1. Relationship Skills Essay
A relationship is what we choose to have with a family member, friend, significant other, and/or a person that we just have met. You should know
that there should be a strong connection or bond for the relationship to grow in many levels. Relationships tend to vary from impersonal to personal.
A description of an impersonal relationship is someone who does not care and explicit a lack of concern to anyone they are communicating with. In
personal relationships, people do care about each other and share their thoughts and feelings. In my life, I allowed myself to become aware of what
needs to be done to improve my relationship skills. I am still in the process of making those changes.
To maintain an ongoing successful relationship, you...show more content...
The way he was behaving got out of control and started to affect our relationship. I told him that it wasn't going to work out between us because he was
not putting in the effort to collaborate with me within the relationship.
Luckily, I did find someone who was willing to work with me in all situations. The connection between my boyfriend and I are a bit more personal.
We are able to open ourselves and listen to each other. For example, the other day, we were discussing about school and where we were going to
transfer to. I told him, "You need to work harder to get those grades up, so you can get into a better college!" The only way that was going to happen
is if I sat along with him while he did his work and that is what I did. After doing this, I realized that in this way we are both teaming up and working
together. In the Johari Window, you will see four panes; open, blind, secret, and unknown. If Iwant my relationship to bloom, I should be at the open
pane. In the open pane, I can open up by sharing my thoughts and feelings into words.
In addition to communication skills, you need effective listening skills as well. I discussed this in my other paper and I won't mention the whole
listening process but will state some important points. Listening skills are needed if we want the relationship to continue. In my opinion, I think the
two most important factors of listening are attending and understanding. We should switch from
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2. Relationship Analysis Paper
[Your Name] [Professor's Name] [Course Name and Number] [Date of Submission] Relationship Analysis Paper Introduction A number of well
âthought
out socioâculture proverbs, which highlight the cultural values of mankind by spotting on the fact that the quality of life lies within the quality of
relationships we have, actually refer to the depths of social associations that the masses possess and extract out the true essence of human life in
relation to the social surroundings humans are engrossed with. This reveals that a true relationship is when one loves for the sake of loving and not
for achieving some desired outcomes. Love is all about selflessness and relationships are all about nurturing true feelings of esteem and...show more
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it supports objectivity over subjectivity (Casmir 245). I do believe that in relationships between two people, the aspect that oversees whether or not the
field will show up synergy or destructive disorder is the acuity of power and control (Prince and LoganâPrice 3). Whenever I and my son Jack receive
transmissions from each other, we should first scan those the threats which deepen the gaps by all means as if we can manage to generate a field
which is optimistic and healthy rather than pessimistic or negative; then we can listen to each other's perceptions and can avoid ineffective listening
which ultimately leads to conceptual clashes. The second theory, the social exchange theory, is an ilk of the cause and effect theory which focuses on
the consequences of any behavioral conduct. If jack and I take care of our communicational conducts by making the most of this theory, we can get rid
of many relational disagreements. Now the third theory of communicational relationships, social system theory, emphasizes to sustain the dignity of the
social structure by avoiding various unlawful and psychotic conducts (Casmir 250). In accordance with these three theories, I firmly believe that "Truly
creative individuals are those who succeed, against all pressures of instinct and
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3. Relational Transgression Definition
A relationship, as stated in chapter 9 of the textbook, is one of those words that people use all the time, but have trouble defining and I definitely
agree. There are countless ways to define what a relationship really is, and even scholars who have devoted their careers to studying relationships don't
agree on what the term really means. However, a relationship can be narrow down to what type of a relationship it is. When I listen carefully to
"When I Was Your Man," and analyzed each word of the lyrics, it clearly indicates that there is a relationship problem known as a relational
transgression. A good example would be the 2nd verse when Bruno Mars sang "My pride, my ego, my needs and my selfish ways caused a good
strong woman like you to
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4. Intimate Relationship Analysis
An intimate relationship is defined as an interpersonal relationship that involves physical and/or emotional intimacy. In reaching young adulthood,
individuals are considered to be ready to form intimate relationships and commit to another individual. But ADHD is characterized by behavior and
thoughts that are inappropriate for a person's age and developmental level and its symptoms in adulthood create deficits in communication skills and
reactivity to others. Therefore, young adults with ADHD often experience significant difficulties in developing and preserving intimate relationships
and the closeness that they innately desire as human beings (Lehpamer, 2015) (Marsh et al., 2015). Adults with ADHD are considered to be at an
elevated risk...show more content...
