The passage describes a sermon given by a Yale Divinity School student about the Christian tradition of Advent and waiting for Christmas. The student explained how she grew up viewing Advent as a time to wait in wonder for the birth of Jesus, but later felt pressure to "forget" about Jesus each year so she could experience fresh surprise on Christmas Eve. The passage then discusses T.S. Eliot's poem "The Four Quarters" and how it offers a different perspective on waiting - to wait without hope or expectations, as those could be hopes for the "wrong thing." It argues this does not mean sinking into despair but rather opening oneself up to whatever unexpected good news God may bring, without tightly holding onto preconceived narratives
My friend Ian explained that people expect a Christmas message this year and he didn't want to disappoint them. I thought "Yes! I want to give people a reason to sing at this time of year"
My friend Ian explained that people expect a Christmas message this year and he didn't want to disappoint them. I thought "Yes! I want to give people a reason to sing at this time of year"
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The latest edition of the Tidings, the monthly newsletter of Brown Memorial Park Avenue Presbyterian Church, where I am a member. I have been laying out the newsletter for about 2 years on an ongoing basis.
1. The Waiting Room
I said to my soul, be still and wait without hope, for hope would be hope for the wrong thing;
wait without love, for love would be love of the wrong thing; there is yet faith, but the faith
and the love are all in the waiting. Wait without thought, for you are not ready for thought: So
the darkness shall be the light, and the stillness the dancing.
– TS Eliot, “The Four Quarters”
A few weeks ago I heard a student from Yale Divinity School
offer a sermon about Christmas. She explained that she grew up
in a Christian home where much was made of the “wonderful
surprise” of the baby Jesus. The season of Advent, that busy
stretch of weeks between Thanksgiving and Christmas, was
meant to be a time of waiting and wondering and preparing for
the birth of Christ.
This was all well and good, the student explained, but
somehow along the way she developed the idea that she needed to be freshly surprised by
Jesus every Christmas. Somehow it seemed like her duty as a faithful Christian to “forget”
about Jesus so that she could experience the wonder of Christmas Eve anew. “Very early
on,” she said, “I started to get the idea that faith is about pretending to forget things that you
know and pretending to believe things that you don’t.” Ouch.
The poet TS Eliot offers a different way to wait. “I said to my soul, be still and wait
without hope,” he says. Does this mean we are to allow ourselves to sink into despair? Does
it mean that we should become cynical and detached from the tragedies of everyday life?
Does it mean that we should “forget” Jesus until a magical Christmas Eve moment? I think
not. Instead, Eliot says, “Wait without hope, for hope would be hope for the wrong thing.”
For Mary and Joseph, the arrival of Jesus was impossibly good news they never
could have expected. That’s not an experience that we will ever share on this side of
Christendom. We know about Jesus, and every twelve months we arrive at this familiar
liturgical moment. But there is something to be said for the discipline of opening yourself
up to the possibility of unexpected good news. The more tightly we grip particular
narratives, goals, or conceptions of what Good News will look like this year, the less
available we are when the Christ Child finally arrives.
Maybe part of Advent is simply the discipline of loosening our grip on our expectations,
clearing enough space for the holy mystery of Incarnation – God-With-Us. Clearing
the space can feel like negation, but in fact it is an act of deep faithfulness. We are once
again in the waiting room. We do not pretend that we have never been here before. But
nonetheless we strive to open our hands and be watchful and available to what God may do
this year, in her own sweet time.
Pastor’s Reflections.
.1
Music Notes..............2
To Our Readers........2
Meditation Circle.....2
B.U.I.L.D.ING Up
the Vote....................3
A Note of Thanks.
.....4
Festive Brass Concert
on December 7............5
Face Hunt Fall 2014...5
Massanetta Springs –
Just Do It..................6
December Birthdays..7
Gifts of Stock...........7
Responsibility
Schedule Box............7
December 2014
at BMPA...................8
In this Issue
The
Tidings
December 2014
Good news from
Pastor’s Reflections
By Rev. Timothy Hughes, Associate Pastor for Youth
tim@browndowntown.org
2. Page 2 The Tidings December 2014
“At the River” – Aaron Copland
(1900-1990)
In 1950, the composer Benjamin Britten asked Aaron
Copland to arrange a set of American Folk tunes for his
Music and Art Festival in Aldeburgh, England. The first set
of songs was premiered by the famous tenor Peter Pears, with
Britten at the piano. The songs were met with such success
that Copland composed a second set which included an
arrangement of the hymn, “Shall
We Gather at the River”. This
second set was premiered in 1953
with baritone William Warfield
and Aaron Copland at the piano.
