The document contains lyrics from a song advocating living freely and making the most of life. It also contains a passage criticizing how society teaches girls to make themselves smaller and limit their ambitions and independence in order to avoid threatening men or competing with other girls for male attention. The passage advocates for raising girls to see each other as collaborators rather than competitors and to embrace their sexuality in the same way boys are.

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2. LIVE YOUR LIFE

3. GRAB
A HOLD
DON’T
O
LET

4. FLY…
B4 THEY
TURN THE
LIGHTS
OUT

5. WE LAUGHED AT THE DARKNESS
SO SCARED THAT WE LOST IT
WE STOOD ON THE CEILINGS
YOU SHOWED ME LOVE
WAS ALL WE NEEDED

6. ‚WE TEACH GIRLS TO SHRINK THEMSELVES, TO MAKE
THEMSELVES SMALLER. WE SAY TO GIRLS: ‘YOU CAN
HAVE AMBITION BUT NOT TOO MUCH. YOU SHOULD AIM
TO BE SUCCESSFUL BUT NOT TOO SUCCESSFUL.
OTHERWISE YOU WILL THREATEN THE MAN.’
BECAUSE I AM FEMALE, I AM EXPECTED TO ASPIRE TO
MARRIAGE. I AM EXPECTED TO MAKE MY LIFE CHOICES
ALWAYS KEEPING IN MIND THAT MARRIAGE IS THE MOST
IMPORTANT. NOW MARRIAGE CAN BE A SOURCE OF JOY
AND LOVE AND MUTUAL SUPPORT, BUT WHY DO WE TEACH
GIRLS TO ASPIRE TO MARRIAGE AND WE DON’T TEACH
BOYS THE SAME?
WE RAISE GIRLS TO SEE EACH OTHER AS COMPETITORS,
NOT FOR JOBS OR FOR ACCOMPLISHMENTS, WHICH I
THINK CAN BE A GOOD THING, BUT FOR THE ATTENTION
OF MEN. WE TEACH GIRLS THAT THEY CANNOT BE
SEXUAL BEINGS IN THE WAY THAT BOYS ARE.
FEMINIST: A PERSON WHO BELIEVES IN THE SOCIAL,