It is He who created you from one soul and created
from it its mate that he might dwell in security with
her. And when he covers her, she carries a light
burden and continues therein. And when it
becomes heavy, they both invoke Allah , their Lord,
"If You should give us a good [child], we will surely
be among the grateful.[7:189]
Companionship
Good and Bad Companionship
The Prophet(saw) said, “Verily, the parable of good company and a
bad company is only that of a seller of musk and a blacksmith. The
seller of musk will give you some perfume, you will buy some, or
you will notice a good smell. As for the blacksmith, he will burn your
clothes or you will notice a bad smell.
And keep your soul content with those who call on their Lord
morning and evening, seeking His face, and let not your eyes pass
beyond them, seeking the pomp and glitter of this Life; nor obey
any whose heart We have permitted to neglect the remembrance
of Us, one who follows his own desires, whose case has gone
beyond all bounds [18:28]
Good and Bad Companionship
And it has already come down to you in the Book
that when you hear the verses of Allah [recited],
they are denied [by them] and ridiculed; so do not
sit with them until they enter into another
conversation. Indeed, you would then be like
them. Indeed Allah will gather the hypocrites and
disbelievers in Hell all together [4:140]
And when you see those who engage in [offensive] discourse
concerning Our verses, then turn away from them until they
enter into another conversion. And if Satan should cause you
to forget, then do not remain after the reminder with the
wrongdoing people.[6:68]
What About Your Friends?
The Prophet(saw) said, “A
man is upon the religion of
his best friend, so let one of
you look at whom he
befriends.
The Best Companion
The Prophet (saw) said, “Shall I not tell you about the
best of you?” They said, “Of course.” The Prophet
said, “Those who, if they are seen, they remind you
of Allah. Shall I not tell you about the worst of you?”
They said, “Of course.” The Prophet said, “Those who
carry gossip and ruin relations between loves ones,
seeking misery for the innocent.
The Prophet(saw) said, “Allah Almighty said: My love
is a right upon those who befriend each other for
my sake. My love is a right upon those who defend
each other for my sake.”
O you who have believed, fear Allah and be with
those who are true.[At-Tawbah:119]
The Evil Companion
And incite [to senselessness] whoever you can
among them with your voice and assault them with
your horses and foot soldiers and become a partner
in their wealth and their children and promise
them." But Satan does not promise them except
delusion..[17:64]
Some other characteristics of an evil companion:
• In the same way that Shaytan left the Quraish when he saw what awaited them at
the battle of Badr, these companions leave their brothers/sisters in predicaments
whereby they lose their livelihood, liberty and, in some cases, their families! Each
to their own as they say!
• He follows his desires; “Have you seen him who takes his own lust (vain desires) as
his ilah (deity) and Allah Knowing (him as such) left him astray and sealed his
hearing and his heart, and put a covering on his sight. Who will guide him after
Allah? Will you not then remember?” Surah Al Jathiyah (45:23)
The Evil Companion
Craving for wealth and status:
• Two hungry wolves let loose among sheep are not more harmful than
a person’s craving after wealth and status is to his deen.
• The Messenger of Allah(saw) said, “Whoever makes the world his
most important matter, Allah will confound his affairs and make
poverty appear before his eyes and he will not get anything from the
world but what has been decreed for him. Whoever makes the
Hereafter his most important matter, Allah will settle his affairs and
make him content in his heart and the world will come to him
although he does not want it.
• They think they are guided aright with deviated ideologies like
committing haram
• His / her heart is dead; “This heart doesn’t know its Lord and instead
focuses on its lusts and desires. Its whim is its imam – its lust is its guide
– its ignorance the driver – its crude impulse the vehicle!”
“And whosever turns away from the remembrance of the
Most Gracious, We appoint for him Shaytan to be a Qareen
(intimate companion) to him. And verily, they (the shayateen
[devils]) hinder them from the Path of Allah but they think
they are guided aright!” Surah Az-Zukhruf (43:36-37)
Responsibility of Companion
The Prophet (saw) said, Whoever
conceals the faults of his Muslim
brother, Allah will conceal his faults on
the Day of Resurrection. And whoever
exposes the faults of his Muslim brother,
Allah will expose his faults even by
revealing those he committed in (the
privacy of) his home.
Umar ibn Al-Khattab (ra) advising a man saying: Do not speak
about things that do not concern you. Stay away from your enemy
and watch out your friend except the trustworthy and the
trustworthy is the one who fears Allah and obeys Him. Do not
accompany the evil ones lest you may learn from their
dissoluteness. Do not tell them your secrets and do not consult
them about your affairs except those who fear Allah.
