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God’S Design For Husbands And Wives
- 2. God’s Design For Husbandsand Wives
- 5. God’s Design For Husbandsand Wives
- 6. What God expects ofHusbands and Wives
- 7. What God expectsof Husbands and Wives If we are to know what God expects we need to know what the Bible says.
- 8. What God expectsof Husbands and Wives If we are to know what God expects we need to know what the Bible says. This session will be centered on what God says in the Bible.
- 9. Ephesians 5:32 Ephesians 5:32A mystery Marriage is Gods Idea
- 10. Ephesians 5:32 Thismystery is great – but I am actually speaking with reference to Christ and the church.
- 11. Genesis 1:26 Then Godsaid, "Let us make man in our image, in our likeness, . . . Image Bearer Relationship with God
- 12. male and femalehe created them. Image Bearer Relationship with God & with each other
- 13. Then God said,"Let us make man in our image, in our likeness, . . . So God created man in his own image, in the image of God he created him; male and female he created them. Image Bearer Created for Relationship as sexual beings
- 14. Hebrew for Male Zakar Thepointed one Created for Relationship as sexual beings Hebrew for Female Neqevah The pierced one
- 15. Hebrew for Male Zakar Thepointed one Created for Relationship as sexual beings Hebrew for Female Neqevah The pierced one Initiator Responder
- 16. Ephesians 5:32 Ephesians 5:32A mystery Marriage is Gods Idea Created for Relationship as sexual beings Initiator Responder
- 17. Genesis 1:28 dress &keep the garden subdue – under control dominion – be in charge Image Bearer male Impact
- 19. Genesis 2:15,19-20 Take careof the garden Name all the animals Image Bearer male Impact
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- 23. Genesis 2:18, 20 Nolonger alone helper suitable for Adam
- 24. Genesis 2:18, 20 Nolonger alone helper suitable for Adam companion / helper corresponds to: Intimacy
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- 26. Intimacy Created for Significance Impact PerfectGarden: Significance from relationship with God and dominion over animals/ Garden Significance from relationship with God and Adam
- 27. Intimacy Created for Significance Impact PerfectGarden: Worship in service Worship in relationship
- 28. Ephesians 5:32 Ephesians 5:32A mystery Marriage is Gods Idea Created for Relationship as sexual beings Initiator Responder Intimacy Created for Significance Impact
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- 34. Hebrew for Male Zakar Thepointed one Created for Relationship as sexual beings Hebrew for Female Neqevah The pierced one Initiator Responder
- 35. Created for Relationship ResponderInitiator BrokenRelationship ControlPassivity
- 37. To the womanhe said, “I will greatly increase your pains in childbearing; with pain you will give birth to children. Your desire will be for your husband, and he will rule over you.”
- 38. 5:22 Wives, submitto you husbands as to the Lord, 5:23 because the husband is the head of the wife as also Christ is the head of the church – he himself being the savior of the body. 5:24 But as the church submits to Christ, so also wives should submit to their husbands in everything. Ephesians 5
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- 47. Ephesians 5:32 Ephesians 5:32A mystery Marriage is Gods Idea Created for Relationship as sexual beings Initiator Responder Intimacy Created for Significance Impact
- 48. Created for Relationship ResponderInitiator IntimacyImpact BrokenRelationship ControlPassivity ColdSlave Driver
- 49. In a demandfor impact outside of God, men become: Angry Avoider Driven Performer workaholics
- 50. Women use distance closedown to protect their hearts from the hurt and hunger for relationship or find substitutes
- 51. Husbands Move into theChaos at home with Love
- 52. Wives Respond to thehusbands movement with Respect
- 53. Ephesians 5:32 Marriage isGods Created for Relationship Initiator Responder Intimacy Created for Significance Impact Respect Christ and the Church Love
- 54. 5:25 Husbands, loveyour wives just as Christ loved the church and gave himself for her 5:26 to sanctify her by cleansing her with the washing of the water by the word, Ephesians 5
- 55. 5:27 so thathe may present the church to himself as glorious – not having a stain or wrinkle, or any such blemish, but holy and blameless. 5:28 In the same way husbands ought to love their wives as their own bodies. He who loves his wife loves himself. Ephesians 5
- 56. 5:29 For noone has ever hated his own body but he feeds it and takes care of it, just as Christ also does the church, 5:30 for we are members of his body. Ephesians 5
- 57. 5:31 For thisreason a man will leave his father and mother and will be joined one flesh. – but I am actually speaking with reference to Christ and the church. Ephesians 5
- 58. Ephesians 5:32 Marriage isGods Created for Relationship Initiator Responder Intimacy Created for Significance Impact Christ and the Church Love
- 60. Love causes youto think first of the other person I’d like to have a new snow machine, but Kathy needs a new washing machine more.