These deficits in daily functioning are applicable to the individual's level of functioning as an intimate partner. Partners with ADHD tend to be
forgetful, inattentive, disorganized, and distracted. They tend to fail in effectively communicating with their partner, fulfilling their own
responsibilities within the relationship, and tend to overreact emotionally in situations of conflict with their partners. This failure to fulfill essential
duties in the relationship, accompanied by explosive behaviors, can lead the partner without ADHD to feel as though their partner does not love them
nor care about the relationship. In addition, young adults with ADHD lack selfâawareness, and therefore do not realize the negative impact their
behaviors have on their significant others. Some even express surprise when their significant other ends the relationship, and this feeling of being
blindâsided further solidifies the fear and avoidance of rejection (Robin & Payson, 2002). All of these factors greatly contribute to the failure of
maintaining an intimate
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5. Interpersonal Relationship Analysis
An Interpersonal Relationship between my Grandma Scott and me This essay is demonstrating what I have learned and can apply to everyday life
using interpersonal communication taken from the book, InterâAct: Interpersonal Communication: Concepts, Skills, and Contexts, Fourteenth Edition
written by Kathleen S. Verderber; Erina L. MacGeorge. I am writing this relationship analysis reflecting on three separate occasions of meeting
faceâtoâface and talking with my grandma. Since the day I was born, our relationship has been very close probably because I am her first grandchild.
The first meeting took place on Wednesday, March 29, 2017 at Presbyterian Manor. This is an assisted living facility where my grandma was going
through shortâterm rehabilitation...show more content...
My grandmother has been a big influence in who I am today in regards to continuing my education and making progress towards my career goals of
becoming a degreed engineer. Her predictions date back a little over tenâyears ago after I began filling the void my grandpa left ever since he passed
away. It all started as I helping my grandma out from repairs around the house to putting new pieces of furniture together. She always said that because
of my mechanical aptitude and a love for airplanes, she always believed that someday I would be an engineer. I always look forward to receiving these
service calls from my grandma as a way of paying her back for the years of positive selfâconcept she has given me in building a stellar resume. Just
this past Tuesday, I stopped by her apartment to assemble a new trash/recycling cart. As I sat there on her living room floor surrounded by parts and
redlining the instructions, she started our conversation off by reminding me of how my analytical and detailâoriented skills are of what an engineer
would be. I recognize her contribution to my positive selfâesteem, which depends heavily on experiences and interactions with people who we feel
close to and respect that inform us about our worth and our talents. Just about the time I finished tightening the last bolt and trimming cotter pins, my
phone rang. A woman on
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6. Communication is one of the most important aspects in romantic relationships and different communication styles can affect relationships differently.
Relationships can be both positively and negatively affected depending on the level of communication between the partners. This literature review will
first define romantic relationships and explore what exactly happens in the development of these relationships. From the research found, individual's
age or sex did not necessarily affect the differences in communication. Some research claimed that communication itself defined a romantic
relationship; while other researchers said that a couple having the conversation of, "what are we?" was enough to define the relationship. Sometimes it
was mutuality in a relationship that helped define it. Mutuality in relationships was often increased with positivity and compliments between partners
(Doohan and Manusov 2004). Individuals have different levels of disclosure and when combined with another individual's disclosure level can have
positive or negative outcomes. The decision to communicate can also cause uncertainty within relationships. Prior research was conducted to try and
measure what exactly causes the uncertainty and negative results to show up in a relationship. Intimacy, security, problematic events, and irritations are
all different elements that can be stronger or weaker in the relationship based on the disclosure (Theiss and Solomon 2006). This is an important area
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7. The Stages Of Relational Development
Mark Knapp developed a theoretical model to which identifies the stages of interpersonal relationships which explains how relationships begin and
grow, as well as how they deteriorate and end. This model defines ten separate stages of relational development under three different interrelating
categories; Coming Together, Relational Maintenance, and Coming Apart. An analysis of a personal relationship through the use of Knapp's stages
of relational development leads to a better understanding of that relationship and our role within it. In this essay I will be analyzing a personal
relationship of my own using Knapp's stages as a guide. However, these stages are subjective to each individual's unique situation. Therefore, I will
only be examining my relationship in the "coming together" stages. Furthermore, it is possible to pass over or amalgamate stages, as these stages are
closer to a guide rather than set rules. For this analysis I will be breaking the "coming together" stages into initiating, experimentation and intensifying,
integration, and bonding. During the "Initiating" stage we share introductions and create impressions of each other. For me, this stage was terribly
short and informal. We had met a few times in passing at parties and barely knew each other's names. Furthermore, due to the person introducing us,
we both created a negative first impression of each other, because neither of us had much respect for this individual. However, one day when we were