Companionship in Opposite Gender
The Messenger of Allah(saw) said: Whoever has faith
in Allah and the Last Day, let him not be alone with
an unrelated woman without her guardian. Verily,
the third of them is Satan
And when he came to the well of Madyan, he found there
a crowd of people watering [their flocks], and he found
aside from them two women driving back [their flocks]. He
said, "What is your circumstance?" They said, "We do not
water until the shepherds dispatch [their flocks]; and our
father is an old man……
Then one of the two women came to him walking with
shyness. She said, "Indeed, my father invites you that he
may reward you for having watered for us." So when he
came to him and related to him the story, he said, "Fear
not. You have escaped from the wrongdoing people. [28:
23..25]
Companionship with Non-Muslim
Allah does not forbid you from those who
do not fight you because of religion and
do not expel you from your homes - from
being righteous toward them and acting
justly toward them. Indeed, Allah loves
those who act justly[60:8]
Companionship with Non-Muslim
Let not believers take disbelievers as allies
rather than believers. And whoever [of you]
does that has nothing with Allah , except
when taking precaution against them in
prudence. And Allah warns you of Himself,
and to Allah is the [final] destination. [3:28]
Friend of Allah
The Messenger of Allah(saw) said, “Allah
said: Whoever shows hostility to a friend of
mine, I have declared war upon him. My
servant does not grow closer to me with
anything more beloved to me than the
duties I have imposed upon him. My servant
continues to grow closer to me with extra
good works until I love him. When I love
him, I am his hearing with which he hears,
his seeing with which he sees, his hand with
which he strikes, and his foot with which he
walks. Were he to ask something from me, I
would surely give it to him. Were he to ask
me for refuge, I would surely grant it to
him. I do not hesitate to do anything as I
hesitate to take the soul of the believer, for
he hates death and I hate to displease him
Unquestionably, [for] the allies of Allah there will be no fear
concerning them, nor will they grieve. Those who believed
and were fearing Allah [10:62-62]
Some Signs of a Wali (Friend of
Allah) Are you one of them?
#1. They love Allah
#2. They remind you of Allah
#3. They do not grief or fear
#4. They feel fear when they hear
the verses of Allah
#5. They constantly make Tawbah
#6. They remember Allah much
#7. They do not talk much
#8. They do not eat much
#9. They love for the sake of Allah
#10. They are charitable
#11. They have taqwa (piety)
12. They perform supererogatory
acts of worship
#13. They are humble
Companion in Day of Judgement
Companion in Day of Judgement
And (remember) the Day when the
wrong-doer (oppressor, polytheist etc.)
will bite at his hand, he will say: ‘Oh!
Would that I had taken a path with the
Messenger. Ah! Woe to me! Would that I
had never taken so-and-so as a friend! He
indeed led me astray from the Reminder
(the Quran) after it had come to me….’
[Quran 25:27-29]
Close friends, that Day, will be enemies to
each other, except for the righteous.
[Quran 45:67]
Ultimate Rewards
Rabee‘ah ibn Ka‘b al-Aslami (ra), who said: I
used to stay overnight with the Messenger
of Allah (saw) and bring him water for
wudoo’ and whatever he needed. He said
to me: “Ask.” I said: I ask to be with you in
Paradise. He said: “Is there anything else?” I
said: That is all. He said: “Help me to do
that for you by prostrating a great deal
Dua for Love of Allah and
Companionship
The Messenger of Allah(saw) said, “David would
supplicate, saying: O Allah, I ask you for your love
and the love of those who love you and the deeds
that will bring me your love. O Allah, make your love
more beloved to me than myself and my family and
even cold water
O Allah, I ask you for Eman that is not Shaky, and
blessings that don’t end and the company of
Prophet(saw) in the highest of eternal Jannah.
Dua: Seeking Refuge with Allaah
from Evil People around you
Companion Rewards
Surely the people of Jannah when they
enter Jannah and they don’t find those
companions of theirs who were with them
upon good in this world, then verily they
will intercede for them in front of Allah
(swt) and they will say: “O Rabb we have
brothers who used to read salaah and fast
with us, we do not see them!”
Allaah (swt), will say “Go to the fire and
take out any person who had even an
atoms amount of Imaan in their heart

Who is your companion

  • 1.
