The document poses a series of hypothetical "what if" scenarios and problems for reflection. It asks what would be included at a big party, how to make a small budget party great, who would be chosen for a fancy dinner with a president or celebrity, what dream job one would like and where one would holiday if rich. It also provides friend problems to think about how to help if in their shoes, such as having no boyfriend, disliking a job, sleep issues, feeling misunderstood by family, noisy neighbors, friends with no time and negative self views of being fat/ugly or having naughty children.

1. WHAT IF…
 If you were planning a big party for all your friends, and had all the money you needed,
what would you have at the party ?
· Food?
· Entertainment?
· Extras {like baby sitting}?
 If you were planning a party on a very small budget, what would you do to make it a great
party?
 If you were invited to a fancy dinner with the president or a celebrity, who would you
choose and why?
 If you could have any job in the world, what would you like to do and why?
 If you were a rich person, where would you go for the next holiday?
IF I WERE YOU…
Your friend has many problems. Think about what you would do if you were “in their shoes”:
» “I have no boyfriend.”
» “I’m fed up with my job.”
» “I can’t get to sleep at night but I am sleepy in the afternoon.”
» “My family doesn’t understand me.”
» “My neighbours are too noisy.”
» “My friends have no time for me.”
» “I’m fat and ugly.”
» “My children are naughty and spoilt.”