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Shinrin-yoku, also known as
forest bathing or taking in the
forest atmosphere, has recently
been receiving attention by
city dwellers and nature lovers
alike. Developed in Japan in the
1980s, forest bathing is rooted
in scientific evidence supporting
the many benefits of a walk in
the forest. The idea behind it
is simple; when a person visits
a natural area (forest, park,
hiking trail, etc.) and walks in a
relaxed manor, there are calming
and rejuvenating benefits
provided by the environment.
More than likely you have
heard of similar practices or
experienced the phenomenon
of forest bathing yourself.
In Scandinavian countries babies
get a daily nap outside, even
if the temperature is below
freezing. This practice has been
going on since the 1920s and
has helped decrease the infant
mortality rate. However, the
benefits of being outside in the
forest have been known even
prior to this Scandinavian routine.
Yellow Stone National Park,
which was the first national park
recognized in America in 1903,
was established to preserve the
natural environment for people
to experience. President Teddy
Roosevelt and John Muir, a
Scottish-born naturalist, worked
together to establish many
Forest Bathing
September: Healthy Aging Month
Forest Bathing................................... 1
FORK for Aging.................................. 2
On the Menu: Mango Madness.......... 3
Live to Be 100.................................. 4
Mindful Minute.................................. 5
Parenting Corner:
Navigating Sibling Rivalries................ 6
ISSUE 38
SEPTEMBER | 2018
Continued on page 2
CBIZ Wellbeing Insights – September 2018	 Page 2
Forest Bathing
Continued from page 1
other natural parks. After spending
just three nights camping in the
forest with Muir, Roosevelt knew
immediately why he needed to
protect nature.
The scientifically proven
benefits of forest bathing
include:
■ Boosted immune system
functioning, with an increase in
the count of the body’s Natural
Killer (NK) cells
■ Reduced blood pressure
■ Reduced stress
■ Improved mood
■ Increased ability to focus, even in
children with ADHD
■ Accelerated recovery from
surgery or illness
■ Increased energy level
■ Improved sleep
Just as impressive are the
results that we experience
if we make forest bathing a
regular practice:
■ Deeper and clearer intuition
■ Increased energy flow
■ Increased capacity to
communicate with the land and
its species
■ Increased flow of eros/life force
■ Deepening of friendships
■ Overall increased sense of
happiness
John Muir said it best when he
stated, “In every walk with nature
one receives far more than he
seeks.” Every town, city and state
has public parks and forests
for each person to experience.
Consider a gentle walk in the forest
or your local park today. For more
information on parks, forests or
other natural habitats in your area,
please visit https://www.nps.gov/
findapark/index.htm.
http://www.shinrin-yoku.org
http://www.pbs.org/nationalparks
What changes come to mind when you think about aging? We typically
think of external physical changes to our appearance, muscle mass and
perhaps energy levels. However, the undercover culprit of chronic disease
is cellular inflammation, which accelerates the aging process of our
organs, including our skin.
What we eat has a profound effect on the inflammation in our bodies,
including how well we age. Though we cannot turn back the clock or change
our DNA, we can slow the effects of aging, reduce inflammation and change
the expression of our genes, all with one simple tool – our FORK!
Fat that is good. There are two kinds of beneficial fats –
monounsaturated and polyunsaturated. While both are considered
healthy, it’s the polyunsaturated, anti-inflammatory Omega-3 fatty
acids that are especially helpful in reducing the signs of aging. The
best sources include fatty fish (e.g., mackerel, salmon, cod, sardines,
herring, anchovies) as well as grass-fed meats and high-quality fish oil. While
there are some vegetarian sources of Omega-3 fatty acids, they are inferior
to the aforementioned sources. Omega-6 is inflammatory and, although we
need it, Americans tend to get too much from grains and protein, and
especially from cooking oils (e.g., sunflower, corn, soy oil, etc.).
Organic greens and purple things. Antioxidants, high levels of
soluble fiber and phytonutrients create a myriad of positive effects,
including cleansing the body and putting the breaks on the
“rusting” of our cells. The darker the fruit or vegetable, the higher
the antioxidants. Organic is important, as leafy vegetables are typically
heavily sprayed.
