This document discusses the balance between tradition and the true message of Christmas. It acknowledges that tradition is important for keeping families together and passing on values, as seen in the traditions of the milkman in Fiddler on the Roof. However, the most important traditions are those that bring love, harmony, peace and joy. The true message of Christmas, according to John 3:16, is one of hope, peace and joy - not based on our strengths but despite our weaknesses.