    It is Hewho created you from one soul and created from it its mate that he might dwell in security with her. And when he covers her, she carries a light burden and continues therein. And when it becomes heavy, they both invoke Allah , their Lord, "If You should give us a good [child], we will surely be among the grateful.[7:189] Companionship
  • 2.
    Good and BadCompanionship The Prophet(saw) said, “Verily, the parable of good company and a bad company is only that of a seller of musk and a blacksmith. The seller of musk will give you some perfume, you will buy some, or you will notice a good smell. As for the blacksmith, he will burn your clothes or you will notice a bad smell. And keep your soul content with those who call on their Lord morning and evening, seeking His face, and let not your eyes pass beyond them, seeking the pomp and glitter of this Life; nor obey any whose heart We have permitted to neglect the remembrance of Us, one who follows his own desires, whose case has gone beyond all bounds [18:28]
  • 3.
    Good and BadCompanionship And it has already come down to you in the Book that when you hear the verses of Allah [recited], they are denied [by them] and ridiculed; so do not sit with them until they enter into another conversation. Indeed, you would then be like them. Indeed Allah will gather the hypocrites and disbelievers in Hell all together [4:140] And when you see those who engage in [offensive] discourse concerning Our verses, then turn away from them until they enter into another conversion. And if Satan should cause you to forget, then do not remain after the reminder with the wrongdoing people.[6:68]
  • 4.
    What About YourFriends? The Prophet(saw) said, “A man is upon the religion of his best friend, so let one of you look at whom he befriends.
  • 5.
    The Best Companion TheProphet (saw) said, “Shall I not tell you about the best of you?” They said, “Of course.” The Prophet said, “Those who, if they are seen, they remind you of Allah. Shall I not tell you about the worst of you?” They said, “Of course.” The Prophet said, “Those who carry gossip and ruin relations between loves ones, seeking misery for the innocent. The Prophet(saw) said, “Allah Almighty said: My love is a right upon those who befriend each other for my sake. My love is a right upon those who defend each other for my sake.” O you who have believed, fear Allah and be with those who are true.[At-Tawbah:119]
  • 6.
    The Evil Companion Andincite [to senselessness] whoever you can among them with your voice and assault them with your horses and foot soldiers and become a partner in their wealth and their children and promise them." But Satan does not promise them except delusion..[17:64] Some other characteristics of an evil companion: • In the same way that Shaytan left the Quraish when he saw what awaited them at the battle of Badr, these companions leave their brothers/sisters in predicaments whereby they lose their livelihood, liberty and, in some cases, their families! Each to their own as they say! • He follows his desires; “Have you seen him who takes his own lust (vain desires) as his ilah (deity) and Allah Knowing (him as such) left him astray and sealed his hearing and his heart, and put a covering on his sight. Who will guide him after Allah? Will you not then remember?” Surah Al Jathiyah (45:23)
  • 7.
    The Evil Companion Cravingfor wealth and status: • Two hungry wolves let loose among sheep are not more harmful than a person’s craving after wealth and status is to his deen. • The Messenger of Allah(saw) said, “Whoever makes the world his most important matter, Allah will confound his affairs and make poverty appear before his eyes and he will not get anything from the world but what has been decreed for him. Whoever makes the Hereafter his most important matter, Allah will settle his affairs and make him content in his heart and the world will come to him although he does not want it. • They think they are guided aright with deviated ideologies like committing haram • His / her heart is dead; “This heart doesn’t know its Lord and instead focuses on its lusts and desires. Its whim is its imam – its lust is its guide – its ignorance the driver – its crude impulse the vehicle!” “And whosever turns away from the remembrance of the Most Gracious, We appoint for him Shaytan to be a Qareen (intimate companion) to him. And verily, they (the shayateen [devils]) hinder them from the Path of Allah but they think they are guided aright!” Surah Az-Zukhruf (43:36-37)
  • 8.
    Responsibility of Companion TheProphet (saw) said, Whoever conceals the faults of his Muslim brother, Allah will conceal his faults on the Day of Resurrection. And whoever exposes the faults of his Muslim brother, Allah will expose his faults even by revealing those he committed in (the privacy of) his home. Umar ibn Al-Khattab (ra) advising a man saying: Do not speak about things that do not concern you. Stay away from your enemy and watch out your friend except the trustworthy and the trustworthy is the one who fears Allah and obeys Him. Do not accompany the evil ones lest you may learn from their dissoluteness. Do not tell them your secrets and do not consult them about your affairs except those who fear Allah.
