Aging means change, but not necessarily decline. Everybody's doing it, so let's figure out how to make it a positive experience. Here is a full description of our confused beliefs about aging, and how you can turn that around to age gracefully and elegantly...and have fun doing it.
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Elegant Aging: Growing Deeper, Stonger And Wiser With Age
1. ELEGANT AGING
Emotional Wellness Processes for
Body/Mind Renewal
National Wellness Conference
William G. DeFoore, Ph.D.
Institute for Personal & Professional Development, www.goodfinding.com
2. DEFINING
TERMS
1. Elegant: Characterized by or exhibiting
refined, tasteful beauty of manner, form, or
style.
2. Age: to GROW old, to GROW up, Latin root
“alo” and Germanic root “alt” mean “to
nourish, to bring up”; more generally, alo
means to strengthen, increase and advance—to
become taller and deeper
4. AGING IS
NO
ACCIDENT
1. If we had eternal youth…it would not be good
2. The challenge of physical and mental change
can make you magnificent…if you let it
3. The spiritual world expands as the physical
world changes
5. CONFUSION
ABOUT AGING
1. The young want to be older, and the old
want to be young
2.Aging is considered a negative word, when
it is actually life itself…begins at birth
and ends at death
3.It is decline we fear—not aging. The
confused thought equates aging & decline.
6. WHY AGING IS
SEEN AS
NEGATIVE
• Fear of death
• Fear of loss: “beauty,” health, function
• Fear of abandonment
• Worship of beauty/youth
• Negative beliefs—Aging means: inevitable
illness, inevitable deterioration, inevitable
loss of attractiveness, increasing need
for medical care
8. THE
ECONOMICS
OF FEAR
• Marketing and advertising
• The entertainment industry
• The insurance industry
• The pharmaceutical industry
9. THE
COST OF CYNICISM,
PESSIMISM &
DESPAIR
• Less likely to try something new
• More likely to give up
• More likely to succumb to
negative emotions
10. THE
HEALTH IMPACT
OF FEAR
• Anxiety and its effects
• The effect of fear on decision
making
• Fear as a vehicle for marketing
and consumer control
11. THE
DEPRESSION WE
CONSIDER TO BE
“NORMAL”
• Depression and the negative view of
aging
• Impact of depression on immune
function
• Impact of depression on diet,
exercise, activity level
12. AGE-OLD
OLD AGE
MYTHS
• Retirement myths & results
• Children as “someone to take care of
me in my old age”
• “Men die before women”
• Sexual desire/ability diminishes
• Dying of “old age”
13. THE BENEFITS OF TRUST,
FAITH & OPTIMISM FOR AGING
AND HEALTH
14. THE IMPACT
OF OPTIMISM
• Resilience and recovery
• Health and longevity
• Decision making
• Risk taking
• Exercise, diet & activity level
• The NECESSITY of a positive attitude
for healthy aging
15. THE BENEFITS OFTHE BENEFITS OF
OPTIMISMOPTIMISM
• Superior healthSuperior health
• Greater achievementGreater achievement
• PersistencePersistence
• Emotional healthEmotional health
• Increased longevityIncreased longevity
• Less stressLess stress
• Explanatory stylesExplanatory styles
(Benefits of optimism in a 15 year study)(Benefits of optimism in a 15 year study)
16. EXERCISES AND SKILLS
• Replacing old beliefs
• Becoming a “Goodfinder”
• The Art of Appreciation
• Focus on positive role models
• Visualizing/imagining healthy aging
• Prayer & meditation
17. THE BENEFIT OF
STORYTELLING
• The unloading of baggage
• The passing on of wisdom
• The honoring of life experience
• The breaking of dysfunctional patterns
• A way of following the natural
recapitulation process
18. • To hear the stories
• To ask:
Who are your heroes?
Who were your mentors?
What are your greatest lessons?
What are your favorite memories of
beauty, kindness, compassion?
A RITE OF PASSAGE
INTO ELDERHOOD
19. A chance to:
Show our love
Express our appreciation
Celebrate a new beginning
Honor and value the process of life
Strengthen connections between youth
and elders
A RITE OF PASSAGE
INTO ELDERHOOD
22. Consider this:
Nothing is more important than feeling
good right now
How you feel about your health is more
important than what you do
Well being is your natural state
Attitude matters most
USING YOUR
EMOTIONAL
GUIDANCE
SYSTEM
23. Yale study:
Positive perception of aging-7.6 years
greater longevity
Influence of body mass, exercise &
nonsmoking-1 to 3 years greater
FEELING GOOD
ABOUT
AGEING
24. Physical:
Exercise, relaxation, activity
Understanding the impact of the medical
model on consciousness
Embracing the self-healing capacity of
the human body
METHODS AND SKILLS
FOR ELEGANT AGING
25. Mental:
Positive beliefs
Positive thoughts and expressions
Positive media and community to support
the above
METHODS AND SKILLS
FOR ELEGANT AGING
26. Emotional:
Humor, fun, pleasure, joy, play
Healthy intimacy & social life
Healthy anger, healthy grieving
Emotional balance
METHODS AND SKILLS
FOR ELEGANT AGING
27. Spiritual:
Prayer, meditation
Creative expression
Sense of mission & purpose
Living according to true values
Positive view of death & afterlife
METHODS AND SKILLS
FOR ELEGANT AGING