Self-compassion is loving kindness toward the self during times of stress and in good times, too. This powerpoint describes compassion, self-compassion, and how to foster compassion and self-compassion in clients. This can old happen when service providers and service users have relationships of trust..
3. Overview Statement on Two
Views of Human Beings
bad, sinful, unworthy
We judge, criticize, compare, and
punish
4. Overview Statement on Two
Views of Human Beings
bad, sinful, unworthy
We judge, criticize, compare, &
punish
basically good
We accept ourselves & others
We regulate our behaviors & the
behaviors of others
8. More on Compassion
Golden Rule
Do to others as you would want
others to do to you.
The greatest of the virtues
9. More on Compassion
Golden Rule
Do to others as you would want
others to do to you.
The greatest of all virtues
"Compassion is a necessity, not a
luxury.” The Dali Lama
10. More on Compassion
Core attribute for helping
professionals
Compassion fatigue
Need for self-compassion
14. Examples
Self-Compassion
I screwed up. I want to make up for
it.
I hurt you. I’m sorry.
I eat too much. I accept that until
I’m ready to do something about it.
22. Relationship-Based Practice
Relationships
the heart of effective practice
can be demanding, confusing, and
conflicted
effective practice based on trust
safe havens
Where clients grapple with issues and events
29. Videos From
This Workshop
Becoming a Self-Compassionate Service Provider
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=l3s6iuHU-7I
Loving-Kindness Toward a Young Student https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1R-
BUtC7-b8
Children Disclose Sexual Abuse When They Feel Safe
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gSwPeVTDyl8
When Children Say I’m Bad https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0yTEGM7sf_4
Being Present to Children with Trauma
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=BfOBpNjXWbk
What Compassion Is and Is Not https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=79L10i1iyuY
30. References
Gilbert, P. (Ed.). (2005). Compassion: Conceptualisations, research and use in
psychotherapy. Routledge.
Gilgun, Jane F. & Samantha Hirschey (2015). Girls’ Aggression & Child Welfare
Social Work. St. Paul, MN: Center for Advanced Studies in Child Welfare. Also free
on Smashwords, iBooks, Barnes & Noble
Megele, Claudia (2015). Psychosocial and Relationship-Based Practice. Norwich, UK:
Critical Publishing.
Neff, K. (2003). Self-compassion: An alternative conceptualization of a healthy
attitude toward oneself. Self and identity, 2(2), 85-101.
Neff, K. (2013). Self-compassion Step by Step: The Proven Power of Being Kind to
Yourself. Sounds True.
Ruch, Gillian (2005). Relationship practice and reflective practice: Holistic
approaches to contemporary child care social work. Child and Family Social Work,
10, 111-123.
31. References
Tanaka, M., Wekerle, C., Schmuck, M. L., Paglia-Boak, A., & MAP Research Team.
(2011). The linkages among childhood maltreatment, adolescent mental health,
and self-compassion in child welfare adolescents. Child Abuse & Neglect, 35(10),
887-898.
van Dernoot Lipsky, L., & Burk, C. (2009). Trauma stewardship: An everyday guide
to caring for self while caring for others. Berrett-Koehler Publishers..
Websites and Videos
The Three Components of Self-Compassion: Kristin Neff
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=11U0h0DPu7k
Parenting a Self-Compassionate Child- Kristin Neff
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CDAvHRS3DLc
32. Websites & Videos
The Three Components of Self-Compassion: Kristin Neff
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=11U0h0DPu7k
Parenting a Self-Compassionate Child- Kristin Neff
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CDAvHRS3DLc
The Space Between Self-Compassion and Self-Esteem- Kristin Neff
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IvtZBUSplr4
Strengthening the Mind Through Self-Compassion
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0GKVMILwzdY
Cognitive Behavioral Tools- Dr. LuAnn Helms
Managing abusive self-talk (8:25-11:16) https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IEsYiCDoJks