(Marjo Searle-van Leeuwen, FNG-VOVK) Cross-Border cases, especially murders abroad, cause untold extra problems for the bereaved families. Not only are they affected by the deep trauma of the murder of a loved one, but they are extremely vulnerable and need practical as well as emotional support in order to cope. They face enormous difficulties in repatriating the body, obtaining information, translating documents and understanding the judicial processes in another country, another language, another culture. There is no clear and established way to provide support, it has not been incorporated into most existing Victim Support organisations. The UK Peer Support organisation "Murdered Abroad" (up to now known as SAMM-Abroad) has offered support and assistance, based on the experiences of their more than 200 members. In the Netherlands a group has been working in close relationship with SAMM-Abroad for the last 15 years, within the context of the FNG-VOVK formed by parents/relatives of murder victims. It is clear that there is at the moment a difference in levels of support, and that by taking better account of the needs of the bereaved, services could be made more effective. What those needs are for Cross-Border cases will be discussed using a survey of the experiences of more than 50 of the families bereaved by murder abroad: "Who cares for the Families'.