4 Steps to Make Him Worry About Losing You If your man is making it clear that he’s not worried about losing you, chances are it leaves you feeling like you don’t matter much to him… Maybe you even feel unimportant to him and taken for granted. He might treat you as though whether or not you are there, it wouldn’t even make a difference to him. Or worse he TELLS you that he doesn’t care! And of course that hurts… It’ll leave you angry and sad because even the strongest girlfriends eventually can’t take it anymore and just want to give up. But we DID eventually manage to solve this tricky problem. And yours can be fixed too!

1. 4 Steps to Make Him Worry About
Losing You
If your man is making it clear that he’s not worried about losing you, chances
are it leaves you feeling like you don’t matter much to him…
Maybe you even feel unimportant to him and taken for granted.
He might treat you as though whether or not you are there, it wouldn’t even
make a difference to him. Or worse he TELLS you that he doesn’t care!
And of course that hurts…
It’ll leave you angry and sad because even the strongest girlfriends eventually
can’t take it anymore and just want to give up.
But we DID eventually manage to solve this tricky problem.
And yours can be fixed too!

2. I’m going to tell you what you need to do to turn things around and get him to
treat you like you DO MATTER and ARE important!
Let’s talk about how to make your man worry about losing you.
1. Don’t Hope That He Will Change and Finally Start Appreciating
You
My girlfriend was incredibly patient with me in our relationship, one might
even say too patient at times…
And we’ve observed the same tendency with other couples.

3. It’s as though there is an unspoken rule for women: that they are expected to
be endlessly giving and patient.
And that by trying to live up to an impossible angel-like standard they will
somehow magically inspire the change they desire in their men, so that he’ll
finally care about you.
Now let’s look at the reality of trying this approach:
• He’ll take you for granted even more (if that’s at all possible!)
• It’ll be like he’s walking all over you
• You’ll feel worse and worse..
• And he’ll worry EVEN less about losing you!
This approach does not work, because you would be giving him even more
room to continue his behavior.
It’s almost like saying:
“Hey honey, it seems as though you don’t worry about losing me… here let
me help you worry EVEN LESS!”
So if you find yourself in this kind of pattern of waiting and hoping for him to
change by being the ‘perfect angel’, it’s important to take charge instead.
Because this problem will not resolve itself.
Taking charge of your relationship is the only thing that will truly result in your
man’s behavior changing.

4. And it’s the experience my girlfriend had with me as well!
It’s only when she stopped waiting or being patient and took charge, that she
started getting the appreciation and attention she wanted!
2. Stop Coming His Way the Whole Time, Match His Efforts Instead
Do you ever have the feeling you’re accommodating men? Like even your
boyfriend or husband?
Maybe when he’s saying something that may be of very little interest to you,
you still find yourself politely nodding, smiling and feigning interest?

5. If so, let me tell you this is something us men are unfortunately very used to
and BLIND to as well!
We like to think our partner is truly interested and blown away by whatever it
is we’re currently flexing about.
But when it’s your turn to be heard, he might cut you off mid sentence.
Or maybe he ignores the fact that you just said something to begin with!
This behavior is unfortunately common…
I don’t know where us men get our sense of entitlement from, but it definitely
has a negative impact on our relationship!
So instead of coming his way the whole time, MATCH his efforts instead.
Give only as much as he’s giving you.
Whether that’s in conversation, texting, in bed, chores or any other area of life.
Match however much effort he is putting in and DON’T put in more than that!
This will shake things up for him, he’ll realize that you can CHOOSE how much
of your time and attention you give him.
That it’s not guaranteed and that he has to earn it!
A word of caution: Be careful not to fall into the other extreme of distancing
yourself and not giving anything at all! Because this will signal that you are no
longer interested in him and can even reinforce his lack of worry about losing
you!]

6. 3. Get Busy Pursuing Your Own Interests
There is nothing more vexing and simultaneously attractive to us men than a
woman doing her own thing.
You see, we’re selfish.
We like to be the most important thing in our girlfriend’s life.
King of the castle, master of the universe and any other cliche you can think
of!
And when we’re not the center of everything –a primitive caveman ALARM
BELL goes off.. :
“Why is this other thing of more interest to her now? How dare she prioritize
getting her nails done over dining with me?! What is this rebellion? It seems I
must pursue and court her again!”
You know, like Belle in Beauty and the Beast -only without the whole captivity
and talking furniture thing.
I’m exaggerating a little here because I want to get this POINT across.
There is something very frustrating yet stimulating to a man when his partner
goes off doing her own thing!

7. My girlfriend would be at social events, hanging out with friends or even
taking drawing classes at some point.
And I couldn’t have her out there having all the fun to herself! And besides,
what if she meets an interesting guy??…
You get the idea.
So pursuing your own interests will keep your man on his toes and more
interested in you again!

8. 4. Restructuring Your Relationship Will Make Him Worry About
Losing You

9. Lastly, it's important to address the elephant in the room here…
If you are in this situation where your man is neglecting you and isn’t worried
about losing you…
…Then there’s MORE to it than meets the eye.
This kind of unfair treatment doesn’t appear out of nowhere. It stems from
issues in a relationship that lie beneath the surface.
These are problems that are often old and buried because they’re just too
scary to face!
And they develop very slowly over the course of months or years so they’re
also very difficult to pick up on…
But at some point the pain is too big to continue ignoring and you wake up
and realize:“Hey, he’s not even worried about losing me anymore! He takes
me for granted!”What’s needed at this point is to restructure your relationship
to make him actually wake up and be afraid of losing you.
Since my girlfriend and I both KNOW these struggles and learned how to
overcome them, it became important to us to share our experience and help
other women overcome them too.
So If you’re feeling unappreciated and unimportant and could do with some
help fixing it, be sure to watch a video presentation about this relationship
enhancement tool.
In it, you’ll learn actionable steps to immediately capture his undivided
attention, as well as the secrets to get him to truly value and appreciate you
the way you want and need, so that he DOES finally worry about losing you.

10. Click here to video presentation
Finally, there is also a flip side to the whole issue of men not worrying about
losing their partner…
Which is that he might straight up be the emotionally unavailable type!