The document discusses the author's personal journey in attempting to select the gender of their baby after having two boys, emphasizing that the surprise of a baby's sex is a cherished experience. After extensive research, the author found a program called 'Prince or Princess' that claims to help parents increase their chances of conceiving a child of a desired gender. The author warns that while planning can help, one must be prepared to love the baby regardless of its sex, as outcomes ultimately depend on nature.