1. Optimism & Islam
By
Yaqeen Ul Haq Ahmad Sikander
Life has no smooth road for any of us; and in the bracing atmosphere of a high aim the very
roughness stimulates the climber to steadier steps, till the legend, over steep ways to the
stars, fulfills itself.
- W. C. Doane
Life is the most complex abstract creation of Allah (SWT). Life is inseparable from humans
until the state of death arrives. During the course of life, every one of us feels blue and
down due to various challenges brought about by our lives. Grief, sorrow and stress are a
part and parcel of life. We all have gone through these. What life gives us sometimes cannot
be denied or repelled, so the best way is acceptance – taking what life gives, and deriving
positive lessons thereof makes the whole difference. We cannot stop hardships from
touching us, but in the end our attitudes can either make us or break us.
One of the most positive qualities which determine attitude is optimism. What is optimism?
Optimism doesn’t have a scientific definition; it’s simply expecting that good things rather
than bad things will happen. Pessimism on the other hand refers to its opposite. “Good
expectations are a feature of belief, and nothing can be achieved without belief and hope”,
said Prophet Muhammad (SAW). He also said “Be optimistic and good shall be found”. Islam
is a religion that calls for optimism and trust.
Optimism can do miracles and can not only save us from troubles but also give us a chance
to learn from these. The key to success lies in optimism. Qualities like perseverance,
patience and not giving up are all related with this noble attitude of optimism. All the great
and influential personalities and leaders owe their success to optimism. Optimism is not
ignoring the problem but simply the best way to deal with it and learning from it for the
future. Both the optimists and pessimists encounter the same problem but it is the mindset
and perception which takes over and decides the result. As Dale Carnegie writes, “Two
people looked out of a window from prison; one saw mud and the other stars”.
Everybody of us must have felt disappointed at or about something atleast once in life and
must have said something along the lines of "Why did this happen to me? I worked so hard, I
had prayed so hard...why me?" Disappointment is natural and a part of human emotion. So
what's the answer to this "Why me?" that pops up in our minds. As believers, we must trust
that whatever happens to us comes from the decree of Allah (SWT). This is a part of Imaan
and also a sign of enter the Islam totally as the Quran mentions "Udkhulu fisilmi
kaaffa""Enter into Islam completely"(2:208). So if there is any problem or a personal or

2. professional loss we must believe that it is a test from Allah and it will be over as the Quran
says “With every hardship comes ease” (94:5). So we must always remember
that "whosoever puts his trust in Allah, then He will suffice Him"(65:3)
In their book Creating Optimism Bob Murray and Alicia Fortinberry reveal the fundamentals
of happiness and 8 things you can do to create happiness and optimism.
1. Connection to Others “…at the very heart of your being.”
Make a list of friends you haven't contacted in a while but would like to, and call
them.
2. Autonomy “…a feeling of independence and a sense of being in control…”
Go to as many local establishments rather than chains as possible and strike up a
conversation with the proprietor or service people.
3. Self-Esteem “…a function of how you perceive others view you.”
Catch yourself every time you make a self-deprecating comment.
4. Competence “…relates to how effective you feel you are.”
Ask the people in your life to tell you when they think you've done something well.
5. Purpose “…fulfilment and meaning throughout your life.”
Ask your friends and acquaintances to describe what they see as their purpose
beyond making money or caring for others.
6. Connection to Your Body “...vital to our complete sense of self...”
Throw out all your magazines that feature impossibly perfect-looking men or women
on the covers.
7. Connection to Nature “…its permanence, its beauty and power…”
Walk in a park or other natural area for twenty minutes each day. Pat at least one
dog and talk to its owner.
8. Spirituality “…a powerful weapon against depression...”
Make a list of all the things you believe in that give you comfort.
To conclude, Muhammad (SAW) said, "Amazing is the matter of the believer, for all of his
affairs are good for him. If a bounty was bestowed on him, he does Shukr for it and this is
better for him. If an affliction touches him, he does Sabr and this is better for him, and this is
only for the believer (Muslim)"
(The Author can be reached at www.yaqeenulhaq.info or can be mailed at
yaqeen@ymail.com)