Fashion enthusiast Remi Landau designs clothing for a social nightwear line in New York. A graduate of Syracuse University, Remi Landau enjoys a range of hobbies, including calligraphy. Holding the pen correctly is a basic of calligraphy that many beginners overlook. This is often because beginners believe calligraphy pens should be held the same as regular pens. However, your grip on a regular pen is much more curled and tight. Your fingers move the pen as you write. Conversely, your grip on a calligraphy pen must be relatively relaxed. Your fingers are there for support only. Barely bend your index finger, and use your thumb and other fingers to support the pen.