Real, whole grains, though not an essential part of a healthy diet,
are good alternatives to refined, white grains. Specifically, they
contain fiber that helps keep blood sugar from spiking with the
consumption of sugars/starches. Moreover, they contain
beneficial phytochemicals that aren’t available in refined sources.
Keeping sugar and starch low in the diet is critical to good health
and slowing the aging process. Diets that are overly abundant with
grains (whole and refined) and sugar (real and artificial) are highly
inflammatory, causing insulin levels to rise, which eventually keeps
the hormone from getting the byproduct of glucose (blood sugar) to cells for
energy. Moreover, if insulin is constantly spiking or never goes down, the
result is inflammation and possibly even irreversible damage within the body.
Reducing inflammation in our bodies can have a profound effect on how well
we age. While it takes daily, deliberate choices in the foods we eat, it is
often well worth it in terms of how we look and feel. When in doubt, just
look at your FORK for guidance.
for aging
On the Menu
Mango Madness
There is nothing quite like biting into a ripe, juicy
mango – whether you’re on vacation in the tropics or in
the comfort of your own home. The delicious fruit has a
long history of curbing a sweet tooth all the way back to
4000 B.C. when Buddhist monks first cultivated it. Even
now the fruit is considered sacred in some regions of
Southeast Asia and India because it has been said that
Buddha himself meditated under a mango tree.
Mangos made their way around the world beginning
around 300 or 400 A.D. Today, mangos are grown
in many parts of the world, including countries close
to the equator like Ecuador, Peru and Mexico, which
supply most of the mangos consumed in the U.S.
The benefits of mango are plentiful. Not only does it
make a great choice for a sweet snack or dessert, it
also contains many nutritional qualities that make it a
great choice for healthy eating. Keep in mind, though,
while mango may be far superior to processed sweets,
an average-size mango contains about 46 grams of
sugar, slightly more than a standard pack of Skittles.
So while it’s great to satisfy your sweet tooth and take
in some nutrients, moderation is important.
Here are 5 reasons to include mangos in your diet:
1. They contain high levels of antioxidants that have
been shown to ward off breast, colon, leukemia and
prostate cancers.
2. They promote good eyesight. Just one cup of sliced
mango contains 25% of the daily recommended
value of Vitamin A.
They also contain the
antioxidant zeaxanthin,
which helps filter out
harmful blue light rays
and plays a protective
role in eye health.
3. Just one cup of mango
contains 3 grams of
fiber, which promotes
healthy digestion.
4. They have a good dose of Vitamin C, which provides
structure for building healthy skin and hair.
5. The fruit also has modest amounts of tartaric, malic
and citric acids, which help keep the body alkaline.
Mangos have a thin pit in the middle that is not as easily
located or removed as, say, a peach pit. The easiest way to
cut a mango is lengthwise about a quarter inch from center
on each side of the stem. Then, score the mango in the peel
in a grid pattern and use a spoon to scoop out the chunks.
Keep It Fresh
Keep unripe mango at room temperature for a couple
of days to help it ripen. Once ripe, you can store the
mango in the refrigerator for up to 5 days, even if sliced
into chunks. Frozen mango will keep in the freezer up to
6 months.
Fresh Mango Salsa
Ingredients:
	 2 large mangos
	 1 lime, juiced
	 1/3 cup red onion, finely diced
	 1 jalapeno, finely diced
	 1 small handful cilantro, finely chopped
Directions:
Combine all ingredients, mix and serve! The salsa will
keep up to 5 days in an airtight container in the fridge.
CBIZ Wellbeing Insights – September 2018	 Page 3
Nutrition Info
Per Serving (1/4 cup)
Calories 56
Total Fat 0.4g
Carbohydrates 14.2g
Sugar 12g
Fiber 1.7g
Protein 0.8g
Sodium 1mg
CBIZ Wellbeing Insights – September 2018	 Page 4
Living an entire century doesn’t
appeal to everyone; most naysayers
are convinced that the elderly
experience a low quality of life,
social isolation and more sick
days than well days. On the flip
side, others are inspired by the
real stories of people who thrive
in their later years. Can you
envision yourself at 100 years old,
gardening, picking apples, playing
cards with friends, volunteering at
your local community center and, of
course, tweeting about it all?