both in
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8. Relationship Analysis Ideas
Relationship Analysis Paper On a day to day basis it seems everywhere you go you see the stereoâtypical "happy" couple whether it be them walking
down the street, holding hands and laughing, or the couple out for a romantic candle lit dinner for two, showing off how happy they are to the whole
restaurant to see, or there is always the date night couple sharing a large popcorn at the movies. Seeing these happy couples everywhere you go can
get old quick, especially to the average single person minding their own business. I understand the feeling of being overwhelmed and pretty much
annoyed by theses so called "happyâ in love" couples. I thought this basically about every couple I saw my whole single career. Making comments like
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But if you take the time to analyze each couple you saw, and even take a look at past and present relationships you're in now, you would see very
different outcomes and stories behind every single one. I used to put very little thought into other people's relationships, or my own for that matter. In
reality it took me actually being in a strong healthy adult relationship to know and understand the time, effort, work and the steps you must face to
truly be in a strong relationship. After really getting this experience I hope we can all make it in to the prestigious club of the "happy" annoying
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9. An Essay On Relationship
In this world, to live a life, everybody needs someone to always be there by their side. It is not possible to stay alone and be happy at the same
time. We can lower our pain by sharing it, or increase our happiness if we can share our happiness with others. People stand with us, share our
feelings, bond with us and become a part of our life. We can't imagine the life without the people who matter the most to us. Some we meet with the
needs, some meet with destiny and some stays from the very first day of our life. These connections and commitment of being there make
relationships. There is different steps, ways and views of every relation. Trust, love and respect are three different ways to show the importance of our
relationship. Relationships can never be accomplished or continued without love. Love is the most important thing to keep a...show more content...
It is not something we just give away or created by feelings or emotions. Trust is something which we need to earn. To keep the relationships, we
must be a trusted person. We meet with people in everyday life, but our friends and loved ones are special. We can love any people we meet in our
daily life but the relationships want trust. Trust, so that we can share our secret, happiness, sorrows. To give our hundred percent in any relationship,
we need the believe that they feel the same for us. In any situation, if we fall down, they will come to save us, this is called trust. Most of the time,
family members are the most trusted person in our life. Also, friends and lover earned the trust from us by staying with us, by telling us the truth.
Sometimes, lovers lie in the beginning of a new life, they hide things to save relationship, but it is not the way to keep a relationship. Truth can never
be hidden, it will come up and we won't be able to handle the outcome if we broke the trust they had. We should be as trust strengthen a relationship,
also there can't be a relationship without
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10. Relationship Analysis Essay
Friendship Relationship Analysis During my youth I had the honor of developing a friendship that would last a lifetime and never diminish no matter
what the circumstances may be. I played soccer throughout my entire childhood and little did I know that I would end up meeting one of my best
friends at random. My best friends name is Quinton, and our relationship has taken us through our soccer careers, high school, and now attending
different universities. During this time our relationship has gone through various stages the sixâstage relationship model, including contact,
involvement, intimate friendship, and somewhat of a dissolution. Our friendship has been everything I could ever ask for and we have made some
amazing memories on our journey...show more content...
There was no semantic noise between the two of us and we had countless memories that we would recall of. We had a solid group of friends that we
would hangout with about every weekend at Quinton's house, which was my secondary territory. I was extremely close with everyone in our group but
I have always been the most close with Quinton and I blame much of that to our relationship that we developed through church. When we would
hangout on the weekends we would drink energy drinks and stay up to the latest hours of the night talking about our dreams and ponder about how the
universe was created. Quinton and I are both talkers so our communication would always follow the principle of dialogue, with genuine twoâway
conversation. We talked about everything under the sun and we actually disagree with some things but I would always follow the principle of
peaceful relations, avoiding an argument. Our conversations were genuine no matter if it was a serious issue and a light hearted one. We were both so
open with each other, we told each other everything and that is a why became best
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11. Relationship Analysis
April 24, 2013 Relationship Analysis Project Relationships are the things that make human beings, which brings sense to life if these
relationships make you feel happy or takes the desire to live away if these relationships are like a stone at your neck. From relationships, the whole
fate of the person is determined. If he or she has pleasant relationships at work, in his or her family, in private life, such a person is considered to
be happy. If relationships are not the things that bring some joy into life, the person stops being satisfied and pleased with life. Today I will be
analyzing my sister's relationship. When she first met her boyfriend, she was very shy and was scared of him because he was popular and she was
just a quiet...show more content...