Many of these songs have since
been arranged for chorus and
orchestra. The tune that is used,
“Hanson Place”, is a reference to
the original Hanson Place Baptist Church in Brooklyn where
Robert Lowry, the composer, served as minister.
“O Nata Lux” – Morten Lauridsen
(1943 -)
American composer, Morten Johannes Lauridsen is
a recipient of the National Medal of Arts (2007). He was
composer-in-residence of the Los Angeles Master Chorale
(1994–2001) and has been a professor of composition at the
University of Southern California Thornton School of Music
for more than 40 years. A native of the Pacific Northwest,
Lauridsen worked as a Forest Service firefighter and lookout
(on an isolated tower near Mt. St. Helens) and attended
Whitman College before traveling south to study composition
at the University of Southern California with Ingolf Dahl,
Halsey Stevens, Robert Linn, and Harold Owen. He began
teaching at USC in 1967 and has been on their faculty ever
since. In 2006, Lauridsen was named an ‘American Choral
Master’ by the National Endowment for the Arts. In 2007 he
received the National Medal of Arts from the President in a
White House ceremony, “for his composition of radiant choral
works combining musical beauty, power and spiritual depth
that have thrilled audiences worldwide.”
Magnificat
Giovanni Battista Pergolesi
(1710-1736)
As a child Pergolesi studied with Francesco Santini; at
sixteen he was sent to Naples where he studied with Durante
and Feo. Pergolesi had a remarkable ability for improvising
on the violin. In his brief lifetime Pergolesi produced many
operas, oratorios, cantatas, shorter sacred music, and some
instrumental works. He is best known for “La Serva Padrona”
(Rome, 1735), a splendid example of early opera buffa.
Pergolesi’s “Stabat Mater” (ca. 1730) was commissioned by
the fraternity of S. Luigi di Palazzo to replace Alessandro
Scarlatti’s composition which the Neapolitans performed
traditionally on Good Friday. Bach is known to have
adapted and performed this work. In spite of suffering from
tuberculosis, Pergolesi maintained an optimistic outlook and
continued to compose until his death.
By Michael T. Britt, Minister of Music
michael@browndowntown.org
Music Notes
As we look forward to celebrating the birth of
Jesus, let us look backward to 10 years ago when
the congregation of Brown Memorial Park Avenue
Presbyterian Church received the gift of leadership
and fellowship from Team Foster Connors – Andrew,
Kate, Anna, and Aidan. What a glorious gift to the
larger community, to the congregation, and to each
individual!
Thank you to all who submitted articles, pictures,
reflections, and music notes chronicling the
activities, the current events, and the past history
of this community. I especially appreciate those
persons who allowed themselves to be the subjects
of profiles and the contributions of the Associate
Pastor Tim Hughes, the Minister of Music Michael
Britt, and the graphic artist extraordinaire, Laura
McConnell. Our efforts would be worthless if Sharon
Holley and Carol Graves did not handle the copying,
the mailing, and the online posting of this newsletter.
If I left a name out, please forgive me.
2015 will arrive soon. We do not know what it will
bring, but we know that whatever happens, God is
with us. Merry Christmas and Happy New Year!
– Ellen Carter Cooper
To Our Readers
Meditation Circle
Please join us for a time of silence and
community every Sunday, 9:00-9:30 in the
Church House. All are welcome. Using a
few words or an image to bring us to a place
of stillness, we sit together in a circle of
meditative quiet, ending with prayer. Through
stilling our minds and opening our hearts,
we find community with one another and with
God. For more information or to be added to
an email list for the Meditation Circle, please
contact June Fletcher-Hill at fletcherhill@
msn.com or 410-367-0995. Plan to arrive a
few minutes before 9:00 as we begin our time
together right at 9:00.
3. December 2014 The Tidings Page 3
B.U.I.L.D.ING Up the Vote
Approximately 300 volunteers assembled through
Baltimoreans United in Leadership Development (BUILD)
to get out the vote for this year’s Election Day. They focused
on going door-to-door in North
Baltimore’s Ward 27, which has a large
proportion of registered voters, to ask
residents if they planned to vote and
needed any assistance to make it to
the polls. Almost 7,000 people were
reached. Through this get out the vote
push, BUILD sought to send a signal
to City Hall that by exercising their
right to vote, the voters are paying
attention to their elected officials. The
following are short reflections from a
few volunteers affiliated with Brown Memorial.
