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Child marriage
A presemtation against Child marriage
By
Sonu
Govt. sr. sec. school(1002),Hodal,PAlWAL
What does child marriage means for GIRLS
Poverty-More likely to be poor and remain poor
Education-Drop out of school
Inequality-Little say when and whom they will marry
Health- 5 times more likely to marry when children
HIV/AIDS-High risk of HIV/AIDS
Violence
What is Child?
What is Child?A person who, if a male, has not completed twenty one years of age and, if a female has not completed eighteen years of age.
What is Child marriage?
According to UNICEF, child marriage is a formal or informal union before the age of 18.
Child Marriages continue to be solemnized in a large number of countries. This practice is a serious threat to child protection with adverse impact on their education, health and empowerment. The presentation discusses different issues connected with the problem.
Forced marriage is a neglected issue , due to the fact that it is only practiced in growing countries , This presentation talks briefly about this issue , listing facts and some examples
This presentation is prepared and used by Dr. Vivencio (Ven) Ballano for his talk on "Gender Inequality in the Philippines and the Workplace." It aims to explain gender relations and inequality in the Philippines, particularly in the workplace. It has 3 major parts. The first part introduces the sociology of gender, feminism, and 3 major feminist theories. The second part discusses gender relations and inequality in the Philippines, especially in law and legislation. The last part broadly deals with gender discrimination in employment, role, and workplace, as well as sexual harassment.
Copyright reverts to the owners of the photos, pictures, infographics, and other materials used in this presentation.
Child marriage
A presemtation against Child marriage
By
Sonu
Govt. sr. sec. school(1002),Hodal,PAlWAL
What does child marriage means for GIRLS
Poverty-More likely to be poor and remain poor
Education-Drop out of school
Inequality-Little say when and whom they will marry
Health- 5 times more likely to marry when children
HIV/AIDS-High risk of HIV/AIDS
Violence
What is Child?
What is Child?A person who, if a male, has not completed twenty one years of age and, if a female has not completed eighteen years of age.
What is Child marriage?
According to UNICEF, child marriage is a formal or informal union before the age of 18.
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3. Divorce scenario
January 30, 2013:
Statistics- only 1 out
of 100 Indian
marriages end up to a
divorce which is quite
low in comparison to
America’s 50% of
marriages turning into
breakups.
The divorce rate in
Indian villages is even
lower in comparison
to urban India.
Sweden – 54.9%
United States – 54.8%
Russia – 43.3%
United Kingdom – 42.6
Germany – 39.4%
Israel – 14.8%
Singapore – 17.2%
Japan – 1.9%
Srilanka – 1.5%
India – 1.1%
4. Recent
“The past one year has witnessed 43,000 divorces
Owing to the awareness relating to men’s rights
nationwide, the number of divorce by mutual consent
has also gone up. Today, statistics shows 60 per cent
of the divorces is by mutual consent.
Among states with the highest number of divorces,
Maharashtra topped the list in the past year,
accounting for nearly 20,000 cases, with Mumbai
and Pune alone accounting for 15,000 of them, while
the remaining were reported from Nashik,
Aurangabad and Nagpur
5. Around five years ago, the ratio was one
divorce per 1,000 marriages in India , and
today statistics indicate that there are 13
divorces for every 1,000 marriage.
20% of first marriages fail after 5 years, 33%
after 10 years whereas 43% end in divorce after
15 years.Divorce rates in The IT sector are
higher as compared to other sectors.
“There’s been a 100 percent increase in divorce
rates in the past five years alone. They don’t
want to put more efforts into a relationship to fix
the issues.”
6. The possible reasons
The influence of NUCLEAR (vibhakta kutumba)
family VS JOINT family ekatrit kutumba sanstha
“mothyancha dhaak naahi”
Want of freedom ....”Bandhna pasun mukti hawi
aahe....swechchene jaganyachi ichcha”
Are they able to handle responsibility of the
freedom.