We may be able to enjoy our 100th
birthday and beyond if we adapt
healthy habits similar to those who
have already achieved the longevity.
Scientific explorer Dan Buettner
set out to identify communities
around the world where people live
measurably better, longer lives. Five
locations in particular, referred to as
‘Blue Zones,’ produce centenarians
at rates 10 times greater than the
Live to Be 100 Throwback article from September 2015
U.S. average. Although the Blue
Zones are scattered around the
world, they share common lifestyle
characteristics that help explain
longevity and can be incorporated
into our daily lives.
1.	Natural Movement
You won’t find the world’s
longest-lived people hitting the
gym. Rather, they see regular
movement as a privilege and an
important part of their day-to-day
life. Their environments are built
to nudge them toward moving
more, and most all intentional
physical activity is purely for
pleasure.
Apply It!
■ Try a new activity you have
always thought looked like fun
or rediscover one you enjoyed
in the past.
■ Add movement into your
day. Set a reminder to stand,
stretch or walk to the other
side of the building every 30
minutes. Do 2-minute mini-
workouts at home during
commercial breaks. Choose to
stand instead of sit while you
eat, wait for an appointment or
talk on the phone.
2.	Eat Wisely
The Blue Zones differ slightly
in their day-to-day staples,
but a plant-based diet, one or
two glasses of red wine in the
evening and cultural norms
that discourage overeating are
commonalities they share. Some
ways in which people prevent
mindless overeating include
preparing food away from the
table, using small plates, eating
slowly and reciting a mantra
to remember to stop when the
stomach is 80% full.
Continued on page 5
41 3
5
2
▯Loma Linda, California ▯Nicoya, Costa Rica ▯Sardinia, Italy
▯Ikaria, Greece ▯Okinawa, Japan
1 2 3
4 5
CBIZ Wellbeing Insights – September 2018	 Page 5
Research shows that Americans’ happiness is
declining. We may feel sad, stressed or overwhelmed,
or sense a gap that needs to be filled in order for our
lives to feel full. While happiness comes and goes in
each person’s life, there are some steps you can take
on a regular basis to help you become happier, overall.
■ Create a plan. Amy Lopez, PhD from the Depression
Center at the University of Colorado, Denver
suggests determining what makes you happy and
then prioritizing your daily and weekly activities
accordingly. Make a list of experiences that bring
you happiness. Then make a list of your daily/weekly
schedule and determine what to add or remove
to prioritize happiness in your life. Review your
progress and make changes along the way.
■ Evaluate any negativity in your life. Are there
certain activities or relationships in your life that
make you feel unhappy? Are you too focused on
fitting into someone else’s definition of happiness?
Are negative thoughts and self-talk causing you to
feel badly about yourself? Identifying and removing
your barriers to happiness can help pave the way for
a happier life.
■ Be positive and kind to yourself. Think about your
best qualities and what you like about yourself.
Write these down and reflect on them when faced
with negative thoughts. Go easy on yourself when
things don’t go as planned, keeping in mind that we
are often our own worst critic. It’s very difficult to be
happy when someone is being mean to you all the
time, even if that “someone” is you.
■ Inventory things for which you feel grateful
– the people, places, things, opportunities,
accomplishments and experiences. Regularly
acknowledge things for which you are thankful.
Mindful MinuteLive to Be 100
Continued from page 4
Apply It!
■ Rely on plants. It’s simple to chop up some veggies
and hide them in your favorite foods, or use beans
or lentils as your protein instead of meat for one
meal a week.
■ Eat less. Use the same strategies as the Blue
Zones: use small plates, portion your food ahead
of time, don’t set the leftovers on the table, eat
slowly (and enjoy a conversation) and stop before
you are completely full.
3.	The Right Outlook
People living in Blue Zones take time to downshift and
report very little chronic stress. They do not define
themselves by their job title or measure themselves
by how far they climb the corporate ladder but rather
by their purpose in life. In fact, one Blue Zone doesn’t
even have a translation for the word retirement; they
simply live their purpose in life until the end.
Apply It!
■ Prioritize your downtime. Take a few minutes each
day to reflect on the positive things happening in your
life and unplug from work for some true me time.
