Slides for a talk given by Susan Fochler on May 2, 2015 at Blazing Fire Church. What keeps us "stuck"? What can help with issues of self-pity and shame? The audio of this talk can be found at: http://blazingfire.podbean.com/e/getting-past-your-past-susan-fochler/ For more about Blazing Fire, please go to blazingfire.org