on problem just focused on the solution of the problem. Resilience A Lifelong skill
  • 33.  Video Resilience A Lifelong skill