4. Formulae..are there any?
Identify patterns that
fail for u.
Its easy if you
retrospect.
So, can we identify
patterns dat win for
us?
Try..
झुकते झुकते एक दिन हम यूं झुके
अपनी ही बातें अब सर पे आ पड़े
न टटने के विनम्र भाि में इतना झुके
कक जीत हार में हारने का फलसफा पढ़ चले
-गीततका
5. Mantra
• Decide what u want
• Have a plan
• Identify ‘Must do’s’
• Go one step closer to ur goal each day
• Expect disappointments & setbacks
• Be excited about good results that come ur way
• Stay focused
• Ask relevant questions
• Have Patience
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Few Ways to avoid failure and lead your way to success
VISION
EXECUTION
INFORMATION
TIMING
REFLEXES
6. Its still easy to identify patterns and initiate change.
Change that either lies within us, or outside of us.
But,
Different times give us different results.
7. Lets look at different phases of life as different
moods of a river.
Has anybody done rafting…
8. It is important to set your GOAL.
So dat u don’t drift away.
But, drifting has its own importance.
There are times, when u need to
THINK LESS and DO MORE!
Or, u need to just - DRIFT…
एक सिाल, जजसका जिाब पता नहीूं
एक समय, जजसका दहसाब पता नहीूं
कर्ज़ तो रोर् चुकाते हैं हम
एक कश्मकश, जजसका अूंजाम पता नहीूं
-गीततका
9. So u’ve struggled a lot!
And then the life comes that u’ve struggled all
these years for!!
You just hav to drift long enough to see that
phase and bask in that light!!!
एक भली हुई ग़र्ल आज कफर सुनी
मसलती हुई उँगललयों से आँख जब खुली
सोचते हुए मुस्कु राए कक िो था कक है
एक बीता कल, जजस िजह यह सुबह आज बनी
-गीततका
10. A few basics…
• Save ur interest! Nobody can eat for u, stay healthy for u
or struggle for u.
• Success and failures have a love-hate relationship with
happiness.
• We create d same world around us, wherever we go. The
change lies within us.
• When everybody is facing d same situations dat we do, d
change lies in d environment outside of us, not within us.
• Wat u allow will continue.
11. U might be a newcomer or a seasoned player..
Wat matters is wat u do in this inning!
12. Sometimes, d depth u get in life is necessary to
balance d height u r going to take!
ककस्मत बनाने की चाह में
कातते रहे मेहनत की डोर
ककस्मत ने पलटकर िेखा
जब बैठे थे उम्मीिें छोड़
-गीततका
13. NO FAILURE IS EVER FINAL, NOR
IS ANY SUCCESS
If dis doesn’t work, something else will!
If dis works, we won’t need something else!!
Editor's Notes
The accomplishment of a goal is success.
The attainment of power, prosperity or wealth is success.
The achievement of happiness is…
Not being able to accomplish a goal is failure.
If people are talking..if there are problems many at work…is it success/failure..
Share examples .. Rati and Shruti study in the same year at postgrad..
Take a minute and look back at ur last three months..
Do u identify patterns dat u repeatedly do. Al of us do.
Good/Poor-vision, execution,information,timing, reflexes lead to success/failure
Look at river as life
& us and our raft as we and our situations..
The early rapids, with too much effort and enthusiasm
The broad river where we can jump intu waters and relax
The 3degree rapids wen u hav to row fast and get thru. Some may topple. But still survive.
D journey is not over, u still hav tu row ur boat/raft..now u r better prepared fr the next rapid!
Sometimes, u may park d raft, and get down fr a sunny bath or an adventure jump.
Sometimes u may not see d end of d journey. U still keep rowing or floating.
Till d time wen u actually see d end, and row/float towards it.
U may see d end as d end of one life or d end of one goal/one expedition.
Then u stop. Finish it. Go do something else an start a new journey again.