■ Find your purpose. This is easier said than done,
but discovering what truly matters to you and brings
meaning to your life will help lead you to fulfillment.
4.	Community
Centenarians put their families and community first.
They deeply value their tribe and live with mutual
respect, support and investment in the health of the
tribe as a whole. This thinking sometimes contradicts
our prevailing modern attitude of survival of the fittest,
but this concept has been critical to human survival
as far back as you care to look. What’s good for the
community is good for the individual.
Apply It!
■ Volunteer. Look for opportunities to volunteer in
your community. This could be as formal as taking
on a role with a non-profit or as simple as helping
a neighbor carry their groceries.
■ Connect. Sustain meaningful relationships. Surround
yourself with people with whom you can share a
mutual investment in one another’s wellbeing, basic
respect and unconditional support. Pursue and build
these types of relationships.
For more information on the Blue Zones projects,
research and initiatives, visit bluezones.com.
Navigating Sibling Rivalries
The Wellbeing Insights Newsletter is prepared for you by
CBIZ ESO. The contributions included in this newsletter do
not specifically reflect your employer’s opinions. Consult your
health care provider before making any lifestyle changes.
Contributing Writers
Abby Stevenson................Senior Wellbeing Account Manager
Bridgette O’Connor..................... Senior Wellbeing Consultant
Joe Oberoi............... Wellbeing Coordinator/Account Manager
Susan Trogu..........................................Wellbeing Consultant
Anna Panzarella....................................Wellbeing Consultant
Visit the CBIZ Wellbeing website at www.cbiz.com/wellbeing
As a mom of three boys, playing
referee to sibling rivalries is part of
daily life. At a recent school drop
off, my two youngest broke into
an actual fist fight going into the
school. I had to turn the car off and
go over to break it up with the help
of a few teachers. So did I ace it?
Heck no. But we are all in the same
boat and must accept a certain
level of background noise. Children
are most definitely a work-in-
progress, and understanding where
rivalries stem from and having tools
to teach them how to deal with each
other respectfully on a daily basis
are needed.
Why do they fight? Jealousy or
competition, of course. But there are
other factors:
■ Growing Pains. Toddlers tend to
be overly protective of what is
theirs (think, “MINE!”). School-age
children have a strong concept
of fairness and equality and may
not understand that, regardless
of circumstance, a sibling might
be treated differently. Teens are
autonomy to solve their own
problems, etc.). Note, coaching is
very different than interference;
coaching your children to process
their feelings and make good
decisions isn’t the same as forcing
them to just “leave their sister
alone” or “drop it.”
■ Avoid placing blame. If you must
intervene, separate kids until the
tempers calm. Don’t focus on who
is to blame, rather, try to set up a
win-win situation.
■ Don’t minimize their feelings.
Even if what they are fighting over
seems minor to you, acknowledge
that it’s a big deal to them.
■ Take steps to stop the insults.
Preferably, wait until they are
not in front of each other to
reprimand. Otherwise this leads to
the feeling of favoritism. However,
hurling insults is not acceptable.
■ Do your best to make time for
your kids as individuals. One-on-
one interactions have remarkable
results.
■ Go slow with stepsiblings. Don’t
force relationships. Everyone has
their own pace.
■ Consider holding weekly family
meetings in which you reiterate
rules and expectations and coach
on respectful problem solving.
■ Try not to foster competition.
Comparisons lead to competition
and in sibling rivalry that hurts.
Contributed by Susan Trogu, Wellbeing Consultant and mother of three
CBIZ Wellbeing Insights – September 2018	 Page 6
Parenting Corner
developing their independence, and
resentment builds when asked to
help with chores or care for a sibling.
■ Individual Temperaments. My kids’
personalities are like night and day
– mood, disposition, resiliency – all
of which play a huge role in how
well they get along. One could be
quiet and laid back, the other high
strung and energetic.
■ Family Dynamics. Divorce,
marriage, family blending and
death, among others, all have the
potential to lead to behavior lash
outs and can further complicate
sibling relationships.
■ Special Needs. Situations
where one child’s needs require
more time or a certain type of
attention that the other sibling
simply doesn’t require can cause
complications.