Being in a relationship you should be able to understand and make adjustments to certain situations like time spent together and budgeting for bills.
I gave this tip to my sister's relationship, because she should love him the way she want to be love. If you want someone to care about your dreams
and concerns of life you have to do the same. My sister started to think about her boyfriend and he thought about her, when he went shopping he pick
up somethings for her as well. After using my third tip, my sister and her boyfriend, focuses more on each other, they help each other out in ways I
didn't think they would be able too, for example, shopping, investing into their futures together by saving more money, being aware of decisions they
make in life and taking in consideration on how would that make the other partner feel within the relationship. The fourth tip would be one we learn in
class, "never attack an Achilles' heel". For example if your partner has confessed to you that his cruel highâschool classmates nicknamed him "the hairy
ape," and if, in adulthood, he still has fears about being furrier than most, you canââwhen you are furiousââcall him every name in the book, but you
can't call him that one. This one relates more to arguments; it's also known as hitting below the belt. We all have flaws and things that happen or we
did through the years but it's not fair to reopen a wound if that wound has healed. In my sister's relationship, they both
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12. Ending a relationship is never an easy thing to do, nor is it an easy situation to be in. When we realize that some relationships, (whether it's a
relationship with a friend or a partner) is not working out in our favor, this is the time for our relationship to come to a close. To end a relationship we
need to do so with no regrets and no hesitation. We need to end this connection without hate for one another.
Often times when we try to end a relationship, we end up causing more damage than what we mean to. We often cause pain ofconflict in the other
person's lives even though we don't intend to do so. This can sometimes never be avoided but here are some easy steps to start out with ending a
relationship in a more simpler and better way.
When ending a relationship you want to start by being alone, away from distractions and in a quiet place. This will give the situation more clarity and
be taken more seriously. After doing so you want to start calmly, but also proudly. Don't
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First, we should be calm, don't panic. Also don't hesitate to state what you are feeling but also don't be too harsh. Remember, this is going to be a hard
accepting process for them. Secondly, don't procrastinate on opening up to the other person, this will only cause more pain to occur in the end. Third,
just be honest with them, they will understand the situation a lot more if you explain your point of view. This will also help them with the coping
process. Lastly, Have compassion for the other person as they are going through this time in their life, you never know what they may be thinking or
feeling at this time.
Now you have what it takes to end a relationship of your own. Remember all the steps and also don't forget that the other person is only human, they
have feelings too. When ending a relationship you must be brave, have compassion, be proud and lastly, reassure yourself why you are doing this,
what is the
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13. Relationship Analysis Essay
Module 4/ Assignment 2: Reflection Paper 1
Module 4/ Assignment 2: "Relationship Analysis" Reflection Paper
Raymond Martin
Interpersonal Effectiveness
July 24, 2009
Module 4/ Assignment 2: Reflection Paper 2 The type of relationship I will be analyzing is my friendship with Jeremy Orner. The relationship model
that best describes this relationship would be the one developed by Mark Knapp (Knapp & Vangelisti, 2006) who broke down relationship development
into ten steps. This model explains friendship throughout our ten years as friends, so far we have been through 9 of the ten steps; Initiating,
Experimenting, Intensifying, Integrating, Bonding, Differentiating, Circumscribing, Stagnating, and Avoiding,...show more content...
We started to talk and find out more about each other, as we talked, we found out that we had a lot of similarities. We both like muscle cars, we had
the same ideas and beliefs about what the "dream car" would look like, what kind of motor, and how much hp (horsepower) it should have, it was a
smoke black 1969 Camaro SS with red racing strips and a blown 502 Merlin bigâblock pushing out 1500 hp. We talked about this car for a few hours,
then Jeremy and Justin said that I am welcomed to stop by and hangout anytime, because I was the only one who could "hang with them"( drink as
much and not pass out) at a party. After that night I started to hangout more and more with Jeremy and Justin drinking and getting to know each other,
we started to become good friends.
Intensifying As our friendship progressed, we started hanging out more and more, going to parties together, doing favors like borrowing money
from each other, he would buy the beer one night and I would would buy the next night. This was about the time when we started to plan a trip we
called the "Cali Cruise" witch was we would build and restore a 1981 Pontiac Trans AM. Then we would take two weeks off of work and drive up and
down the coast of California, stopping to party along the way.
