ASSEMBLY:
Honesty
Honesty
If you tell the truth, you possess the
quality of honesty.
If you tell the truth, you
possess the quality of
honesty.
Scientific Study by the National Geographic
To protect ourselves
To cover up mistakes you
have made and avoid getting
into trouble
To avoid or escape from other
people when confronted
Reasons Why we Lie
To promote ourselves
To make people laugh
To create a positive image
of ourselves
To gain a financial
advantage
Reasons Why we Lie
To have an impact on others
To help people out
To avoid getting friends into trouble
To avoid rudeness or awkward situations
To hurt other people
(spreading rumours)
Reasons Why we Lie
For Unclear Reasons
Motives are not even clear to
ourselves
Pathological – difficulty in
telling the truth as you have a
disregard for reality
Reasons Why we Lie
Even high profile people have
done it
Sometimes people lie to inflate their image—a
motivation that might best explain President Donald
Trump’s false claim that his first Inauguration
crowd was bigger than President Barack Obama’s
first one.
Reasons Why we Lie
People lie to cover up bad behaviour. The
American swimmer Ryan Lochte did this during a
Summer Olympics by claiming to have been
robbed at gunpoint at a gas station when, in fact,
he and his teammates, drunk after a party, had
been confronted by armed security guards after
damaging property.
Reasons Why we Lie
Even academic science—a world largely
inhabited by people devoted to finding out the
truth—has been shown to contain deceivers, such
as physicist Jan Hendrik Schön, whose
breakthroughs in molecular semiconductor
research proved to be fraudulent. He had
duplicated falsified and destroyed data. He was a
rising star in the world of physics. So why did he
Reasons Why we Lie
Can you ever justify
lying?
A Story about a Room with a
view
There was once a
hospital room with
only two beds.
One bed, by the
window was occupied
by a seriously ill
patient.
The other was
occupied by a patient
who had to lie down
all the time.
The man by the
window could sit
up for one hour
every day.
The man lying
down asked him to
describe what he
could see from the
window….
“ Well,” said the
man by the
window…….
He described the
lovely park and
the children
playing.
“ There’s an
ice-cream
van with
people
queuing to
buy a
delicious
treat.”
“ I can just
see a lake
with
swans
swimming
..”
Every day the man by
the window described
what was outside.
The months went by
and the seasons
changed.
Soon the lake was
frozen.
Sadly, one morning, a
nurse discovered that
the man by the
window had passed
away in his sleep.
Soon the man who
could not sit up was
moved to the bed by
the window.
The first thing he did
was….
To look out of
the window…
All he could
see was a
dreary brick
wall.
He called the nurse…..
“My dear friend described so
many things to me from this
window…but there’s just a
brick wall.”
The nurse replied:
“ Your friend was blind –he
couldn’t see a thing.”
“
Perhaps,
he just
wanted
to make
you
happy ?”
Is it wrong to
make someone
happy in this
way?
Could this be
seen as being
thoughtful?
Discuss all the reasons why we sometimes lie
Discuss how lying can affect trust
Discuss how lying can affect relationships and friendships
http://www.bbc.co.uk/education/clips/zmd34wx
Watch video clip Lara’s little lie and discuss
Discuss times when it may be more thoughtful not to be
completely honest
How can we make sure we are more thoughtful around the
college as a year group.
Tutor time activities

why is it important to be honest in school

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    Honesty If you tellthe truth, you possess the quality of honesty. If you tell the truth, you possess the quality of honesty.
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    Scientific Study bythe National Geographic
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    To protect ourselves Tocover up mistakes you have made and avoid getting into trouble To avoid or escape from other people when confronted Reasons Why we Lie
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    To promote ourselves Tomake people laugh To create a positive image of ourselves To gain a financial advantage Reasons Why we Lie
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    To have animpact on others To help people out To avoid getting friends into trouble To avoid rudeness or awkward situations To hurt other people (spreading rumours) Reasons Why we Lie
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    For Unclear Reasons Motivesare not even clear to ourselves Pathological – difficulty in telling the truth as you have a disregard for reality Reasons Why we Lie
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    Even high profilepeople have done it Sometimes people lie to inflate their image—a motivation that might best explain President Donald Trump’s false claim that his first Inauguration crowd was bigger than President Barack Obama’s first one.
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    Reasons Why weLie People lie to cover up bad behaviour. The American swimmer Ryan Lochte did this during a Summer Olympics by claiming to have been robbed at gunpoint at a gas station when, in fact, he and his teammates, drunk after a party, had been confronted by armed security guards after damaging property.
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    Reasons Why weLie Even academic science—a world largely inhabited by people devoted to finding out the truth—has been shown to contain deceivers, such as physicist Jan Hendrik Schön, whose breakthroughs in molecular semiconductor research proved to be fraudulent. He had duplicated falsified and destroyed data. He was a rising star in the world of physics. So why did he
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    Can you everjustify lying?
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    A Story abouta Room with a view There was once a hospital room with only two beds. One bed, by the window was occupied by a seriously ill patient. The other was occupied by a patient who had to lie down all the time.
  • 14.
    The man bythe window could sit up for one hour every day. The man lying down asked him to describe what he could see from the window….
  • 15.
    “ Well,” saidthe man by the window……. He described the lovely park and the children playing.
  • 16.
    “ There’s an ice-cream vanwith people queuing to buy a delicious treat.”
  • 17.
    “ I canjust see a lake with swans swimming ..”
  • 18.
    Every day theman by the window described what was outside. The months went by and the seasons changed. Soon the lake was frozen.
  • 19.
    Sadly, one morning,a nurse discovered that the man by the window had passed away in his sleep. Soon the man who could not sit up was moved to the bed by the window.
  • 20.
    The first thinghe did was…. To look out of the window… All he could see was a dreary brick wall.
  • 21.
    He called thenurse….. “My dear friend described so many things to me from this window…but there’s just a brick wall.” The nurse replied: “ Your friend was blind –he couldn’t see a thing.”
  • 22.
    “ Perhaps, he just wanted to make you happy?” Is it wrong to make someone happy in this way? Could this be seen as being thoughtful?
  • 23.
    Discuss all thereasons why we sometimes lie Discuss how lying can affect trust Discuss how lying can affect relationships and friendships http://www.bbc.co.uk/education/clips/zmd34wx Watch video clip Lara’s little lie and discuss Discuss times when it may be more thoughtful not to be completely honest How can we make sure we are more thoughtful around the college as a year group. Tutor time activities