■ Role Models. How parents resolve
problems and disagreements is
a straight line to how kids will.
“Do as I say, not as I do” isn’t the
best mantra.
What can we do
as parents to
alleviate a rivalry
outlash?
■ Limit interference.
Step in only when
there’s danger of
physical harm.
Many times
stepping in causes
a whole slew of
other problems
(jealously over
favoritism, lack of
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Wellbeing Insights September 2018

  • 1. In This Issue Shinrin-yoku, also known as forest bathing or taking in the forest atmosphere, has recently been receiving attention by city dwellers and nature lovers alike. Developed in Japan in the 1980s, forest bathing is rooted in scientific evidence supporting the many benefits of a walk in the forest. The idea behind it is simple; when a person visits a natural area (forest, park, hiking trail, etc.) and walks in a relaxed manor, there are calming and rejuvenating benefits provided by the environment. More than likely you have heard of similar practices or experienced the phenomenon of forest bathing yourself. In Scandinavian countries babies get a daily nap outside, even if the temperature is below freezing. This practice has been going on since the 1920s and has helped decrease the infant mortality rate. However, the benefits of being outside in the forest have been known even prior to this Scandinavian routine. Yellow Stone National Park, which was the first national park recognized in America in 1903, was established to preserve the natural environment for people to experience. President Teddy Roosevelt and John Muir, a Scottish-born naturalist, worked together to establish many Forest Bathing September: Healthy Aging Month Forest Bathing................................... 1 FORK for Aging.................................. 2 On the Menu: Mango Madness.......... 3 Live to Be 100.................................. 4 Mindful Minute.................................. 5 Parenting Corner: Navigating Sibling Rivalries................ 6 ISSUE 38 SEPTEMBER | 2018 Continued on page 2
  • 2. CBIZ Wellbeing Insights – September 2018 Page 2 Forest Bathing Continued from page 1 other natural parks. After spending just three nights camping in the forest with Muir, Roosevelt knew immediately why he needed to protect nature. The scientifically proven benefits of forest bathing include: ■ Boosted immune system functioning, with an increase in the count of the body’s Natural Killer (NK) cells ■ Reduced blood pressure ■ Reduced stress ■ Improved mood ■ Increased ability to focus, even in children with ADHD ■ Accelerated recovery from surgery or illness ■ Increased energy level ■ Improved sleep Just as impressive are the results that we experience if we make forest bathing a regular practice: ■ Deeper and clearer intuition ■ Increased energy flow ■ Increased capacity to communicate with the land and its species ■ Increased flow of eros/life force ■ Deepening of friendships ■ Overall increased sense of happiness John Muir said it best when he stated, “In every walk with nature one receives far more than he seeks.” Every town, city and state has public parks and forests for each person to experience. Consider a gentle walk in the forest or your local park today. For more information on parks, forests or other natural habitats in your area, please visit https://www.nps.gov/ findapark/index.htm. http://www.shinrin-yoku.org http://www.pbs.org/nationalparks What changes come to mind when you think about aging? We typically think of external physical changes to our appearance, muscle mass and perhaps energy levels. However, the undercover culprit of chronic disease is cellular inflammation, which accelerates the aging process of our organs, including our skin. What we eat has a profound effect on the inflammation in our bodies, including how well we age. Though we cannot turn back the clock or change our DNA, we can slow the effects of aging, reduce inflammation and change the expression of our genes, all with one simple tool – our FORK! Fat that is good. There are two kinds of beneficial fats – monounsaturated and polyunsaturated. While both are considered healthy, it’s the polyunsaturated, anti-inflammatory Omega-3 fatty acids that are especially helpful in reducing the signs of aging. The best sources include fatty fish (e.g., mackerel, salmon, cod, sardines, herring, anchovies) as well as grass-fed meats and high-quality fish oil. While there are some vegetarian sources of Omega-3 fatty acids, they are inferior to the aforementioned sources. Omega-6 is inflammatory and, although we need it, Americans tend to get too much from grains and protein, and especially from cooking oils (e.g., sunflower, corn, soy oil, etc.). Organic greens and purple things. Antioxidants, high levels of soluble fiber and phytonutrients create a myriad of positive effects, including cleansing the body and putting the breaks on the “rusting” of our cells. The darker the fruit or vegetable, the higher the antioxidants. Organic is important, as leafy vegetables are typically heavily sprayed. Real, whole grains, though not an