More expenses. More loans, More chores for the
house and kids.—leads to every day stress.
Gender Equality. Changing social roles and social
expectations for both men and women (sometimes
both are confused)
Drawing Boundaries
7. Gender roles
Patriarchal Vs Matriarchal society
Purushpradhan Vs Matrupradhan sanskriti.
Women earning and driving a car...pan gaadi
band padali tar nawaryala phone karatat and
tyane yawe ashi apeksha asate. Kiti purush
gaadi band padali mhanun bayakola bolawatat ?
Women are working and are out of house, but
are the men fully trained and domesticated ?
They might do things for their wife, but we cant
expect either of them to be perfect in their
gender role of fending and caring for a family
8. The sexual beings
Equality in all spheres also on the marital bed!
Whose responsibility it is
Increased incidence of PCOS, infertility and stress
Exposure to internet porn films- knowledge or
revulsion ?
Homo sexuality / Bisexuality/ heterosexuality
9. Complaints related to sex life-
threatening to divorce
Claims for impotency / frigidity
He/she can not satisfy me
Claims about penile size
Unconsummated marriages
Complaints about too less/infrequent sex –
esp by women
He cant last long enough
Very few complaints of alcoholism/tobacoo
use directly
10. Proximity of girls’ parents
Ekulti ek ladaki mulagi- want her to be
happy and comfortable
Not afraid of divorce as a social stigma
“aamhi aahot “
New set of expectations from the
SIL....he should earn and cook and
clean...babysit etc
“mula la changala swaympak yeto ka”
11. The growing psychological and
financial independence of
women
IT industry: 30 % more divorce cases
than the normal population
Alternate shifts. Rarely meet each other.
Bring home work. Or come home only to
sleep.
No more a place to cook, socialise,
entertain family and friends
12. ATTITUDE
Money, cars, fancy electronic gadgets
like i-phones, lappies.
Weave a world of their own- a virtual
world
HIGHLY EGOISTIC AND SELF
CENTERED
If your car breaks or laptop hangs you
take care of it..I have my own things to
do.
13. Late marriages
Greater reluctance to compromise or
change set ways and lifestyles
Age between 20 to 30. Transition from
curiosity experimentation to settling in a
life style and way of thinking and
behaving
PERSONAL SPACE
JOB LOCATION
15. Getting married
Why do we get married to a particular person ?
Addhyarut aahe ki ...tya wyakti barobar jastit jasta
vel ghalwayacha, sukh dukhkha watun ghyachi....ek
mekana sukh dyayache...support aaddhar ....
Company: Be with some one –not alone
Sharing: dreams, daily TV shows, picnics, daily work
chores
Support – financial, emotional, physical
Romance- sex
Procreation – having children, bearing child and
rearing it !
16. Old goals replaced by new life
realities
Company- work and colleagues
Sharing: whatsapp and fb. Virtual chats.
Constant and ongoing. One may never meet
the person in flesh and blood. And Ignore the
one who is next to you.
Gas sampala tar chalel..but internet plan
sampla nahi pahije.
support. Finances ...different, self sufficient
Emotions taken care by status messages
Physical needs ....there are always options !
Romance- Procreation ??
17. Extra marital affairs
Long hours spent with others
Travelling together, more sense of sharing
and closeness because -sharing work
problems ---which are omniscient and
never ending.
Durun dongar sajare...grass is greener on
the other side
Partying – equal use of alcohol, cigarettes,
charas, cocaine, prescription drugs.
When high...Alcohol removes inhibitions.
18. GREED HAS NO UPPER
LIMIT
Money is POWER. I CAN GET ANYTHING
THAT I FANCY.
○ I want that i-phone, that vintage car, that
diamond, that property.
○ ESCALATES INTO....Je dusaryakade aahe te
mala pahije aahe. HAWYAAS . GREED
○ REFUSAL TO ACKNOWLEDGE WHAT YOU
HAVE AND COUNT YOUR BLESSINGS
○ NOTHING IS ENOUGH
○ Need to earn more....need to enjoy
more...because I am stressed. ...Need to earn
more because I have health problems....so more
stressed so more health problems.
