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CHAPTER TWO 
PROMOTING SELF-PRAISE 
Even the virtue-less, when praised by others, are 
considered virtuous. And even Lord Indra is looked 
down upon when he praises his own self. 
8 | How a Good Person can Really Win 
— Hindu proverb 
Promoting self-praise to build one's own authority is an 
allied game to credit poaching. Just as Vile cannot brazenly 
grab other people's credit for the danger of being seen as 
a poacher, he cannot blow his own trumpet for the fear 
of looking vain. So he needs someone else to toot his horn. 
To get others to praise him, he uses the following 
strokes: 
Stroke A — Smiling gladly when praised. Vile smiles 
when he is praised. He leaves no doubt that he likes it. 
This way more praise comes his way.
Stroke B — Tell-them-what-we-did stroke. This stroke is 
used to encourage a subordinate to praise one's deeds 
before others. It is an open exhortation to hear a eulogy. 
Stroke C — Rewarding sycophancy. This is one of the 
deadliest strokes of Vile, wherein he labels flattery as 
positive attitude. He deliberately rewards the sycophant with 
promotions, higher increments, better job profiles and with 
visible perks such as a bigger car, a bigger office, all of 
which constitute the physical indicators of power. 
Once this stroke is played, the message, 'lick to leap' 
goes loud and clear to all the intelligent employees. Since 
an employee's performance at flattering is now directly 
proportionate to his growth in the organization, the quality, 
quantum and frequency of praise for Vile rise up 
tremendously. 
VILE — How He Operates | 9
Advice for Naive 
• When people brag, stay silent. 
• Flatter me, and I may not believe you. 
Criticize me, and I may not like you. 
Ignore me, and I may not forgive you. 
Encourage me, and I will not forget you. 
10 | How a Good Person can Really Win 
— William Arthur Ward 
Advice for Vile 
• Don't be seduced by self importance. It's not the 
whistle that pulls the train. 
• Never speak well of yourself if you wish your men to 
speak well of you. 
• Inauspicious events arise when you detest hearing 
about your errors. 
• When you start crowing, you stop growing. 
Advice for the Ruler 
• There is an abundance of junk praise and junk food. 
• Receive appreciation without feelings of superiority or 
false humility. 
• Prevent sycophancy in your organization by giving 
more recognition to teams than to individuals. 
• When the general brags, his assistants will have few 
attainments.
There is a fable about two dogs — Barbos and Joujoutka. 
One day, Barbos notices his old acquaintance Joujoutka 
seated comfortably on a soft cushion, and wonders how 
come her life has changed so much since they met. Earlier, 
they both used to suffer hunger, but now she lives in 
comfort, while Barbos still suffers from hunger, neglect and 
cruel whipping from his master. He asks Joujoutka what 
she does for being treated so well. She answers, "I walk 
upon my hind legs (to please my master)." 
Every organization usually has one such Vile who makes 
life uncomfortable for everyone else by polluting the 
workplace in order to satisfy his economic and personal 
ends. By trying to rise through genuflection, he brings 
down the standards of executive behaviour. He tries to 
wriggle to the top without any talent other than his 
obsequiousness. 
VILE — How He Operates | 31 
CHAPTER SEVEN 
INGRATIATING
Such a Vile prefers to take the elevator to the top. 
He understands if he submerges his ego to the powers-that- 
be, rewards shall ensue. Watch him at work. The 
professional ingratiator undergoes a complete 
metamorphosis when the bosses show up. Almost magically, 
he manages to distance himself from his colleagues, and 
gives the impression that he'd only been talking with them 
to keep them away from disobedience and rebellion. 
Often, such Viles flourish in environments where the 
boss is too full of himself. Sensing this, they may go to 
extreme lengths to feed the boss's vanity, by praising him 
openly and singing his song for him. Moreover, they justify 
their sycophancy by labeling it as a 'positive attitude' or by 
suggesting that it is an outcome of their undying 
admiration for their leader. They do not look at their 
reflections in the mirror and so never find out what 
caricatures they have become. They also do not care how 
they appear to others. There are broadly three Super Vile 
ingratiating strokes: 
Stroke A — Ingratiating through obsequious behaviour. 
In an organization in which first name usage is the norm 
he addresses his boss as Sir/Mister. You could see him 
carrying the senior's bag for him and through such toadying 
up vitiates the executive decorum which fellow employees 
strive to maintain. As he knows that by so doing he will 
win his vain boss's favour, who will prefer to have him 
around and he would then be able to walk in the Lion's 
shadow. 
32 | How a Good Person can Really Win
Stroke B — Ingratiating through gratitude. Vile 
convinces his master that his admiration for him stems 
from what his master has done for him in the past and is 
permanent. He differentiates himself from others by his 
eternal admiration and sincerity. Through this stroke, not 
only does he ingratiate the master, but qualifies for even 
bigger favours in the future. 
Stroke C — Unique taste-ingratiation. Here the Super 
Vile chooses a trait in the master that is unique, but 
neither noteworthy nor important. He blows out of 
proportion his admiration for this trait. The master, unsure 
in the beginning as to how to react, looks askance but 
finally starts taking the bow to his applause. Super Vile 
thus ties himself to his master with a unique string of 
ingratiation, which cannot be cut by any of the other Viles. 
Also, his gullible colleagues may see him not so much as 
a flatterer but a freak, with an unquenchable love for an 
uncommon trait. 
Advice for the Ruler 
• We love flattery, even though we are not deceived by it, 
because it shows that we are of importance enough to 
be courted. 