essential part of a healthy diet, are good alternatives to refined, white grains. Specifically, they contain fiber that helps keep blood sugar from spiking with the consumption of sugars/starches. Moreover, they contain beneficial phytochemicals that aren’t available in refined sources. Keeping sugar and starch low in the diet is critical to good health and slowing the aging process. Diets that are overly abundant with grains (whole and refined) and sugar (real and artificial) are highly inflammatory, causing insulin levels to rise, which eventually keeps the hormone from getting the byproduct of glucose (blood sugar) to cells for energy. Moreover, if insulin is constantly spiking or never goes down, the result is inflammation and possibly even irreversible damage within the body. Reducing inflammation in our bodies can have a profound effect on how well we age. While it takes daily, deliberate choices in the foods we eat, it is often well worth it in terms of how we look and feel. When in doubt, just look at your FORK for guidance. for aging
  • 3. On the Menu Mango Madness There is nothing quite like biting into a ripe, juicy mango – whether you’re on vacation in the tropics or in the comfort of your own home. The delicious fruit has a long history of curbing a sweet tooth all the way back to 4000 B.C. when Buddhist monks first cultivated it. Even now the fruit is considered sacred in some regions of Southeast Asia and India because it has been said that Buddha himself meditated under a mango tree. Mangos made their way around the world beginning around 300 or 400 A.D. Today, mangos are grown in many parts of the world, including countries close to the equator like Ecuador, Peru and Mexico, which supply most of the mangos consumed in the U.S. The benefits of mango are plentiful. Not only does it make a great choice for a sweet snack or dessert, it also contains many nutritional qualities that make it a great choice for healthy eating. Keep in mind, though, while mango may be far superior to processed sweets, an average-size mango contains about 46 grams of sugar, slightly more than a standard pack of Skittles. So while it’s great to satisfy your sweet tooth and take in some nutrients, moderation is important. Here are 5 reasons to include mangos in your diet: 1. They contain high levels of antioxidants that have been shown to ward off breast, colon, leukemia and prostate cancers. 2. They promote good eyesight. Just one cup of sliced mango contains 25% of the daily recommended value of Vitamin A. They also contain the antioxidant zeaxanthin, which helps filter out harmful blue light rays and plays a protective role in eye health. 3. Just one cup of mango contains 3 grams of fiber, which promotes healthy digestion. 4. They have a good dose of Vitamin C, which provides structure for building healthy skin and hair. 5. The fruit also has modest amounts of tartaric, malic and citric acids, which help keep the body alkaline. Mangos have a thin pit in the middle that is not as easily located or removed as, say, a peach pit. The easiest way to cut a mango is lengthwise about a quarter inch from center on each side of the stem. Then, score the mango in the peel in a grid pattern and use a spoon to scoop out the chunks. Keep It Fresh Keep unripe mango at room temperature for a couple of days to help it ripen. Once ripe, you can store the mango in the refrigerator for up to 5 days, even if sliced into chunks. Frozen mango will keep in the freezer up to 6 months. Fresh Mango Salsa Ingredients: 2 large mangos 1 lime, juiced 1/3 cup red onion, finely diced 1 jalapeno, finely diced 1 small handful cilantro, finely chopped Directions: Combine all ingredients, mix and serve! The salsa will keep up to 5 days in an airtight container in the fridge. CBIZ Wellbeing Insights – September 2018 Page 3 Nutrition Info Per Serving (1/4 cup) Calories 56 Total Fat 0.4g Carbohydrates 14.2g Sugar 12g Fiber 1.7g Protein 0.8g Sodium 1mg
  • 4. CBIZ Wellbeing Insights – September 2018 Page 4 Living an entire century doesn’t appeal to everyone; most naysayers are convinced that the elderly experience a low quality of life, social isolation and more sick days than well days. On the flip side, others are inspired by the real stories of people who thrive in their later years. Can you envision yourself at 100 years old, gardening, picking apples, playing cards with friends, volunteering at your local community center and, of course, tweeting about it all? We may be able to enjoy our 100th birthday and beyond if we adapt healthy habits similar to those who have already achieved the longevity. Scientific explorer Dan Buettner set out to identify communities around the world where people live measurably better, longer lives. Five locations in particular, referred to as ‘Blue Zones,’ produce centenarians at rates 10 times greater than the Live to Be 100 Throwback article from September 2015 U.S. average. Although the Blue Zones are scattered around the world, they share common lifestyle characteristics that help explain longevity and can be incorporated into our daily lives. 