How Important are you?
Father-to-be
Men feels either
• “Glad its not me” or
• “Wish I could be
pregnant”
In Birthing Better Pink Kit
method men are
Birth support/coach
How Important are you?
Men experience Couvade
or proxy birth symptoms
Birthing Traditional Cultures
• “Women’s business” – all
women family members or
relatives only
• Skilled birth attendants
• Pregnant go off alone
NO FATHERS-TO-BE!
Modern Maternity
System
All about
Mother-to-be and Baby
With the birth professionals
Father-to-be are welcome
But often left out because
they lack knowledge
Modern Maternity
System
Fathers depend on
• Obstetricians or
• Midwives
NO!
Fathers should support
And coach
Are you a birth Coach or
Support?
Hersey and Blanchard’s Situational
Leadership
Direct: tell others what to do but with
little encouragement
Delegate: give no encouragement or
help
Support: give lots of encouragement
but little help
Coach: give lots of support and help
when necessary
Birth Coach or Support?
• Help your partner
• Learn the skills
• Practice teamwork
• Provide emotional support-
love, encouragement and
strength
The Pink Kit: Tool Kit for
Practical Skills
Things that will be noticed
• your ability to help your partner.
• good communication between
the two of you.
• her appreciation of your help.
Get involve! Learn from
other birth videos
Don’t Let Yourself
be Left Out
Practice with her
• Breathing and relaxation skills
• Communicate
• Help her cope with the pain
Coach and support
Don’t let yourself
be left out!
Don’t let yourself
be left out
• Help your partner
• Learn the skills
• Practice teamwork
• Provide emotional support-
love, encouragement and
strength
Birthing Better Pink Kit
Produced by Common Knowledge Trust
www.thepinkkit.com

Father-to-be ... Become a skilled birth coach

  • 2.
    How Important areyou? Father-to-be Men feels either • “Glad its not me” or • “Wish I could be pregnant” In Birthing Better Pink Kit method men are Birth support/coach
  • 3.
    How Important areyou? Men experience Couvade or proxy birth symptoms Birthing Traditional Cultures • “Women’s business” – all women family members or relatives only • Skilled birth attendants • Pregnant go off alone NO FATHERS-TO-BE!
  • 4.
    Modern Maternity System All about Mother-to-beand Baby With the birth professionals Father-to-be are welcome But often left out because they lack knowledge
  • 5.
    Modern Maternity System Fathers dependon • Obstetricians or • Midwives NO! Fathers should support And coach
  • 6.
    Are you abirth Coach or Support? Hersey and Blanchard’s Situational Leadership Direct: tell others what to do but with little encouragement Delegate: give no encouragement or help Support: give lots of encouragement but little help Coach: give lots of support and help when necessary
  • 7.
    Birth Coach orSupport? • Help your partner • Learn the skills • Practice teamwork • Provide emotional support- love, encouragement and strength
  • 8.
    The Pink Kit:Tool Kit for Practical Skills Things that will be noticed • your ability to help your partner. • good communication between the two of you. • her appreciation of your help. Get involve! Learn from other birth videos
  • 9.
    Don’t Let Yourself beLeft Out Practice with her • Breathing and relaxation skills • Communicate • Help her cope with the pain Coach and support Don’t let yourself be left out!
  • 10.
    Don’t let yourself beleft out • Help your partner • Learn the skills • Practice teamwork • Provide emotional support- love, encouragement and strength
  • 11.
    Birthing Better PinkKit Produced by Common Knowledge Trust www.thepinkkit.com