  • 9.
    Companionship in OppositeGender The Messenger of Allah(saw) said: Whoever has faith in Allah and the Last Day, let him not be alone with an unrelated woman without her guardian. Verily, the third of them is Satan And when he came to the well of Madyan, he found there a crowd of people watering [their flocks], and he found aside from them two women driving back [their flocks]. He said, "What is your circumstance?" They said, "We do not water until the shepherds dispatch [their flocks]; and our father is an old man…… Then one of the two women came to him walking with shyness. She said, "Indeed, my father invites you that he may reward you for having watered for us." So when he came to him and related to him the story, he said, "Fear not. You have escaped from the wrongdoing people. [28: 23..25]
  • 10.
    Companionship with Non-Muslim Allahdoes not forbid you from those who do not fight you because of religion and do not expel you from your homes - from being righteous toward them and acting justly toward them. Indeed, Allah loves those who act justly[60:8]
  • 11.
    Companionship with Non-Muslim Letnot believers take disbelievers as allies rather than believers. And whoever [of you] does that has nothing with Allah , except when taking precaution against them in prudence. And Allah warns you of Himself, and to Allah is the [final] destination. [3:28]
  • 12.
    Friend of Allah TheMessenger of Allah(saw) said, “Allah said: Whoever shows hostility to a friend of mine, I have declared war upon him. My servant does not grow closer to me with anything more beloved to me than the duties I have imposed upon him. My servant continues to grow closer to me with extra good works until I love him. When I love him, I am his hearing with which he hears, his seeing with which he sees, his hand with which he strikes, and his foot with which he walks. Were he to ask something from me, I would surely give it to him. Were he to ask me for refuge, I would surely grant it to him. I do not hesitate to do anything as I hesitate to take the soul of the believer, for he hates death and I hate to displease him Unquestionably, [for] the allies of Allah there will be no fear concerning them, nor will they grieve. Those who believed and were fearing Allah [10:62-62] Some Signs of a Wali (Friend of Allah) Are you one of them? #1. They love Allah #2. They remind you of Allah #3. They do not grief or fear #4. They feel fear when they hear the verses of Allah #5. They constantly make Tawbah #6. They remember Allah much #7. They do not talk much #8. They do not eat much #9. They love for the sake of Allah #10. They are charitable #11. They have taqwa (piety) 12. They perform supererogatory acts of worship #13. They are humble
  • 13.
    Companion in Dayof Judgement
  • 14.
    Companion in Dayof Judgement And (remember) the Day when the wrong-doer (oppressor, polytheist etc.) will bite at his hand, he will say: ‘Oh! Would that I had taken a path with the Messenger. Ah! Woe to me! Would that I had never taken so-and-so as a friend! He indeed led me astray from the Reminder (the Quran) after it had come to me….’ [Quran 25:27-29] Close friends, that Day, will be enemies to each other, except for the righteous. [Quran 45:67]
  • 15.
    Ultimate Rewards Rabee‘ah ibnKa‘b al-Aslami (ra), who said: I used to stay overnight with the Messenger of Allah (saw) and bring him water for wudoo’ and whatever he needed. He said to me: “Ask.” I said: I ask to be with you in Paradise. He said: “Is there anything else?” I said: That is all. He said: “Help me to do that for you by prostrating a great deal
  • 16.
    Dua for Loveof Allah and Companionship The Messenger of Allah(saw) said, “David would supplicate, saying: O Allah, I ask you for your love and the love of those who love you and the deeds that will bring me your love. O Allah, make your love more beloved to me than myself and my family and even cold water O Allah, I ask you for Eman that is not Shaky, and blessings that don’t end and the company of Prophet(saw) in the highest of eternal Jannah.
  • 17.
    Dua: Seeking Refugewith Allaah from Evil People around you
  • 18.
    Companion Rewards Surely thepeople of Jannah when they enter Jannah and they don’t find those companions of theirs who were with them upon good in this world, then verily they will intercede for them in front of Allah (swt) and they will say: “O Rabb we have brothers who used to read salaah and fast with us, we do not see them!” Allaah (swt), will say “Go to the fire and take out any person who had even an atoms amount of Imaan in their heart

Editor's Notes

  • #6 1. Khullah( Ibrahim) and 2. Shaheb..(abu Bakr/Prophet)
  • #7 1. Khullah( Ibrahim) and 2. Shaheb..(abu Bakr/Prophet)