This document discusses different perspectives on happiness and success. It argues that true happiness comes from within rather than from external expectations or comparisons to others. Societal pressures can box people into fixed ideas of what constitutes a good life, but inner peace is lost when people fail to live according to their own desires. The key is to pursue liveliness by coming out of social media comparisons and listening to one's own thoughts and children's opinions rather than being defined by others' perspectives.