19. Sexual problems
Unconsummated marriage
Sexual frustration in either or both
partners. E.g PE, P size
Mismatched desire and performance
Mismatch in the reasons why have
sex....enjoyment / procreation
Looking for outlet
Lack of sexual communication
20. EMAs
Extra marital affairs as well as premarital
sex and polygamy rising
Easier options for birth control and STD
prevention
Condoms and I-pills available over the
counter
Irrational use without medical
prescription and supervision
22. Good enough sex model
Unrealistic expectations
Vs
Real life experience
23. Roller coaster world of fact and
fiction
Addictions –alcohol, cigarette smoking,
drugs
Group activities - picnics, parties, dance
at discotheques, marathons
Also include hukkah dates, party drugs,
watching 3x films, swap parties, orgies
and endless gossip amongst both men
and women.
Rising number opportunities – homo sex
24. INSIGHTS
Intolerance – sahanshakti
Ego centric – dominance in relationship
Cohabiting
Frustration – Udweg ! Feeling of being victimised
..what about me ? What about my happiness?
Mala koni vicharat nahi !
Contempt – tiraskaar –tuchchha : lack of respect
accompanied by a feeling of intense dislike
open disrespect for a person or thing
A willful disobedience to or disrespect for the
authority of a court or legislative body
Revenge – sooda bhavana – hostility ---sudatwa
chi bhavana
25. (l) Any marriage which is solemnized, whether before or
after the commencement of the Hindu marriage Act, may
be Dissolved by a decree of divorce, by either the
Husband or the wife presenting the petition on the
following grounds:
(i) Firstly having had voluntary sexual intercourse with
any person other than his or her spouse
(ia) Secondly has treated the petitioner with cruelty after
marriage;
Divorce laws
26. or
(ib) Thirdly: has deserted the petitioner for a
continuous period of not less than two years
immediately preceding the presentation of the
petition; or
(ii) Fourthly has changed is religion and has ceased
to be a Hindu by conversion to another religion; or
*(iii) has been incurably of unsound mind, or has
been suffering continuously or intermittently from
mental disorder of such a kind and to such an extent
that the petitioner cannot reasonably be expected to
live with the respondent.
27. (iv) has been suffering from a virulent and incurable form
of leprosy; or (v) has been suffering from venereal
disease in a communicable form; or (vi) has renounced
the world by entering any religious order; or
(vii) has not been heard of as being alive for a period of
seven years or more by those persons who would
naturally have heard of it, and that party been alive;
28. (lA) Either party to a marriage, whether solemnized
before or after the commencement of this Act, may also
present a petition for the dissolution of the marriage by a
decree of divorce on the ground-
(i) that there has been no resumption of cohabitation as
between the parties to the marriage for a period of
one year or upwards after the passing of a decree for
judicial separation in a proceeding to which they were
parties; or
(ii) that there has been no restitution of conjugal rights
as between the parties to the marriage for a period of
one year or upwards after the passing of a decree for
restitution of conjugal rights in a proceeding to which
they were parties.
29. (2) A wife may also present a petition for the dissolution of her
marriage by a decree of divorce on the ground,-
(i) in the case of any marriage solemnized before the
commencement of this Act, that the husband had married again
before such commencement or that any other wife of the husband
married before such commencement was alive at the time of the
solemnization of the marriage of the petitioner; Provided that in
either case the other wife is alive at the time of the presentation of
the petition; or
(ii) that the husband has, since the solemnization of the marriage,
been guilty of rape, sodomy or bestiality; or
(iii) that in a suit under section 18 of the Hindu Adoptions and
Maintenance Act, 1956, or in a proceeding under section 125 of
the Code of Criminal Procedure, 1973 (or under the
corresponding section 488 of the Code of Criminal Procedure,
1898), a decree or order, as the case may be,
30. has been passed against the husband awarding
maintenance to the wife notwithstanding that she was
living apart and that since the passing of such decree
or order, cohabitation between the parties has not
been resumed for one year or upwards; or
(iv) that her marriage (whether consummated or not)
was solemnized before she attained the age of fifteen
years and she has repudiated the marriage after
attaining that age but before attaining the age of
eighteen years.