When I was there Tuesday evening, one of the phone bank
volunteers called an elderly woman at 7 p.m. who was very
upset because her ride wasn’t working out to the polls, and
she had never missed an election. Jake Cohen was dispatched
immediately to take her to the polls, and they made it on time!
She was thrilled!
– Cheryl Finney
On our last run of the night at 7 p.m., Jermaine, Libby, Jake,
and I met a gentleman who lived in the apartment complex
across from St. Matthews who had no way to get to the polls,
and he told us he appreciated getting a ride; otherwise, he
would not have voted. For me, that one gentleman made the
whole day worth it.
– Sherrell Savage, Brown’s BUILD liaison
It’s uncomfortable to ring the doorbell of someone
unknown, and for me, the idea of asking whoever answered
the door whether he or she planned to vote was an even more
uncomfortable prospect. But after ringing a couple doorbells
and encountering some initially skeptical faces at the door, I
discovered an instant bond when those faces smiled and said
they’d already voted or planned to vote the next day. To those
faces on the other side of the doorway, my presence became
a thank you for voting, an unexpected moment of recognition
that made us both smile.
– David Nyweide
I met two young women who stopped by our headquarters
who were voting for the first time and were excited to share
that with us.
– Cheryl Finney
Sporting our blue BUILD T-shirts, Beth and I were with Jake
and another woman named Joyce at Belvedere Square Market,
encouraging people to vote and offering rides to voters’ polling
places if needed. Our team was wrapping up, and as Jake and I
were heading back to the van, we saw a young (late teens/early
twenties) man wearing headphones walking down Belvedere
Avenue. We flagged him down and introduced ourselves – his
name was Stefan – and asked him if he’d like to vote. When
he said yes, Jake said, “We’ve got a van. We can take you there
right now.” So Stefan went with us to the polling place. As we
were walking to the van, he called someone on his phone and
said, “I’m doing something I should have done already – I’m
going to vote.” It turned out his mother had encouraged him to
vote earlier that morning, so we caught him at the right time.
We got to the polling place, which was right down the street
from where he lived. I accompanied Stefan inside and told
the poll workers (mostly older ladies) that I was with BUILD
and that we’d brought Stefan in to vote – except that it wasn’t
his polling place! The van left to pick up another voter, and I
waited at the polling place while Stefan straightened out his
paperwork and proceeded to fill out a paper ballot.
As I waited, one of the poll workers walked by with a plate of
food fit for Thanksgiving. I asked if it’s the kind of spread that
poll workers get in Baltimore – when I worked an election in
Northern Virginia, we got pizza and soda! They told me they
did a potluck system there, so they had collard greens, sweet
potatoes, turkey legs, cornbread, etc. They generously offered
to fix me a plate “since you’re doing such good work getting
continued on page 4
Photo by J. Brough Schamp
From left, Rev. Glenna Huber, pastor of Holy Nativity
Episcopal Church and Clergy Co-chair of BUILD;
Rev. Andrew Foster Connors, pastor of Brown and
clergy co-chair of BUILD; and Rev. William C.
Calhoun, pastor of the Trinity Baptist Church
4. people out to the polls.” I declined, saying that if I
got a big plate of food and my wife didn’t, I’d never
hear the end of it, so of course they offered to make
Beth a plate as well!
By this time, the van had returned. I went out
and told Beth everything, and she said, “You
know, I’m REALLY looking forward to going out
to lunch with you later – have the ladies give that
plate to Stefan instead.” And that’s how Stefan not
only cast his ballot but walked out of the polling
place with a ton of encouragement and a plate piled
(very) high with food.
– Adam Allen
I had two to three really great, long conversations
with people in the door-to-door campaigning.
These conversations centered on feelings of
being overwhelmed by all the problems in their
community and that they felt helpless to change
them. We discussed issues that matter to them
such as one woman’s efforts to write to U.S. Representative
Cummings around redlining and its deleterious effect on her
car insurance rate and how she felt powerless to do anything
about it since she only got a form letter back. We had a great
conversation about potential next steps, including what would
it look like if she found 10 other people in her neighborhood
who felt strongly about this issue and started a campaign that
included a visit together to Rep. Cummings’s office.
We discussed ways BUILD could work with her on this issue.
While such conversations were not the intent of getting out
the vote, I was amazed at how sometimes once a conversation
began, the closed door opened slightly, then wider, and soon
the individual was on the porch with me openly speaking.
These interactions can spark great engagement with people in
the community and a deeper sense of how people feel about
their ability to effect changes in their neighborhoods.