14. Bonding This the stage were Jeremy and I became
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15. Reading And Writing Relationship Essay
My relationship with writing and reading can be vague at times. I was a vivid reader growing up. Reading was the most fulfilling food (rhetorically
speaking) for my imagination. I believe writing and reading play two important roles combined for myself. Reading gives me a glimpse into the
authors mind and a different perspective from my own. One can analyze every word and soon be consumed by the pages. Unlike television, you can
control the story with every page your fingertips turn and touch. Writing also gives me a way to express myself without speaking. With speaking you
can't unsay something spoken, but with writing you chose and rearrange your expressions and ideas. The best way to describe this would be texting.
Some people prefer talking
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16. Romeo And Juliet Relationship Analysis
Discuss the relationships between parents and children on Romeo and Juliet. How do Romeo and Juliet interact with their parents? Are they rebellious
in the modern sense? How do their parents feel about them?
"The best way to get your child to listen to you is to develop a meaningful relationship with themââwithout judgements and anger". Capulet and
Montague are unable to maintain stable relationships with their children, which eventually plays a part in their deaths. Romeo and Juliet is a tragic
play written by Shakespeare. In fair Verona, two starâcrossed lovers pursue their deathâmarked love no matter what the circumstances. Shakespeare
includes a great deal of imagery and dramatic irony to emphasize the love between Romeo and Juliet. In Verona, the Montage's and Capulet's are seen
as two very wealthy families. Despite their high social rank, their relationships with their children are very unstable. They demonstrate low respect for
their children, treating them much like puppets and servants. The families' abusive, selfâcentred and ignorant behaviours have caused sadness and
depression unto their kids, and ultimately death. The parentâchild relationships in Romeo and Juliet are acquainted and dysfunctional. Capulet's
selfishness and Juliet's stubbornness make their relationship very unstable, while Montague's caring personality and Romeo's lack of love for his
parents make it very hard to form a relationship.
The Capulet's behaviour is a reason why the relationship between them and Juliet is very weak. They are selfâcentred, abusive, and unable to have a
proper conversation with her. Lord Capulet has a selfâcentred personality which makes it really hard to build a stable and proper relationship with his
daughter. "An you be mine, I'll give you to my friends / An you be nut, hang, beg, die in the streets." (3.5.192â193). This quote effectively
demonstrates Capulet's selfâcentred and forceful personality. When he tells Juliet to marry Paris or go die in the streets, it becomes evident the he is
using Juliet for his own selfish will. Furthermore, Capulet does not even listen to Juliet's opinion which indicates that he does not care about the
opinion of Juliet, but only his own opinion. In addition to
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17. What Is A Relationship Essay
Relationships bring so much joy to people's lives. Whether it's a friendship, family relationships, or marriage/dating, it brings two people together.
Sometimes relationships get hard and go through some "rough patches" and lead to negative consequences. I personally can see in other relationships,
and in my own past and present these issues cause many to question their own. Some compare their relationships to ones they see in movies, on social
media, or celebrities they look up to. It's a dire need to be perfect, and want nothing but happiness and no fighting, and that's what many want and try to
succeed this based on what they see. The issue in relationships are common and can eventually lead to some heavy consequences. Being in a
relationship means a lot of different things to anyone I could ask. There is a lot of different traits that make up a relationship, and each person can
interpret it in their own way, which could lead to problems as well. Relationships are a huge part of life, and knowing how to "work" with them, and
make it work is important....show more content...
I can relate to this character when he talks about cleaning up before the girl he liked came over. When someone I care about or am dating comes
over, I always make sure my house and room are perfect. Meaning I have nothing laying around, everything is clean, and things are in order. I don't
really do it to impress the person themselves, but I do it to make a good first impression. As time goes on and I get to know the person, I still clean,
but not as much as I did in the beginning. I just think it's important to make a good first impression no matter who it is. I wouldn't want my new
boyfriend or new friends walking into my house and seeing dirty dishes, laundry laying around, smelly garbage, and I wouldn't really expect that going
into their houses for the first
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18. Essay on Relationships
Whether it occurs in the home, at work, or many other places, human beings maintain relationships everywhere they go. People have different types of
relationships. A person keeps a relationship with their mother, pastor, friend, and boss, but those relationships are all different. There are many different
elements to analyze when discussing a relationship. Many factors are involved, such as amount of time spent, amount of intimacy, types of activities
participated in, and dependability of the relationship.The first type of relationship a person typically has, are ones that are formed within a religious
setting, such as a church, temple, or synagogue.