31. guide to making up with your
partner
Go over your priorities: chances are that
your spouse’s announcement on
wanting a divorce sent you reeling with
shock
you now have to ask yourself what you
really want and why. If you don’t want a
divorce, consider if the reasons for this
are strong enough to make you put in
time and effort to save the marriage.
32. guide to making up with your
partner
Despite what your spouse thinks, you may
be reasonably happy with your marriage or
even if you know things are far from
perfect, you still love your spouse and want
to make the marriage work.
On the other hand, divorce after the first
year may be relatively less messy and
expensive so whether you agree with your
spouse on the divorce of not, determine
your priorities and decide
33. Be calm
you need to understand and accept that a
breach has occurred. So when your
spouse announces, “I want a divorce”, you
can say, “I understand” or at least “I see”.
This implies that you perceive and accept
the reality that your marriage has ran into
rough weather.
if you respond to the announcement with
anger, denial, defensiveness and lengthy
explanations about why he/she is wrong
and you are right, then you will be losing
the endeavor even before it has begun
34. So be calm and reasonable
Let him/her go on talking and listen
quietly to all that they have to say. At the
end, your spouse may ask you if you
have anything to say or if you have any
questions. Politely tell him/her you don't
and that you need some time to digest
what you have just been told.
35. Consider the reasons/ Be
honest with yourself
spend some time by yourself in going over the
reasons.
Perhaps malicious or excessive interference
from parents on one side is the cause of your
marriage troubles or your spouse is appalled at
the extra expenses that a marriage entails.
maybe he/she is not the kind to take on the
responsibilities of running a household and thus
wants to move out
Only when you are able to zero in on the actual
reasons behind the
proposed divorce, can you do something to stop it.
36. Decide what you can change
if you are married less than a year, a court
can give you and your partner some time to
reconsider things. And this is the best
opportunity to bring in changes if you want
to keep your spouse from going ahead with
the divorce. See what changes in your
behaviour can make him/her rethink the
decision
if he wants to leave because you are still in
touch with your ex, consider how you can
prove to her that you have really moved on
and you are completely faithful.
37. It might be difficult if your spouse wants to leave
because he/she is having an affair, but even
here you can agree to give him/her whatever
she felt was lacking in the marriage like
emotional support, understanding and more
appreciation.
However stay away from whining, complaining
or giving evidence of your neediness. Instead of
pressurizing your spouse or defending yourself
with arguments, prove your willingness to
improve your marriage by actual noticeable
changes in your behavior. On the whole, be
calm, positive and pleasant these may not
immediately make him/her reverse the decision
but will convince him/her that things can change
and need not proceed to the point of no return.
38. Seek professional help
he/she continues to be adamant about a divorce or if
is unfaithful, abusive or anything that puts your life
and marriage at grave risk, suggest seeking marital
counselling.
Even if partner wife does not agree to go with you,
start going to a counsellor by yourself.
Therapy can help immensely in uncovering the
source of conflict and suggesting practical, impartial
and effective ways of resolving marital differences.
But more than that it can also let you know when the
pros of a divorce outweigh the cons and it may make
more sense to part ways in which case you may
think of making an appointment with a divorce
lawyer.
39. I FORGIVE YOU
.....................
FOR THE SAKE OF MY
OWN PEACE OF MIND
Dr Ashwini Vivek : Consulting @
Inamdar Multispeciality Hospital, Pune
REMEDIC Clinic Bajirao Rd Pune
Rucha Clinic Kondhwa Pune
M: 9822874215