X3 Rock Your Family




January 14
X3 Rock Your Family
             Session 5: Building Relationships
                       With Your Teens




January 14
I Am The Parent




January 14
I Am The Parent
             • Rules without relationship equals rebellion




January 14
Building Your Relationship




January 14
Building Your Relationship
             • How do you build that relationship with your
              teenager?




January 14
Building Your Relationship
             • How do you build that relationship with your
              teenager?
             • Hang with your sons; Date your daughters




January 14
Building Your Relationship
             • How do you build that relationship with your
              teenager?
             • Hang with your sons; Date your daughters
             • For teenagers, love is spelled T-I-M-E



January 14
Building Your Relationship
             • How do you build that relationship with your
              teenager?
             • Hang with your sons; Date your daughters
             • For teenagers, love is spelled T-I-M-E
             • They want to be accepted and loved

January 14
Building Your Relationship




January 14
Building Your Relationship
             • You have to engage with teens when theyʼre
              ready




January 14
Building Your Relationship
             • You have to engage with teens when theyʼre
              ready
             • Get off the bench




January 14
Building Your Relationship
             • You have to engage with teens when theyʼre
              ready
             • Get off the bench
             • Get off the bench and get involved with your
              kid whether he is two years old or sixteen


January 14
Building Your Relationship




January 14
Building Your Relationship
             • Engage them when theyʼre little




January 14
Building Your Relationship
             • Engage them when theyʼre little
             • Itʼs never to late to start




January 14
Building Your Relationship
             • Engage them when theyʼre little
             • Itʼs never to late to start
             • With teens, stay up




January 14
Building Your Relationship
             • Engage them when theyʼre little
             • Itʼs never to late to start
             • With teens, stay up
             • Do dinner together as a family


January 14
Building Your Relationship




January 14
Building Your Relationship
             • Figure out a way to help your sons or
              daughters to do hard work




January 14
Building Your Relationship
             • Figure out a way to help your sons or
              daughters to do hard work
             • Try to find other men and women to teach
              some of these values




January 14
Building Your Relationship
             • Figure out a way to help your sons or
              daughters to do hard work
             • Try to find other men and women to teach
              some of these values
             • Adversity builds character


January 14
Building Your Relationship




January 14
Building Your Relationship
             • Hit your knees




January 14
Building Your Relationship
             • Hit your knees
             • Say less, pray more




January 14
Building Your Relationship
             • Hit your knees
             • Say less, pray more
             • Teenagers are longing for your approval




January 14
Building Your Relationship
             • Hit your knees
             • Say less, pray more
             • Teenagers are longing for your approval
             • We underestimate the power we have as
              parents in our teenagers lives


January 14
Building Your Relationship
             • Hit your knees
             • Say less, pray more
             • Teenagers are longing for your approval
             • We underestimate the power we have as
              parents in our teenagers lives
             • Pick your battles
January 14
Homework




January 14
Homework
             • Make a list of ways you can engage and
              pursue a relationship with your teens




January 14
Homework
             • Make a list of ways you can engage and
              pursue a relationship with your teens
             • Remember to ask for their input




January 14

X3 family session 5