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Dirty Talking Initiation To A Guy In A More Classy Way
1. Dirty Talking Initiation To A Guy In A More Classy Way
You have to really have an open mind for dirty talk because the conversation rather through
phone or texting is going to get hot.
Some women may fear the idea of initiating dirty talk with their partners because they won’t
want to be seen in a different way. Men may also fear the initiation of dirty talk with a partner
thinking it might be a turn off to them or that the partner will just think all they’re really looking for
in the relationship is sex. The best way to find out what your partners reaction might be towards
dirty talk is to do it.
You can start dirty talking out in a classy way with lines like” I miss you, wishing you were here”.
Then you could send or speak a couple of lines about the mood you’re in or want to be in. After
your texts or calls allow your partner to initiate the next lines but give them just enough to let
them know what you were heading into.
Instead of dirty talking the really erotic lines try cleaning it up a bit if it’s your first time with your
partner. A perfect dirty talking examples would be saying or texting” I’m imagining what you’d
look like in a certain piece of lingerie or certain type of boxers” instead of saying “ I want you to
strip and let me do things to you”. You could also use lines such as” I want you right now” or
“I’m burning up thinking of you”.
Dirty talk doesn’t have to be like a line from a porn flick or erotic book. Talking dirty can be nice
and sweet to you and your partners liking so you never have to worry about disrespecting
anyone or bad judgments of your character.
Learning to talk dirty can take much more practice for some than others. The amount of practice
is usually based upon how one expresses his or herself through actions or emotions.
Everyone is conditioned to speak their minds on certain subjects but people expect sex to be
the hush subject. Do you think a woman wants to have sex with a man who’s going to tell all his
friends every detail when it’s over? The only women who wouldn’t mind the play, show, and tell
games are prostitutes and porn stars.
More women would be open to the idea of dirty texting with their partners if they weren’t afraid
of all their erotic desires making headlines somehow to mutual friends or strangers. Not
surprisingly lots more women prefer dirty talking over the phone rather than dirty texting. Phone
conversations can be more private unless it’s on speaker. Dirty texting to a cell phone can be
read by anyone if that phones owner is not cautious about whom he or she lets use their cell
phone.
Dirty talking or dirty texting can be as intimate as sex for some and should be treated that way.
If you were to tell someone a secret would you want them to forward that secret to their friends
for fun? Dirty talking or dirty texting can be really enjoyable for both parties involved when it
includes mutual trust. Trust will allow a person to really open up and get a lot crazier and dirty
with their words.
2. The whole point of dirty talking is a bit of teasing, revealing our inner desires, building more
open relationships in the area of sex. Allow yourself to relax, stimulate your mind as well as that
of your partners but keep it private to continue to enjoy that type of role playing that gets you
hot.
Author Box:
How To Talk Dirty Blog site is for women who want to learn how to talk dirty to their husbands, boyfriends,
or partners. We tackle women’s concerns about dirty talk, look at examples of talking dirty to a guy and
dirty texts, dig down into what men really want on this topic, and recommend resources for further
exploration. Our goals here at How to Talk Dirty are simple: to empower women to take charge of their
relationships; build their confidence to be awesome in and out of the bedroom; and to make these issues
discussable without judgment. It hasn’t been easy. But it’s totally worth it.