— Ralph Waldo Emerson 
• Do not let the productive and dignified people lose 
their rewards to co-workers who are compliant and 
worshipful. 
• Encourage the expression of independent opinions 
and display of courage of convictions rather than 
servility. 
VILE — How He Operates | 33

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Chamchagiri - sycophancy

  • 1.
  • 2. CHAPTER TWO PROMOTING SELF-PRAISE Even the virtue-less, when praised by others, are considered virtuous. And even Lord Indra is looked down upon when he praises his own self. 8 | How a Good Person can Really Win — Hindu proverb Promoting self-praise to build one's own authority is an allied game to credit poaching. Just as Vile cannot brazenly grab other people's credit for the danger of being seen as a poacher, he cannot blow his own trumpet for the fear of looking vain. So he needs someone else to toot his horn. To get others to praise him, he uses the following strokes: Stroke A — Smiling gladly when praised. Vile smiles when he is praised. He leaves no doubt that he likes it. This way more praise comes his way.
  • 3. Stroke B — Tell-them-what-we-did stroke. This stroke is used to encourage a subordinate to praise one's deeds before others. It is an open exhortation to hear a eulogy. Stroke C — Rewarding sycophancy. This is one of the deadliest strokes of Vile, wherein he labels flattery as positive attitude. He deliberately rewards the sycophant with promotions, higher increments, better job profiles and with visible perks such as a bigger car, a bigger office, all of which constitute the physical indicators of power. Once this stroke is played, the message, 'lick to leap' goes loud and clear to all the intelligent employees. Since an employee's performance at flattering is now directly proportionate to his growth in the organization, the quality, quantum and frequency of praise for Vile rise up tremendously. VILE — How He Operates | 9
  • 4. Advice for Naive • When people brag, stay silent. • Flatter me, and I may not believe you. Criticize me, and I may not like you. Ignore me, and I may not forgive you. Encourage me, and I will not forget you. 10 | How a Good Person can Really Win — William Arthur Ward Advice for Vile • Don't be seduced by self importance. It's not the whistle that pulls the train. • Never speak well of yourself if you wish your men to speak well of you. • Inauspicious events arise when you detest hearing about your errors. • When you start crowing, you stop growing. Advice for the Ruler • There is an abundance of junk praise and junk food. • Receive appreciation without feelings of superiority or false humility. • Prevent sycophancy in your organization by giving more recognition to teams than to individuals. • When the general brags, his assistants will have few attainments.
  • 5. There is a fable about two dogs — Barbos and Joujoutka. One day, Barbos notices his old acquaintance Joujoutka seated comfortably on a soft cushion, and wonders how come her life has changed so much since they met. Earlier, they both used to suffer hunger, but now she lives in comfort, while Barbos still suffers from hunger, neglect and cruel whipping from his master. He asks Joujoutka what she does for being treated so well. She answers, "I walk upon my hind legs (to please my master)." Every organization usually has one such Vile who makes life uncomfortable for everyone else by polluting the workplace in order to satisfy his economic and personal ends. By trying to rise through genuflection, he brings down the standards of executive behaviour. He tries to wriggle to the top without any talent other than his obsequiousness. VILE — How He Operates | 31 CHAPTER SEVEN INGRATIATING
  • 6. Such a Vile prefers to take the elevator to the top. He understands if he submerges his ego to the powers-that- be, rewards shall ensue. Watch him at work. The professional ingratiator undergoes a complete metamorphosis when the bosses show up. Almost magically, he manages to distance himself from his colleagues, and gives the impression that he'd only been talking with them to keep them away from disobedience and rebellion. Often, such Viles flourish in environments where the boss is too full of himself. Sensing this, they may go to extreme lengths to feed the boss's vanity, by praising him openly and singing his song for him. Moreover, they justify their sycophancy by labeling it as a 'positive attitude' or by suggesting that it is an outcome of their undying admiration for their leader. They do not look at their reflections in the mirror and so never find out what caricatures they have become. They also do not care how they appear to others. There are broadly three Super Vile ingratiating strokes: Stroke A — Ingratiating through obsequious behaviour. In an organization in which first name usage is the norm he addresses his boss as Sir/Mister. You could see him carrying the senior's bag for him and through such toadying up vitiates the executive decorum which fellow employees strive to maintain. As he knows that by so doing he will win his vain boss's favour, who will prefer to have him around and he would then be able to walk in the Lion's shadow. 32 | How a Good Person can Really Win
  • 7. Stroke B — Ingratiating through gratitude. Vile convinces his master that his admiration for him stems from what his master has done for him in the past and is permanent. He differentiates himself from others by his eternal admiration and sincerity. Through this stroke, not only does he ingratiate the master, but qualifies for even bigger favours in the future. Stroke C — Unique taste-ingratiation. Here the Super Vile chooses a trait in the master that is unique, but neither noteworthy nor important. He blows out of proportion his admiration for this trait. The master, unsure in the beginning as to how to react, looks askance but finally starts taking the bow to his applause. Super Vile thus ties himself to his master with a unique string of ingratiation, which cannot be cut by any of the other Viles. Also, his gullible colleagues may see him not so much as a flatterer but a freak, with an unquenchable love for an uncommon trait. Advice for the Ruler • We love flattery, even though we are not deceived by it, because it shows that we are of importance enough to be courted. — Ralph Waldo Emerson • Do not let the productive and dignified people lose their rewards to co-workers who are compliant and worshipful. • Encourage the expression of independent opinions and display of courage of convictions rather than servility. VILE — How He Operates | 33