1) Political leaders are trying to gratify themselves by promoting sectarian ideas around language and identity, while opponents disguise themselves as broad-minded. 2) As a common man, the author feels torn between protecting his self-respect and livelihood, and embracing a more unifying attitude. 3) The solution is for common people to understand that feelings of inadequacy or fear of domination are hallmarks of maniacal elements on both sides, and to rise above obstacles through growth rather than reacting in a vicious manner.