Devin saves Bryce's life after finding him injured on the side of the road. He donates blood and pays for Bryce's extensive medical treatment. The two men bond over Bryce's recovery and become close friends. Though Bryce offers to repay Devin, Devin says the greatest repayment is their friendship. The document discusses the importance, benefits, and different types of friendship. It also explores what makes a good friend versus a toxic one and how to repair broken friendships.

1. Friendship
One day, Devin (born to a wealthy American father and a British mother)
was zooming around in his Bugatti Veyron car, when he noticed a passerby whose
knee was bleeding profusely. Devin stopped the car abruptly and rushed the
comatose man to Lenox Hill hospital, where he was placed on a gurney to be
wheeled to the trauma department. On the advice of the doctors, Devin donated his
blood, and subsequently, the patient underwent a major surgery successfully. Upon
the patient’s arrival from the operation theatre, he was kept in the I.C.U. for a few
hours before being shifted to a lavish private room at the behest of Devin. The
patient regained consciousness after a couple of hours. His body started to make
movements and he was able to speak. He asked the male nurse (who was wearing
navy trousers and a white tunic with blue epaulets) who had saved him. The nurse
answered “Mr. Devin.” On entering the room, sitting beside the patient and holding
his hands, Devin asked, “Sir, what’s your good name?” “I am Bryce,” the patient
replied. “So, Mr. Bryce, I am glad to tell you that you will be discharged after 10
days,” Devin remarked. He spent entire days at the hospital and arranged for Bryce
to receive assistance at night till he was discharged. Devin settled all hospital bills
through his MasterCard.
Devin welcomed Bryce to his house (which had a built-in barbecue, a
garden with mature shrubs and pine trees, and balconies and terraces that were well
covered by awnings), and they enjoyed a sumptuous dinner. After a long chat, both
got to know each other and became close friends from then on. Though Bryce
offered to repay Devin to show his gratitude (in the form of money), Devin had
this to say, “Hey dude, just be my friend. It is the greatest form of gratitude you
can offer me.”
Man is a social creature. He cannot lead life in ostracism. He needs the
company of like-minded people to share his ideas; discuss his plans; and laugh,
play, and enjoy. There are numerous relationships we share with others, but
friendship, a special bond between people, takes precedence over most types of
relationships. Friendship is required for a person’s emotional sustenance, or in
other words, friendship dispels emotional loneliness. Friendship brings an
unimaginable positive energy into your life. Friendships are our invaluable

2. possessions. That is why Aristotle said, “Without friends no one would choose to
live, though he had all other goods.”
Friendship is a human necessity. The television show “Friends” struck a
chord with its audience as it splendidly illustrated the theme of friendship. There
are different types of friends such as acquaintances, social friends, work friends,
good friends, and best friends.
In today’s digital world, it has become easier to create and nurture
friendship, courtesy of email communication, instant messaging, chat rooms, social
networking, and SMS.
Many people could not agree with me more when I say that a person
should sow seeds of friendship early in order to have lifelong companions. When a
friendship is still in its infancy, it is akin to a teeny-weeny tree, but with committed
effort and proper care, the roots of friendship become deeper. It evolves into a
gigantic tree. Then, irrespective of how unpleasant the weather is, how gusty the
wind is, it might buffet the branches but not the tree. When we have a pile of
troubles, friends lend their support either physically or psychologically or
emotionally. They are troubleshooters.
Believe in long-term friendships. Add numerous years to your friendship.
Harvest the gains.
Willie (speaking highly about his friend): “I have a great mental tuning
with Alvaro, to the extent that we are one soul living in two bodies. The spark is
still fresh and alive even after decades of our friendship. He has avuncular
affection toward me. He loves me warts and all. He is an extension of my family.
He has been my knight in shining armor and a talisman throughout my life. He is a
sweet person, a teddy bear. Alvaro, you are, in no uncertain terms, a great
discovery for me. I am the biggest winner.”
Friendliness vs. unfriendliness
Deacon and Shamar started an overly ambitious, grand-scale business.
Deacon was good-natured and amiable. Showing empathy toward others’ problems