The amount of time spent within this relationship varies depending on how much type an...show more content...
One can party with another person every single weekend but not know many personal details about that other person. The time spent in these
relationships are limited to how many social gathering a person wishes to attend. Dependability is minimal, as one does not want to rely on a person he
or she gets drunk with to help in important matters.
This form of relationship is purely for entertainment and not for reliability.Another necessary relationship in ones relationship is the professional
relationship. These relationships are the ones that a person is involved with at their workplace. This type of relationship includes bosses, coâworkers,
and customers. The time spent in within these relationships varies on one's hours, but for the most part, takes up the bulk of their week. There is
usually no personal information shared, as the relationships are purely business. Intimacy should be kept at a minimum to maximize work efficiency.
Dependability and reliability is an important factor, but limited strictly on job related issues. The work relationship is an important one, as it is
generally the relationship with the strictest set of guidelines. Activities included in the professional relationship is always limited to just those that
occur in the workplace.Another place people form relationships is in the educational setting. One associates with teachers and classmates by necessity,
as
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19. Relationship Essay
Relationships We could be enemies, friends, dating, married, strangers, cousins, neighbors, siblings, parents, coworkers, or lovers. As you look at your
life from an outside perspective, you will realize you have many diverse relationships in your life. No two relationships are exactly the same. Each
connection you have in your life is different from the next. Relationships make the world go round. Without any relationships, the world would not
function, our population will not reproduce and life would cease to exist. Each relationship means putting in effort, facing obstacles and working
through them. A relationship is a bond between two or more people, all coming down to one thing; connection. Friendships Friendships are madeâup
...show more content...
Your relationship falters with each person you meet, each rumor or story you are told, and the memories you hold on to with them. You may have
a connection with one family member, and act like other family members do not exist, because of the type of relationship you have with them.
Your family relationship is a bond that is harder to break, you are bonded for life whether or not you have a relationship with them. Family, a
connection deeper and more profound. The people you consider closest to you and more important than others, blood or not. Your family
relationship is there to be your support group whether it be an organization, your closest friends, or blood. "I got blood that ain't family and family
that ain't blood." At the end of the day family is what you make it, and does not have to be based on the DNA, but the relationship you have. No
family is the same, so no connection would be the same either. Coworkers A professional relationship is characterized by collegiality. At your
workplace, your relationship with your coworkers should be professional, respectable, nonâsexual, and more on a mature level. Being at work, you
should remain nonâemotionally dependent on any coworker, because it needs to be a wellâmannered, drama free environment. A relationship with
your coworkers is different than your friends. You will communicate differently, meaning you shouldn't bring your personal
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20. Interpersonal Communication May 19, 2011 Relationship Analysis When this assignment was given out, I instantly knew exactly what relationship I
wanted to analyze: my exâboyfriend's and my relationship. It might sound like an odd relationship to choose, seeing as he is an ex, and it might not
sound like a good starting point, but let me first say he is one of my best friends right now. Our relationship began like very few relationships do, on
Facebook. In June of 2009, after I had been accepted into a Fall 2009 freshman class, a boy said hello in a message and a 4âpage paper could not even
touch the surface of our relationship in those past 2 years, but I will do my best to explain as much as possible. Over the next few months, the...show
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I had issues with being intimate, especially PDA because I had never had a boyfriend, let alone held a boy's hand in public. He is the exact
opposite: loves to give and receive hugs, will hold his (girl) best friend's hand in public, gives people kisses on the cheek, and the list goes on. My
discomfort with intimacy and his unwillingness to understand that proved very problematic and caused a lot of strain on our relationship.
According to an article by Carolyn Bernie (2010), "...the presence of intimacy (but not sexual intimacy) was associated with greater perceived
relationship quality..."(Vol. 71, pg 45). Now that I am more comfortable with being intimate, not necessarily sexually intimate, but doing things
like holding hands, and kissing, and more, I realize how important it can be to a relationship, especially to someone who is a naturally intimate
person. However, I did not realize this until long after so back and forth the arguing went until we reached the breaking point and I decided to end
it. Our fight only lasted a few weeks though, as both of us broke down saying we missed each other, and ended up dating again a month later. After
more arguing, a jealous girl lying about him cheating on me, and the buildup of freshman year stress, we broke up again a few weeks before summer.
This fight again only lasted a short time before we made up, but only to become friends. Over the summer we talked but I was very hesitant
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