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SERVING WITH BALANCE
TERRY L. LEDFORD, PH.D.
Maintaining Balance
Scripture
Look carefully then how you walk, not as unwise but as wise,
Ephesians 5:15
But seek first the kingdom of God and his righteousness, and all
these things will be added to you. Matthew 6:33
I can do all things through him who strengthens me.
Philippians 4:13
Result of Imbalance
 Burnout
 Relationship Problems
 Depression
 Anxiety
 Anger
BURNOUT
 “an extended period of time where someone
experiences exhaustion and a lack of interest
in things, resulting in a decline in their job
performance.” American Psychological Association
Signs of Burnout
 Exhaustion
 Lack of Motivation
 Frustration, cynicism and other negative emotions
 Cognitive Problems
 Slipping job performance
 Interpersonal problems at home and at work
 Not taking care of yourself
 Being preoccupied with work, even when you’re not at work.
 Generally decreased satisfaction
 Health Problems
Relationship Problems
Depression
Anxiety
Anger
Reasons We Lose Our Balance
 Wrong beliefs about God
 Wrong beliefs about self
 Wrong focus of attention
 Wrong perception of time
 Wrong choices
Wrong Beliefs About God
Wrong Beliefs About Self
 Every human being has an area of enduring vulnerability.
PERSON PERFORMANCE
Wrong Beliefs About Self
Person
 I’m not important.
 I’ll be rejected.
 I’m not likeable.
 I’m not loveable.
 No one wants to spend time
with me.
Performance
 I’m a failure.
 I can’t do anything right.
 I’ll mess it up.
 Others judge me.
 I’m inadequate.
Wrong Focus of Attention
 Focusing on failure experiences, while ignoring successes.
 Focusing on rejection experiences, while ignoring love/attention.
 Focusing on negative events, while ignoring positives.
 Focusing on what you can do, rather than on what God can do.
 Focusing on work, while ignoring family.
 Focusing on work, while ignoring self-care.
Wrong Perception of Time
 “This won’t take me any time.
 “I should be able to do this faster.”
 “I should have made more progress by now.”
 “I’ll just work on this about thirty minutes.”
Wrong Choices
 Choosing withdrawal and isolation.
 Choosing escape.
 Choosing blame.
 Choosing more work.
 Choosing to depend on self, rather than depending on God.
 Choosing to work, rather than pray.
Wrong Choices
 Choosing ……
Maintaining Balance
 God is not your co-pilot.
 Practice total dependence on God.
 Practice relaxation as if fits you.
 Engage in a non-productive pleasurable activity.
 Set boundaries on work and technology.
 Practice organization techniques.
Maintaining Balance
 Get enough sleep.
 Ask for help.
 Be assertive (non-assertive ----------assertive----------aggressive)
 Know when it’s you and when it’s them.
 Monitor yourself for symptoms of stress/imbalance.
 Know when to quit and move on.
Scripture
 And he said to them, “Come away by yourselves to a desolate
place and rest a while.” For many were coming and going,
and they had no leisure even to eat. Mark 6:31
 And rising very early in the morning, while it was still dark,
he departed and went out to a desolate place, and there he
prayed. Mark 1:35
 Be sober-minded; be watchful. Your adversary the devil
prowls around like a roaring lion, seeking someone to devour.
1 Peter 5:8
THANK YOU!
QUESTIONS?
Terry L. Ledford, Ph.D.
www.TerryLedford.com
Psych-tl@.msn.com
(828) 287-7806

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Korea balance workshop

  • 1. SERVING WITH BALANCE TERRY L. LEDFORD, PH.D.
  • 3. Scripture Look carefully then how you walk, not as unwise but as wise, Ephesians 5:15 But seek first the kingdom of God and his righteousness, and all these things will be added to you. Matthew 6:33 I can do all things through him who strengthens me. Philippians 4:13
  • 4. Result of Imbalance  Burnout  Relationship Problems  Depression  Anxiety  Anger
  • 5. BURNOUT  “an extended period of time where someone experiences exhaustion and a lack of interest in things, resulting in a decline in their job performance.” American Psychological Association
  • 6. Signs of Burnout  Exhaustion  Lack of Motivation  Frustration, cynicism and other negative emotions  Cognitive Problems  Slipping job performance  Interpersonal problems at home and at work  Not taking care of yourself  Being preoccupied with work, even when you’re not at work.  Generally decreased satisfaction  Health Problems
  • 10. Anger
  • 11. Reasons We Lose Our Balance  Wrong beliefs about God  Wrong beliefs about self  Wrong focus of attention  Wrong perception of time  Wrong choices
  • 13. Wrong Beliefs About Self  Every human being has an area of enduring vulnerability. PERSON PERFORMANCE
  • 14. Wrong Beliefs About Self Person  I’m not important.  I’ll be rejected.  I’m not likeable.  I’m not loveable.  No one wants to spend time with me. Performance  I’m a failure.  I can’t do anything right.  I’ll mess it up.  Others judge me.  I’m inadequate.
  • 15. Wrong Focus of Attention  Focusing on failure experiences, while ignoring successes.  Focusing on rejection experiences, while ignoring love/attention.  Focusing on negative events, while ignoring positives.  Focusing on what you can do, rather than on what God can do.  Focusing on work, while ignoring family.  Focusing on work, while ignoring self-care.
  • 16. Wrong Perception of Time  “This won’t take me any time.  “I should be able to do this faster.”  “I should have made more progress by now.”  “I’ll just work on this about thirty minutes.”
  • 17. Wrong Choices  Choosing withdrawal and isolation.  Choosing escape.  Choosing blame.  Choosing more work.  Choosing to depend on self, rather than depending on God.  Choosing to work, rather than pray.
  • 19. Maintaining Balance  God is not your co-pilot.  Practice total dependence on God.  Practice relaxation as if fits you.  Engage in a non-productive pleasurable activity.  Set boundaries on work and technology.  Practice organization techniques.
  • 20. Maintaining Balance  Get enough sleep.  Ask for help.  Be assertive (non-assertive ----------assertive----------aggressive)  Know when it’s you and when it’s them.  Monitor yourself for symptoms of stress/imbalance.  Know when to quit and move on.
  • 21. Scripture  And he said to them, “Come away by yourselves to a desolate place and rest a while.” For many were coming and going, and they had no leisure even to eat. Mark 6:31  And rising very early in the morning, while it was still dark, he departed and went out to a desolate place, and there he prayed. Mark 1:35  Be sober-minded; be watchful. Your adversary the devil prowls around like a roaring lion, seeking someone to devour. 1 Peter 5:8
  • 22. THANK YOU! QUESTIONS? Terry L. Ledford, Ph.D. www.TerryLedford.com Psych-tl@.msn.com (828) 287-7806