Discussion on who i am and "self"

1. Conflict & How
do I Cope?

2. What you should have
covered…..
The roles and
responsibilities of
each person in a
family.
5. Roles and
Responsibilities
Examine the 5 basic
functions of the
family.
4. Functions of the Family
Diifferent family types
and unions
3. Where do I belong?
How it develops via
the impact of th
environment and
heredity.
2. Your personality
Exploring you as a
unique individual.
1. Who am I

3. What we will examine
today….
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What is
conflict.
Causes of
conflict
Consequences
of conflict
How we
can
resolve it
Strategies
to cope.

4. What is conflict & other terms…
Conflict
Resolution
Conflict
Resolve /
resolution
Mediation
Conflict
Is the process of finding a
solution via a third party
person who is not directly
involved this person is called a
mediator.
Is a disagreement or clash of
views and opinions between 2
or more persons.
The steps involved in resolving
an issue or a problem.
To resolve something is to find
a solution which pleases the
parties involved.

5. Where can conflict
arise?
Disaagreements between
parents and childern or
siblings.
Issues or conflict may
arise amongst students in
a school.
You may have
disagreements with your
peers.
Problems can arise
between members of
clubs or teams.
At home
Friends
At school
Clubs / teams

6. Persons of diffrent age groups have different
views due to experience and this can cause conflict.
Some friends may have negative personality traits
Which you may adopt and it goes aganist your parents
Views and this may cause issues.
Conflict may arise between siblings
i.e. concepts of “favouritism”
Persons may clash simply because they are unable to
Accept a difference in views
What can cause
Conflict?
Generation gap
Choice of
friends
Sibling rivalry
Simply different
views

7. Some more causes of
conflict….
If a person cannot
accept direction or
advice by superiors it
may cause issues.
Problems with
authority
The use and abuse of
OTC and illicit drugs
can cause problems.
Drug Use
Non completion of
assignments, not
following rules and such
may cause issues at
school and with parents
Issues at School
Conflict ususally arises
between the individuals
involved in the senario of
bullying it gets complicated
when parents and authority
figures get involved.
Bullying
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8. At school conflict may
arise from
Taxing or
extortion of
money
Not
completing
assignments
Poor group
work
Issues with
peers
Flouting
school rules

9. Conflict arises from
what at home?
Disrespect ,
obscene
language and
verbal
altercations..
Not Complying
to rules.
Issues at
school
Friends….
Core
Values at
Home

10. Conflict in your neighbourhood can
come from……
Property issues.
Using obscene
language.
Playing loud music.
Theft and
vandalism

11. How we can resolve conflict?

12. Steps involved in solving
conflict….
1. Identify
the issue
2. Commit
to finding a
solution
3. Say your
view calmly
and clearly
4. Be open,
listen and
understand
5. Acknowledge
and forgive
6. Make personal
changes and work
together to make
sure it does not occur
again.

13. Healthy responses to
conflict are …..
Be open and
willing to listen.
Ability to hear
another persons
view .
Be Patient ….
Be kind…
Understand that this
is important to the
other person as
well.

14. Unhealthy Responses are….
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Psychological /
emotional abuse
Physical / Violent
altercations
Verbal Altercations
Acts of destruction or
making the person
uncomfortable.

15. Conflict can be good….
We become more
understanding and
tolerant.
We understand
each other
better.
We become
stronger personally.
We can make
friends

16. Dealing with conflict with a friend......

17. In closure…….
We can address
positively or
negatively.
We can learn
from conflict….
Conflict is
inevitable and all
around us.
We have many
alternatives in
adressing these
situations.
Reading
assignments will
be given in
google
classroom Pg.
26 – 31 in the
text.