We all know that women like confident men, but what exactly do we need to be confident about?

1. ABOUT ME
Chief started
learning pickup
and seduction
in 2003. He has
extensive
Focus Your Confidence experience in
not only dating
plenty of
As a newbie learning the pickup arts, you learned that confidence is attractive, so
wonderful
you decided to act more confidently when you’re interacting with women. What are women, but also
you confident about, though? Where should the focus of your confidence be? in teaching
other men how
Is your focus on being confident in how good you look? to be successful
Is your focus on being confident in your ability to attract women? in their love
lives. His views
Is your focus on being confident in how great you smell?
on seduction
Is your focus on being confident in how smooth your approach is?
and dating have
Is your focus on being confident in how great you’re going to make her feel? been largely
Is your focus on being confident in how great you’ve made other women feel? influenced by
Is your focus on being confident in general? his experience
as a musical
You have to keep all those kind of things in the back of your mind, but that stuff isn’t performer,
American
what you should be focusing on. Wherever your focus is, it has to be here in the now
now.
culture, and Zen
That’s why you shouldn’t focus on how great you’re going to make her feel, or your
Buddhism.
past successes. If your focus isn’t in the present tense, you will lose the rhythm of [Read More …]
your pickup, just like losing the beat when you’re playing in a band. You can easily
start misreading her signals and end up either ejecting when you shouldn’t or
harassing her. Bad.
“Well, what do I focus my confidence on, then, Chief?”
Focus your confidence on your desire for her here and now.
http://chiefpua.com/focus-your-confidence/

2. There is a difference between having desire (intent) for a girl with and without
confidence. A man focused on his desire without confidence comes off as needy and
value-taking. He doesn’t know whether or not he deserves the hot babe he’s talking
to. He has some strong feelings swirling on inside of him because he’s entranced by
her beauty, but when he’s given a regular window of opportunity he will not
escalate. Basically, he isn’t confident about his desire, but the desire is certainly
there. He’s just too caught up in memories of the past and potential consequences of
the future to be here in the now with his relentless desire.
On the other hand you have a man who is totally confident in his unapologetic
desire for the woman right in front of him. Gunwitch might say that he’s properly
using sexual state. He isn’t concerned about anything other than what is happening
here and now and he is enjoying every step of his sarging journey. He is completely
confident that he wants her now and will take her when she gives him a window of
opportunity. He knows he deserves what he wants. And, guess what? He’s got
rhythm and can’t “fuck up” his sarge like guy number 1 can.
Chief
FILED UNDER: SEDUCTION LESSONS
http://chiefpua.com/focus-your-confidence/