1. Natural Movement You won’t find the world’s longest-lived people hitting the gym. Rather, they see regular movement as a privilege and an important part of their day-to-day life. Their environments are built to nudge them toward moving more, and most all intentional physical activity is purely for pleasure. Apply It! ■ Try a new activity you have always thought looked like fun or rediscover one you enjoyed in the past. ■ Add movement into your day. Set a reminder to stand, stretch or walk to the other side of the building every 30 minutes. Do 2-minute mini- workouts at home during commercial breaks. Choose to stand instead of sit while you eat, wait for an appointment or talk on the phone. 2. Eat Wisely The Blue Zones differ slightly in their day-to-day staples, but a plant-based diet, one or two glasses of red wine in the evening and cultural norms that discourage overeating are commonalities they share. Some ways in which people prevent mindless overeating include preparing food away from the table, using small plates, eating slowly and reciting a mantra to remember to stop when the stomach is 80% full. Continued on page 5 41 3 5 2 ▯Loma Linda, California ▯Nicoya, Costa Rica ▯Sardinia, Italy ▯Ikaria, Greece ▯Okinawa, Japan 1 2 3 4 5
  • 5. CBIZ Wellbeing Insights – September 2018 Page 5 Research shows that Americans’ happiness is declining. We may feel sad, stressed or overwhelmed, or sense a gap that needs to be filled in order for our lives to feel full. While happiness comes and goes in each person’s life, there are some steps you can take on a regular basis to help you become happier, overall. ■ Create a plan. Amy Lopez, PhD from the Depression Center at the University of Colorado, Denver suggests determining what makes you happy and then prioritizing your daily and weekly activities accordingly. Make a list of experiences that bring you happiness. Then make a list of your daily/weekly schedule and determine what to add or remove to prioritize happiness in your life. Review your progress and make changes along the way. ■ Evaluate any negativity in your life. Are there certain activities or relationships in your life that make you feel unhappy? Are you too focused on fitting into someone else’s definition of happiness? Are negative thoughts and self-talk causing you to feel badly about yourself? Identifying and removing your barriers to happiness can help pave the way for a happier life. ■ Be positive and kind to yourself. Think about your best qualities and what you like about yourself. Write these down and reflect on them when faced with negative thoughts. Go easy on yourself when things don’t go as planned, keeping in mind that we are often our own worst critic. It’s very difficult to be happy when someone is being mean to you all the time, even if that “someone” is you. ■ Inventory things for which you feel grateful – the people, places, things, opportunities, accomplishments and experiences. Regularly acknowledge things for which you are thankful. Mindful MinuteLive to Be 100 Continued from page 4 Apply It! ■ Rely on plants. It’s simple to chop up some veggies and hide them in your favorite foods, or use beans or lentils as your protein instead of meat for one meal a week. ■ Eat less. Use the same strategies as the Blue Zones: use small plates, portion your food ahead of time, don’t set the leftovers on the table, eat slowly (and enjoy a conversation) and stop before you are completely full. 3. The Right Outlook People living in Blue Zones take time to downshift and report very little chronic stress. They do not define themselves by their job title or measure themselves by how far they climb the corporate ladder but rather by their purpose in life. In fact, one Blue Zone doesn’t even have a translation for the word retirement; they simply live their purpose in life until the end. Apply It! ■ Prioritize your downtime. Take a few minutes each day to reflect on the positive things happening in your life and unplug from work for some true me time. ■ Find your purpose. This is easier said than done, but discovering what truly matters to you and brings meaning to your life will help lead you to fulfillment. 4. Community Centenarians put their families and community first. They deeply value their tribe and live with mutual respect, support and investment in the health of the tribe as a whole. This thinking sometimes contradicts our prevailing modern attitude of survival of the fittest, but this concept has been critical to human survival as far back as you care to look. What’s good for the community is good for the individual. Apply It! ■ Volunteer. Look for opportunities to volunteer in your community. This could be as formal as taking on a role with a non-profit or as simple as helping a neighbor carry their groceries. ■ Connect. Sustain meaningful relationships. Surround yourself with people with whom you can share a mutual investment in one another’s wellbeing, basic respect and unconditional support. Pursue and build these types of relationships. For more information on the Blue Zones projects, research and initiatives, visit bluezones.com.
