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1. Love has always been the centre of our existence… it gives us the meaning for life. It is advised by Enlightened Souls that we must love without binding, without expectations. But sometimes we find we are specially aware in the company of a particular person, that we are fond of being with that person and we wonder whether this is what is called love……. Here is a pointer to tell you whether you are infatuated or whether you are actually in love…. Lucky You !!!

2. Infatuation is instant desire. It's one set of glands calling to another . Love on the other hand, is friendship caught fire. It takes root and grows- one day at a time.

3. Infatuation is marked by a feeling of insecurity. You are excited and eager, but not genuinely happy. There are nagging doubts, unanswered questions, little bits and pieces about your beloved that you would just as soon not examine too closely, lest it spoil the dream.

4. Love is the quiet understanding and mature acceptance of imperfections. It is real. It gives you strength and grows behind you-to bolster your beloved. You are warned by his presence, even when he is away. Long distances do not separate you. You want him near, but near or far, u know he is yours and you can wait .

5. Infatuation lacks confidence. When he is away, you wonder if he is cheating. Sometimes you even check. Love means trust. You are calm, secure and unthreatened. He feels that trust and it makes him even more trustworthy.

6. Infatuation has an element of sexual excitement. If you are honest, you will admit it is difficult to be in one another's company unless you are sure you will end up in intimacy . Love is the maturation of friendship. You must be friends before you are lovers.

7. Infatuation says, "We must get married right away. I can't risk losing him ." Love says "Be patient. Don't panic. He is yours. Plan your future with confidence."

8. Infatuation might lead you to do things you will regret later, but love never will . Love is an upper. It makes you look up. It makes you think up. It makes you a better person than you were before.

9. Let us be wise enough to realize when we are in love and when we are not…. Probe your heart… it may amaze you!!!

10. Love is like magic And it always will be. For love still remains Life's sweet mystery! Have A Wonderful Day !!!