– Cheryl Finney
Page 4 The Tidings December 2014
B.U.I.L.D.ING Up the Vote
continued from page 3
Photo by J. Brough Schamp
Brown member Cheryl Finney with another BUILD volunteer
greeting someone at a doorstep to get out the vote.
A Note
of
Thanks
Chair Peggy M. Obrecht and the Committee
to coordinate the 10th anniversary celebration
of Andrew’s becoming the Pastor of Brown
Memorial would like to thank everyone who
worked so hard to make it such a joyous
occasion. It was a community effort and
brought pleasure to all who were fortunate
enough to be able to share in that day.
5. December 2014 The Tidings Page 5
Festive Brass Concert on December 7
For the first time ever, the popular Peabody Brass
Bash, featuring 40 of “the best and the brightest”
brass players
from the Peabody
Conservatory, will be
performed at
Brown Memorial!
This concert,
an annual holiday
favorite, will be
presented by the
Tiffany Series at
3 p.m. on Sunday,
December 7, 2014.
Parking and shuttle
service will
be available.
The Peabody
Brass Ensemble will
perform a varied
program that includes
seasonal works “In the Bleak Midwinter” by Gustav
Holst and “the Wexford Carol,“ as well as familiar
pieces like “Pie Jesu” from Gabriel Fauré’s Requiem.
Organist Michael Britt will join the brass on several
selections, including “Pie Jesu” and Bruckner’s
“Psalm 150.”
Two other brass
groups will also
participate in the
Bash: The Peabody
Trumpet Ensemble
and the Trompody
Peabones, a
trombone ensemble.
Conducting it
all will be David
Fedder, Peabody
Conservatory
trombone faculty
member and former
member of both the
Baltimore Symphony
Orchestra and the
Cleveland Orchestra.
Tickets to this
family-friendly event are $15 (students $5) and are
available in advance at www.browndowntown.org
and in the Assembly Room after worship. They can
also be purchased at the door.
Face Hunt Fall 2014
Can you guess which Brown adults played Face Hunt with the youth at the Towson Town Center Mall?
6. Christmas is my least favorite holiday season. The first
decoration required in our house on December 1st is my “Bah
Humbug” ornament. The concomitant public cheer does little
to lift my grumpy mood brought on by cold dark days, dry
skin, and static. Now summer – summer is my favorite. The
steamier the days, the better. So it was with the happy thought
of summer that I agreed when Tim asked in late January of
2014 for help chaperoning kids to the Massanetta Springs
Middle School Conference. Even though our family had plans
for a two-week trip to England ending on July 5, I told Tim I
would be happy to go with him from July 15-18 to the edge of
the Appalachian Mountains.
Fast forward – really, like the blink of an eye – to
registration time. The theme? Beyond the Manger.
CHRISTMAS. Christmas? In my favorite of seasons,
summer??? The phrase “Man plans, God laughs” ran through
my head more than once, along with many other colorful
thoughts inappropriate to share in a church newsletter. But
I had committed, and it was a few months away, and I was
sure I could muster enough summer lightness of being to
get through it. After all, this was not all about me – as my
husband pointed out a bit too merrily.
A series of events then transpired to create the perfect storm
of preparation – I call it my own personal Advent… At the
end of the England trip I contracted what must truly have been
the last of The Plague. I had foolishly accepted a temporary
job offer to travel to the West coast to run some focus groups
and interviews – from the day after we arrived home from
England until
three days
before what I
had taken to
calling “Jesus
Camp.” So I
coughed and
sneezed my
way through
the week of
travel, rested
for three
days (this
is sounding
positively
prophetic) and
braced myself
for the coming
“season.”
By the time
we arrived at
Massanetta,
I was still
coughing
and exhausted.
The exuberant
teenage counselors
who met us at the
driveway made
Buddy the Elf
look like Scrooge.
One mixed up
room assignment
and a broken air
conditioner later I
was joining in an
opening service of
Christmas carols,
skits with presents
and tree decorating,
more cheerful high-fiving and a fairly conservative sermon.
Our small groups purposefully comprised complete
strangers, two adults and about ten teenagers. More
icebreakers, a workshop to create our own Christmas carol…
I struggled to find the spirit and to let go. Then a shift occurred.