  • 6. Navigating Sibling Rivalries The Wellbeing Insights Newsletter is prepared for you by CBIZ ESO. The contributions included in this newsletter do not specifically reflect your employer’s opinions. Consult your health care provider before making any lifestyle changes. Contributing Writers Abby Stevenson................Senior Wellbeing Account Manager Bridgette O’Connor..................... Senior Wellbeing Consultant Joe Oberoi............... Wellbeing Coordinator/Account Manager Susan Trogu..........................................Wellbeing Consultant Anna Panzarella....................................Wellbeing Consultant Visit the CBIZ Wellbeing website at www.cbiz.com/wellbeing As a mom of three boys, playing referee to sibling rivalries is part of daily life. At a recent school drop off, my two youngest broke into an actual fist fight going into the school. I had to turn the car off and go over to break it up with the help of a few teachers. So did I ace it? Heck no. But we are all in the same boat and must accept a certain level of background noise. Children are most definitely a work-in- progress, and understanding where rivalries stem from and having tools to teach them how to deal with each other respectfully on a daily basis are needed. Why do they fight? Jealousy or competition, of course. But there are other factors: ■ Growing Pains. Toddlers tend to be overly protective of what is theirs (think, “MINE!”). School-age children have a strong concept of fairness and equality and may not understand that, regardless of circumstance, a sibling might be treated differently. Teens are autonomy to solve their own problems, etc.). Note, coaching is very different than interference; coaching your children to process their feelings and make good decisions isn’t the same as forcing them to just “leave their sister alone” or “drop it.” ■ Avoid placing blame. If you must intervene, separate kids until the tempers calm. Don’t focus on who is to blame, rather, try to set up a win-win situation. ■ Don’t minimize their feelings. Even if what they are fighting over seems minor to you, acknowledge that it’s a big deal to them. ■ Take steps to stop the insults. Preferably, wait until they are not in front of each other to reprimand. Otherwise this leads to the feeling of favoritism. However, hurling insults is not acceptable. ■ Do your best to make time for your kids as individuals. One-on- one interactions have remarkable results. ■ Go slow with stepsiblings. Don’t force relationships. Everyone has their own pace. ■ Consider holding weekly family meetings in which you reiterate rules and expectations and coach on respectful problem solving. ■ Try not to foster competition. Comparisons lead to competition and in sibling rivalry that hurts. Contributed by Susan Trogu, Wellbeing Consultant and mother of three CBIZ Wellbeing Insights – September 2018 Page 6 Parenting Corner developing their independence, and resentment builds when asked to help with chores or care for a sibling. ■ Individual Temperaments. My kids’ personalities are like night and day – mood, disposition, resiliency – all of which play a huge role in how well they get along. One could be quiet and laid back, the other high strung and energetic. ■ Family Dynamics. Divorce, marriage, family blending and death, among others, all have the potential to lead to behavior lash outs and can further complicate sibling relationships. ■ Special Needs. Situations where one child’s needs require more time or a certain type of attention that the other sibling simply doesn’t require can cause complications. ■ Role Models. How parents resolve problems and disagreements is a straight line to how kids will. “Do as I say, not as I do” isn’t the best mantra. What can we do as parents to alleviate a rivalry outlash? ■ Limit interference. Step in only when there’s danger of physical harm. Many times stepping in causes a whole slew of other problems (jealously over favoritism, lack of ©Copyright2018.CBIZ,Inc.NYSEListed:CBZ.Allrightsreserved.CBIZ-228,Rev.38 babycenter.com; kidshealth.org