3. was of paramount importance to him. His life revolved around making
contributions to the needy (the poorest of the poor). On the other hand, Shamar
was proud as a peacock. He gave a brusque reply (a shabby way of treating others)
to anybody and everybody. People described him as a “maverick” and were fed up
with him.
Their business was booming like the New York Stock Exchange. However,
by an inexplicable twist of fate, after only eight months, the dream run ended as
their business went belly up. They were utterly astounded by the turn of events.
Guess who did the people prefer to help? Obviously, the friendly one (Deacon).
One cannot make friends if one is rude and full of oneself. Remember, pride
comes before a fall (this is thought to sum up the modern definition of hubris),
which means that if you are too confident about yourself, something unfortunate
will happen to show you that you are not as good as you think you are.
Fair-weather friend vs. all-weather friend
The shelf life of a fair-weather friend is short;
An all-weather friend is for a lifetime.
A fair-weather friend is only superficially involved in the relationship;
An all-weather friend shows 100% allegiance to the relationship.
A fair-weather friend pays lip service to your problems;
An all-weather friend is instrumental in solving your problems.
A fair-weather friend is found in plentiful numbers;
An all-weather friend is hard to find, and one is lucky to have him. He is like a
four-leaf clover.
A fair-weather friend is helpful to a limited extent;
An all-weather friend goes out-of-the-way to be helpful (with no strings
attached).

4. A fair-weather friend is a mere company;
An all-weather friend is a meaningful association.
A fair-weather friend no longer associates with you after a fall out;
An all-weather friend comes right away to sort out your differences, so that any
unhealthiness is resolved right away.
A fair-weather friend is obliging as long as he wants to be;
An all-weather friend is obliging till death.
A fair-weather friend has a vested interest in the relationship;
An all-weather friend has unconditional love for you.
The sad truth about friendships
It is extremely unfortunate that some “happening” friendships just peter
out. Even a last-ditch effort cannot save them from sinking. When these things
happen, it is hard to come to grips with the situation.
Here is a list of reasons why some rocking friendships meet with accidents –
(1 ) A pronounced change in the attitude of a friend
(2 ) Showdowns
(3 ) Taking the friendship for granted
(4 ) Insufficient devotion of time to the friendship
Ginny said, “I moved to a new place. It was far away from where my
friend (Dominic) lived. In addition, I got caught up in my work. Consequently, I
had virtually no time to be in touch with him. The years rolled by, but we had no
contact. Finally, I realized, our friendship was as good as over.”

5. Bob remarked, “I couldn’t help thinking of Sam as an erstwhile friend
because the communication between us was almost nil (even in this cyberspace
generation) over the years. It is sad to have lost Sam, a real personal loss.”
How do you fix a broken friendship?
Fights are common in a friendship. However, they should be short-lived.
Let us consider the various damage-controlling measures –
(1 ) Hold out an olive branch by saying ruefully, “I made a mistake, sorry!”
(2) Get together in a calm, private place and have an unvarnished conversation
on issues that led to the temporary friction in your friendship. At no point, should
you get into a finger-pointing exercise.
(3 ) Tell him unequivocally how significant his friendship is to you.
(4 ) Shake off the differences once and for all.
(5) Do not seek the help of a third person to repair the damage. After all, both of
you are friends and are capable of solving the differences amicably.
Types of toxic friends
(1) The competitor: he always makes it a point to dwarf all his rivals in order to
stay ahead in the race. He has overweening arrogance. He is in every sense of the
word, a braggart.
(2) The backstabber: his ostensible purpose is to make friends with you, but his
real goal is to deceive you. Shucks! He is a kind of pseudo-friend who stabs you
from behind. However, in due course of time, he will get a dose of his own
medicine.
(3) The double-crosser: he makes you dance to his own tunes. He plays games
with you.

6. (4) The user: he does not give you the slightest idea of what is going on in his
mind. He makes you fall into the clutches of his guileful moves. There is an aura of
wickedness about him.
(5) The (bloodsucking) blackmailer: he creates a mountain of pressure (by
adopting unethical and unlawful methods) to get his work done.
(6) The promise breaker: he cannot keep his promises. He lets people down.
Because of this Achilles heel, his credibility is often doubtful.
(7) The fault-finder: he looks for faults in you as if he is in contention for a
coveted trophy. He wants to throw you off-balance, which is what he always does.
Passing mention: If you have a friend who is annoying, then you had better
look inside yourself and ask yourself this vital question: “Is it worth continuing my
friendship with this person?” I am sure the voice will answer with a powerful
“No.”