- 61. How does ahusband deal with a wife who is not obeying the Word? Confide in 1 or 2 other Men Know and understand her Take time to talk Be a true lover drawing out her desire Be a true leader making decisions in her best interest Share Kindly from scripture (wash with the water of the word)
- 62. How does ahusband deal with a wife who is not obeying the Word? Don’t get bitter Set an example by how you submit to your head Jesus Christ. Talk about it!
- 63. Ephesians 5:32 Marriage isGods Created for Relationship Initiator Responder Intimacy Created for Significance Impact Respect Christ and the Church Love
- 64. Created for Relationship ResponderInitiator RespectLove IntimacyImpact BrokenRelationship ControlPassivity DisrespectUn Love ColdSlave Driver
- 65. Men who feel disrespectedrun away into Selfish & Unloving actions
- 66. Women who feel unlovedcome across as disrespectful
- 68. “However . .. Let the wife see that she respects and reverences her husband . . .” Notices him Regards him Honors him Prefers him (Ephesians 5:33 Amplified) Venerates & esteems him Defers to him Praises him Love and admires him
- 69. What can wivesdo whose husbands drink and beat them or their children? Keep a clean house Praise and Build him up in whatever way possible Build him up before the children in what ever way possible Let the police take him, don’t send him out of the house Discipline the children
- 70. A Woman’s twomost powerful weapons against a husband who does not obey God are: 1. Silence 2. Prayer
- 71. Created for Relationship ResponderInitiator RespectLove IntimacyImpact BrokenRelationship ControlPassivity DisrespectUn Love ColdSlave Driver
- 72. Ephesians 5:32 Marriage isGods Created for Relationship Initiator Responder Intimacy Created for Significance Impact Respect Christ and the Church Love HelperProvider
- 73. Husbands Move into theChaos of a cursed world as a Provider
- 74. Wives Look for waysto come along side as a Helper
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- 76. 3:1 In thesame way, wives, be subject to your own husbands. Then even if some are disobedient to the word, they will be won over without a word by the way you live, 3:2 when they see your pure and reverent conduct.
- 77. 3:3 Let yourbeauty not be external – 3:4 but the inner person of the heart, the lasting beauty of a gentle and tranquil spirit, which is precious in God’s sight. 3:5 For in the same way the holy women who hoped in God long ago adorned themselves by being subject to their husbands,
- 78. 3:7 Husbands, inthe same way, treat your wives with consideration as the weaker partners and show them honor as fellow heirs of the grace of life. In this way nothing will hinder your prayers.
- 79. Ephesians 5:32 Marriage isGods Created for Relationship Initiator Responder Intimacy Created for Significance Impact Respect Christ and the Church Love Provider
- 81. 17 To Adamhe said, “Because you listened to your wife and ate from the tree about which I commanded you, ‘You must not eat of it,’ “Cursed is the ground because of you; through painful toil you will eat of it all the days of your life. 18 It will produce thorns and thistles for you, and you will eat the plants of the field. 19 By the sweat of your brow you will eat your food until you return to the ground, since from it you were taken; for dust you are and to dust you will return.
- 82. If anyone doesnot provide for his relatives, and especially for his immediate family, he has denied the faith and is worse than an unbeliever. 1 Timothy 5:8
- 83. In the sweatof your face you shall eat bread Till you return to the ground, For out of it you were taken; For dust you are, And to dust you shall return.“ Genesis 3:19
- 84. Exodus 21:10 Ifhe marries another woman, he must not deprive the first one of her food, clothing and marital rights.
- 85. 1 Cor. 7:3The husband should fulfill his marital duty to his wife, and likewise the wife to her husband. 4 The wife’s body does not belong to her alone but also to her husband. In the same way, the husband’s body does not belong to him alone but also to his wife.
- 86. Do not depriveeach other except by mutual consent and for a time, so that you may devote yourselves to prayer. Then come together again so that Satan will not tempt you because of your lack of self-control.
- 87. Ephesians 5:32 Marriage isGods Created for Relationship Initiator Responder Intimacy Created for Significance Impact Respect Christ and the Church Love HelperProvider
- 88. 3:1 In thesame way, wives, be subject to your own husbands. Then even if some are disobedient to the word, they will be won over without a word by the way you live, 3:2 when they see your pure and reverent conduct.
- 89. Broken Relationship ControlPassivity DisrespectUn Love ColdSlaveDriver RescuerUse (leach)
- 90. When life isto difficult, when providing like God asks seems to hard, men escape to addictions, pleasure, temporary diversions
- 91. Instead of coming alongside as helpers, Women move into a rescuing role, become a “second mother” Often out of goodwill to help their husbands grow, become better, but sometimes out of a demand to meet their needs. This ends up emasculating and driving their husbands away.
- 92. Ephesians 5:32 Marriage isGods Created for Relationship Initiator Responder Intimacy Created for Significance Impact Respect Christ and the Church Love HelperProvider
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