X3 pure men's chapt 9a
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The document discusses strategies for maintaining sobriety from unwanted sexual behaviors. It identifies three common triggers - sexual, non-sexual environmental, and non-sexual emotional. It recommends developing mental and physical reminders to avoid triggers, such as memorizing bible verses, making a list of priorities, and using rubber bands. It also suggests focusing on passions and purpose rather than frustrations or temptations. Regularly revisiting and updating lists of triggers is key to long-term sobriety. The assignment is to begin filling out an "Escape Plan."
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The document outlines the "Ten Commandments of Rock Your Family" which includes commands like being the parent, catching truth rather than teaching it, giving blessings, prioritizing marriage, getting home, and teaching life skills daily. It also discusses talking honestly with kids about sex, being open with them, teaching them how to respond to explicit content, and creating rites of passage and discussing terms about sex with sons and daughters.
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The document discusses the "Ten Commandments of Rock Your Family" which includes getting home as commandment number five. It provides tips for getting home such as figuring out a way to be home, making your home a place kids want to be, being intentional, making memories with your family, evaluating outside commitments, taking vacations together, having food at home, not missing family time, and looking at your calendar to determine what non-essential activities to decline.
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The document discusses the importance of prioritizing marriage even with children. It emphasizes that making time for each other and one's spouse is critical for the health of the relationship and is the greatest thing one can do for their kids. Specific tips include men helping their wives by giving her time to herself, maintaining an active sex life, and scheduling regular date nights to keep the spark alive. Maintaining a strong marriage through intentional effort is presented as key to a happy family.
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- 2. Review
- 3. Review Unwanted Sexual Behavior | |
- 4. Review Unwanted Sexual Behavior | | White-Knuckle Change Real Change | | | | Abstinence Understanding of Physiology | | | | Relapse Abstinence | | Acceptance of Conditional Love | | Pursuit of Unconditional Love
- 5. Review
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- 8. Review • Three Triggers - Sexual - Non-Sexual Environmental
- 9. Review • Three Triggers - Sexual - Non-Sexual Environmental - Non-Sexual Emotional
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- 17. Escape Plan • Mental and Physical Reminders - Remember, when you are triggered, and dopamine is released to the Prefrontal Cortex – the reasoning part of the brain – your ability to make good decisions about your behavior begins to slow down. - The sooner you stop the flow of dopamine to your prefrontal context, the easier it will be for you to maintain your sobriety.
- 18. Escape Plan • Mental and Physical Reminders - Remember, when you are triggered, and dopamine is released to the Prefrontal Cortex – the reasoning part of the brain – your ability to make good decisions about your behavior begins to slow down. - The sooner you stop the flow of dopamine to your prefrontal context, the easier it will be for you to maintain your sobriety. - The sooner you stop your exposure to your trigger, or entertaining sexual thoughts, the easier it will be to remain sober.
- 19. Mental and Physical Reminders
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- 22. Mental and Physical Reminders • Memorize bible verses • List of what matters most • Wrist rubber bands
- 23. Confession
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- 27. Focus on the “Yes” • Instead of focusing on the things that frustrate you in life, or the things that tempt you, you focus on the healthy things that bring you an immense amount of pleasure, chief among these is your God-given purpose.
- 29. Other Fun Activities • What are your passions? What do you love?
- 30. Other Fun Activities • What are your passions? What do you love? • James 4:14 “Why, you do not even know what will happen tomorrow. What is your life? You are a mist that appears for a little while and then vanishes.”
- 31. Revisit & Update Trigger Lists
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- 33. Revisit & Update Trigger Lists • The key to discovering the peace and joy of sobriety are your triggers • Sobriety Sheets
- 34. Assignment
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