1) By treating people well, listening to them, understanding their uniqueness, and maintaining trust, one can draw out their best qualities rather than criticize them. 2) Specifically, one should show genuine interest in others without ulterior motives, have high expectations that others will treat you well in return, and seek to understand individuals' varying needs rather than relying on stereotypes. 3) Maintaining a positive, hopeful attitude by smiling and laughing with people, rather than complaining or putting them down, also helps bring out their best.