I noticed that our small group counselor and my fellow
participants were the best teenage girls and guys I could have
imagined. (A boy from a Virginia church in our group who
may have been autistic was not only not teased, but embraced
and included by his peers.) The days were beautifully hot and
just cool enough at night – without air conditioning even – to
sleep. The fresh air, great food and sweet tea at every meal
healed the remnants of my illness. The goofy dance moves at
every gathering and the slip ‘n slide (yes, I did it, undoubtedly
the oldest contender…) and times debriefing with Tim and our
BMPA called to mind past youth group and summer camp
experiences. I still have the strip of cloth from the “face your
fears” workshop on which all of our fears were written on a
sheet, torn into strips and taken away by each participant as
reminders that we have each other’s backs.
Not the least of my transformation was that what started
with bad sweaters and decorations and carols was literally
stripped away piece by piece until the “real Christmas” I wish
for every year was all that was left – God’s hope sent to the
world in the form of an infant born to a poor carpenter and
his very young wife in a manger filled with livestock. It sticks
with me still – two weeks ago at the beginning of November,
I bought a Christmas decoration, which prompted my children
to ask questions designed to uncover the alien that had surely
possessed their mom.
Likely, you will hesitate when Tim puts out the call for
chaperones. Likely, your children will shake their heads and
say “no way” when you encourage them to go. Consider this
though: that a jaded Christmas-season hater with a bad attitude
and a horrible cold coming off nine time zone changes got the
spirit and connections she will always remember and cherish.
I dare you – go just once – you may surprise yourself!
Page 6 The Tidings December 2014
Massanetta Springs – Just Do It
By Patti Flowers-Coulson
7. The giving of Stocks or other Securities, which
have appreciated in value, may provide a tax
advantage to you, the donor.
If you would like to make a gift to the church
in this manner, please provide the following
information to your broker.
DTC #0235
RBC Wealth Management
A/C #313-81881
Account Name – Brown Memorial Park
Avenue Presbyterian Church
Contact: Geoffrey Brent or Lisa Vetter
Phone Number: 410-316-5319
Please also inform Sharon Lucas, our Financial
Administrator: slucas@browndowntown.org
If you would like to participate in one of
the areas of responsibility, please contact
Sharon Holley at (410) 523-1542 or via email
at sharon@browndowntown.org.
December Responsibility
Schedules
Sunday Worship Service
For an itemized list of Responsibility
schedules at BMPA, please click on this
link: http://www.browndowntown.org/index.
php?s=backstage
Good news from
Published monthly for members and friends of Brown Memorial
Park Avenue Presbyterian Church. 1316 Park Avenue,
Baltimore, MD, 21217. 410.523.1542. www.browndowntown.org.
Andrew Foster Connors, Senior Pastor.
Timothy Hughes, Associate Pastor for Youth.
Ellen Carter Cooper, Editor.
Laura McConnell, Graphic Designer.
Send contributions by the 15th of each month to
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The
Tidings
12/01 Lynda Burton
12/01 Nicholas Imparato
12/02 Evangeline B. Lozada
12/03 Cheryl Finney
12/03 Tony Saudek
12/04 Michaela Murphy Buc
12/04 Adam Steel Neblo McNabney
12/05 Eloise Jennings Crew
12/05 Alexandra Mihalski
12/05 Jenny Williams
12/07 J. Courtland Robinson
12/07 Brough Schamp
12/08 Nancyellen Brennan
12/10 Viviane B. Thorpe
12/11 Cal Buikema
12/11 Katie Rhodes
12/11 Sally S. Robinson
12/11 Samuel Todd
12/11 Andy Zabel
12/12 Rick Satterlee
12/13 Audrey M. Brown
12/13 Stewart Finney
12/13 Barbara Veldhuizen
12/15 Auggie Brown
12/16 Nate Hubler
12/16 Chip Riegel Morgan
12/16 Henry Taylor
12/17 Harry Hinkle
12/18 Nicki Artes
12/18 Caroline Cross
12/18 Stephanie Shapiro
12/19 Jair Williams
12/20 Gillian Babb
12/21 Sam J. Kelly, III
12/22 Judith Armold
12/22 Michelle Logan
12/22 Narka K. Ryan
12/23 June Carr
12/25 Robert Gorham
12/25 Kelsie Riegel Morgan
12/25 Matthew-Daniel Stremba
12/27 Juliette Goodwin
12/29 Macy Branch
12/29 Rachel Cunningham
12/30 Teresa Blythe
12/30 Ruth Brennan Taylor
12/31 Phyllis McIntosh
Note: If you wish to have your birthday listed in The
Tidings, please contact Sharon Holley, church secretary, at
410-523-1542, or via e-mail at Sharon@browndowntown.org.
December Birthdays
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